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Setbacks are also life's wealth, and almost everyone expects smooth sailing. Many people say: On the way forward, even if there is no song and swallow dance, no blooming flowers, it is best that there is no wind and rain, no setbacks.
Actually, it's impossible. I'm not thinking about this topic here, though. I would like to talk about my own views on setbacks.
I realized more and more deeply that setbacks are also an asset in life. A life without setbacks is overshadowed in a sense.
Saying that "setbacks are the wealth of life", the main point is that setbacks make us smarter, stronger, more mature, and more perfect. Of course, this requires us to withstand setbacks in the first place. As the saying goes:
Suffer a loss, grow a wisdom". This is an absolutely "old man's words", an absolutely reasonable philosophical saying. For example, a child was accidentally bitten by a dog, and it hurt and cried.
For the child, this is a setback. After this setback, the child knows that dogs can bite, and he must be wary of dogs. The next time, he will find a way to avoid being bitten by a dog.
Wouldn't that make it a little smarter? However, in real life, people who have been bitten by dogs have been bitten by dogs again! How can this be understood?
I analyze it and think that the key lies in people's attitude towards frustration. Similarly, to avoid being bitten by dogs, some people take the method of yelling and screaming when they see a dog, pulling their legs and running away, which backfires and fuels the arrogance of dogs, and it is inevitable to be bitten by dogs again; When someone saw the dog coming, he just bent down and pretended to pick up a brick from the ground, and the dog immediately slipped away with his tail between his legs. Even people who have never been bitten by a dog can still use the latter method against dogs.
This is because smart people are not only able to understand some truths from their own setbacks, but are also good at summing up lessons from the failures of others. From this point of view, isn't setbacks a rare spiritual wealth? It is true that we can learn from the lessons of others.
But I always feel that the path of life is too flat, and the whole life becomes boring. So, I thought, many of us who are parents, teachers, elders or leaders now, can we let go more and let our children go on their own, so that they can rely on their own efforts to achieve a career? There are also students who fail in the college entrance examination, can they also get something from the setbacks, cheer up, and start a new round of fighting?
If you have had more setbacks and hardships than others, then, once you succeed, you will inevitably have more joy than others. After experiencing setbacks and hardships, you will work harder, cherish more, and be more productive! The more afraid you are of dog bites, the more you will always be bitten by dogs.
Instead of always being passive, learn to take the initiative to attack. As long as we can withstand setbacks, then setbacks will make us smarter. Isn't it precisely the various setbacks that mankind has experienced that have been underneath human society and held up modern civilization?
Setbacks are indeed a wealth of life.
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Highlight how you faced the difficulties with concrete examples.
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If you look at it from the Internet, let's refer to it.
Some people say that we must learn to be grateful to our parents, because our parents have paid for our growth; Some people say that we must learn to be grateful to our friends, because friends share happiness with us; Others say that we should learn to be grateful for setbacks, because setbacks make us strong; But I want to say that I have to learn to be grateful, first of all, I must be grateful to my homeroom teacher, because she thinks about her students in everything.
I remember one time, a male classmate in our class was playing at home on Sunday and accidentally injured his foot, and his father rushed him to the hospital for treatment. Subsequently, his father called ** to explain the situation to the head teacher and asked for a month off. The head teacher immediately said:
Taking a month off? No way! It will delay your child's learning!
Besides, midterm exams are coming up. Well, he can't walk, right, then I'll carry him! "The homeroom teacher can say it and do it.
The next day, the homeroom teacher picked up the student from the school bus and carried him to the classroom. As he ascended the stairs, the teacher's steps became heavy. The sweat on her forehead, the crystal beads of sweat, contain the teacher's love for the male classmate, but also contain her love for education, the whole class sees that the teacher is like a "giant" at this time, protecting us "dwarfs".
The male classmate was injured in his foot, and his movements would inevitably be a little inconvenient, and whenever it was time for lunch, his classmates would always rush to fetch him food; Whenever he wanted to go to the toilet, the male classmates would always help him to go to the toilet; During recess, his classmates would always fetch him water and drink ......The midterm exam scores were announced, and he won the second place in the overall score of the class, and the teacher's eyes were full of tears, I thought, this must be tears of joy!
For more than a month, his teachers and classmates have been helping him in this way. After this incident, our class learned to be united and fraternal, which the teacher taught us through her actions. The classmate and his parents were very moved, and the teacher said:
No thanks, every student will be treated as my own child, which is what I should do as a class teacher! "The hearts of the whole class were warm.
Our class has poor basic knowledge of Chinese, and the teacher always uses the lunch break to tutor us. Listening to the teacher's hoarse voice and looking at the teacher's red eyes, the students were moved. More and more students have learned to be grateful, and the students have listened carefully and practiced seriously, and their grades have improved rapidly.
The students want to use the knowledge they have gained to thank the teacher and thank her for everything she has done for us! The teacher passes on love, we return the love, and love ripples in our class ......
Teachers are like candles that burn themselves but illuminate us; The teacher is like a great treasure of knowledge, dedicated to our infinite knowledge; Teachers are like a blazing flame that illuminates our way forward; What I learned from my homeroom teacher was not only knowledge, but also the principles of being a human being.
Grateful heart, thank you for ......This deep song rang in my ears again, stirring my heart. Yes! The teacher taught me to be grateful, and I want to do things and be a person with a grateful heart!
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Let me choose again If I could choose again, I think I would do that......I won't let him down, I won't let him go hungry, and I'm going to help him, even if it's just my little bit of strength. It was my birthday, and my mother took me to the new temple to burn incense. There are many people today, but the heavens are not beautiful, and the wind is blowing.
We walked in **. Suddenly, I saw an old man, trembling on crutches and carrying a broken bowl, begging in the cold wind. He handed the bowl to the girls, expecting to gain a little sympathy and affection, but the girls pushed the bowl away and walked away with a big grin in their high heels.
The old man's face was full of disappointment, and he adjusted himself, and then he flattered again. The bowl reached out to me, and I looked up for a moment, and I was greeted by a weathered face and hopeful eyes. I just wanted to touch the money, and my mother told me with her eyes:
Now there are too many things to cheat money by begging, so it's better to be careful. I hesitated, quietly withdrew my hand, and swallowed hard, as if the bowl weighed a thousand pounds, and it took a lot of effort to push it away. We continue to walk forward, and I believe that behind it must be a vision of loss and sadness.
I felt as if I had been stung by thousands of little bees, and I felt terrible. It was raining, and the raindrops seemed to be the tears of disappointment of the old man, and it seemed to be complaining and scolding me for the old man. If I choose again, I will definitely be "puzzled" by my mother's gaze and resolutely give him the money.
Why can't I give him the money when I hesitate there? After all, he is an old man, an old man with no money and no home, and I seem to be able to read his past years of love and the ups and downs he has experienced from his wrinkles. You know, every penny is his hope to live, and every penny he can no longer be hungry.
So, if I choose again, I will definitely give him the money. That's not charity, it's the love that one person gives to another. If I had to choose, I would do ......
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