I m in a hurry to go home for the New Year, please help

You carefully recall whether your wife has ever been back to your hometown with you and had any bad experiences, so she doesn't want to go back. There is nothing unreasonable in the world, Chinese are very traditional, especially in the New Year homecoming, your wife makes excuses that are indeed very reluctant, so she must have some special concerns or knots, you better talk to her openly and honestly, find out the crux of the problem, so as to get a better result.

Pay attention to the attitude you speak when talking, don't blame the other person, or be hostile, and make your wife feel that you are on the same line and with her.

Should be back. Strive to do the ideological work of being a wife.

Landlord, is your wife afraid of serving the elderly?

Where is your hometown? Remote?

You should be able to ask her skillfully to find out what he thinks!

Have an in-depth conversation with your family.

Family is the biggest motivation for us to go home, but it is often the person we tend to ignore the most. Don't think that sitting with them for Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, and watching the Spring Festival Gala with them with your mobile phone, is to accompany them.

In this leisure time, you might as well put down your mobile phone, have a long communication with your family, talk about the thinking and progress of the year, and listen to their current trivialities.

Do a deep conversation that can never be replaced.

02 Serve your family once.

Do you become the object of your family's care every year when you go home? Even if you pick up a bowl after eating, your parents will quickly say put it down, put it down? It may seem like you don't have to do anything during the Chinese New Year, but in fact, the Chinese New Year is a good opportunity for you to serve them.

Find a time to serve your parents, such as patiently teaching them how to use their phones. Parents don't have a slip for electronic products. Every time you are patient, it will make them feel like you have grown up.

03 A big party with relatives.

Relatives and family members are different, they are connected by blood, but they don't have much contact, and when relatives meet, the atmosphere is warm and peaceful, and a big party is very suitable.

Now due to the epidemic, we can't hold offline gatherings, and we can hold online cloud gatherings. I may not be able to know everyone, at least I can say hi and New Year's greetings to everyone.

04 Help juniors.

When you come back from outside, you must have been choreographed a lot of "help your cousin......"Something like that. Don't shirk, talk to one or two of them seriously, it's also your responsibility to help them well, and you won't lose anything by doing something you can.

Taking a step back, relatives are also your parents' support system, and helping them as much as possible is also saving kindness for your family.

05 Catch up with old friends.

Back in my hometown, there are always a few friends who have been friends for many years, and they get together regardless of their position in the company, regardless of whether they are parents or parents. Make unbridled jokes and look back on the troubles of the year.

It was a past, in its purest form. See friends you don't see often.

Make a conscious effort to meet someone you don't often talk to, even if your classmates meet, and find out what he's doing? What's going on? He had the same starting point as you, but he entered a completely different life.

This is a relatively easy thing to ignore, in a sense, friends as a weak relationship is actually another possibility in your life.

07 Give yourself a review and plan to bump into.

Whenever the New Year's bell rings, do you feel that another year has passed all of a sudden? The passage of time is actually due to the fact that no important records have been left.

During the Spring Festival, find a time to try to give yourself a letter last year, and look back on your growth, perception and thinking this year. I also have a plan for next year. You can take it out for the Chinese New Year next year to record your blind companion Kai's growth and changes.

08 Give yourself a chance to return to the workplace.

You can read a book, write your own work plan, or get together with a few colleagues. If you don't warm up early, you may not be able to recover from the first week of work.