The ex husband came to ask for remarriage again, do you think you should remarry him?

Of course not, since you have been divorced, then it means that the other party is not suitable for you, and there will still be many problems after remarriage.

You shouldn't remarry him, this mainly depends on your own thoughts, if there is no problem with the relationship between the two of you, you can remarry.

Mainly lies in himself, if he thinks that his ex-husband is a very good person and there is still affection between the two people, then he can choose to remarry.

As long as there is still affection for my ex-husband, I think it is completely okay to remarry, after all, we all know each other, and maybe the relationship will be better after remarriage.

I will remarry, but that doesn't mean that my broken marriage has been repaired, or that we can love each other for the rest of our lives. Of course, when a woman chooses to remarry, there are some issues that she should pay attention to may be able to avoid a repeat of the mistakes of the marriage. So, what are the issues that women should pay attention to most when choosing to remarry:

First, all love cannot be completely reunited.

The once broken marriage was full of quarrels, cold wars, and dislike and despair for each other. When a woman decides to repair her marriage, she must understand from the bottom of her heart that there is actually an irreparable gap between her and the man. All love can't be completely reunited, even if there are ingenious skills, it won't help.

When deciding to remarry, a woman must consider clearly whether the mentality of the two people has been adjusted well, and whether each other can completely straighten out the previous sorrow. Only by putting the past in its place and accepting the imperfections of the past can remarriage have a future to speak of.

When remarrying, if there is no change in the mentality of a man and a woman, even if they love each other again, love will still follow the same bad trajectory as before, until the marriage breaks down again.

Second, when you decide to love each other again, are the things that caused the breakdown of the marriage resolved before?

Between lovers, every time they quarrel, the emotional foundation will be loosened. After remarriage, there will still be many contradictions one after another.

The moment a couple who once loved each other decided to divorce, there must have been an unsolvable problem in their marriage. When neither party has the ability and the means to solve that problem, it leads to the end of the marriage.

When a woman chooses to remarry, she must clearly understand: since you were unable to solve those problems in your previous marriage, can you avoid those problems from happening again when you remarry and start a new marriage?

When deciding to fall in love again, a woman must think about the question, has the previous thing that led to the breakdown of your marriage resolved? Only by solving this problem and drawing an end to the past relationship can we start a new life, otherwise it will just stop where it is. And those problems that have not been solved before have become a ticking time bomb that could destroy the marriage again at any time.

If I am still reluctant to give up on him after the divorce, and it is not a violation of the principle of rent and sale and divorce, I may choose to remarry.

Couples can choose to remarry after divorce, as long as both parties can reach a consensus, regardless of previous suspicions, it is also good to remarry.

In marriage, if the other party makes a mistake of principle, whether it is a man or a woman, it is good to get together and disperse after divorce, and there is no need to remarry, but if it is not a matter of principle, it is just a trivial matter, in this case, the other party has changed, and two people can remarry!

There are still benefits to remarriage, at least having children in common, a home that has worked together, an emotional foundation, and so on.

If two people do have such and such contradictions, especially the discord in personality and three views, since they are separated, they should not remarry, because getting back together again cannot fundamentally solve the contradictions, or the old drama is just a heavy show, and they will break up in the end. And if it is because of a misunderstanding, or an impulsive divorce on a whim, and so on to calm down with each other, they regret it, and there are feelings, such a marriage should also have to remarry, after remarriage, they will think about their past mistakes, and they will be happier and happier in the future, after all, people need a warm home, they all need a spiritual and life partner, and I wish them a happy married life!

The relationship is still there, after the divorce, after turning around, I still feel that the other party is the most suitable for me, and the life after remarriage will be better than the current single, so let's remarry. Remember, preparing to remarry is to start a new relationship again, not to bring up all the previous things again, which is not conducive to remarriage and the relationship between the two.

In the case of divorce and remarriage, the property divided at the time of divorce is pre-marital property.

Remarriage, on the other hand, is actually a second marriage, and the property divided at the time of divorce is pre-marital property. In the absence of a special agreement, the property acquired after remarriage is the joint property of the husband and wife.

I think a lot of people will choose not to. When a marriage has to end in divorce, it means that something is wrong with the marriage or the person with whom you are in the marriage. Divorce and remarriage are just a return to the old path, and the problems that originally existed in this marriage will still appear with a high probability.

The reasons for choosing to remarry after divorce are nothing more than for the sake of children, for life, and for feelings. The first is for children. The child was awarded to one of them, and the other party was reluctant, so he chose to remarry.

It's actually quite scary. The problem between you is not resolved, and you force yourself to return to your original family for the sake of your children, and you may not end up having the marriage you want. In marriage, the relationship between husband and wife should be higher than that between parents and children, and a bad relationship between husband and wife will directly affect the parent-child relationship, and the cart should not be turned upside down.

If the problem of two people is not solved, don't be reluctant to be together for the sake of the child, there are many ways to give the child love, and divorce can also love the child with your heart. Children are more sensitive than we think, and I think that the happiness of marriage is more important than the integrity of marriage. The second is for life.

This situation is predominantly female, which is not to say that it is discriminatory against women, but to state a fact. After getting married, a large part of women choose to return to the family to become a full-time mother for the sake of their children. It is undeniable that stay-at-home mothers are hard, but they also have to admit that stay-at-home mothers are vulnerable.

After leaving society, it is difficult to return to the workplace, and it is not easy to find a satisfactory job. Some women choose to remarry after hitting a wall on the road back to work. In fact, this is also undesirable.

Simply forced to survive and return to the family, the future may be more difficult, the status in the family may be lower, and even more regretful. The third is for the sake of feelings, and I think this kind of thing can still be tried. From acquaintance to marriage hand in hand, love must run through it, but in later days, love was wiped out.

Chinese are still more traditional in their bones, and they are still more shy to express love, and many people never mention it after marriage. For various reasons, the communication between husband and wife has become less, and the estrangement has become deeper and deeper, so that they finally parted ways. If you can regain love on the day of reunion, then remarriage will be a good choice.

I will. In life, there are many people who always feel that their imaginary marriage is happy, so when they encounter a little family conflict, they feel that their marriage is unhappy, and they feel that their lover is useless, and they will have the idea of divorce.

If at this time, there is an extramarital affair outside, coupled with the sweet words of the other party, and the alliance is made, so I feel that I have found true love and happiness, but some people choose to continue their marriage for the sake of their children because of the fetters of their children.

But there are still some people who are carried away by the fantasy of a happy marriage, and finally ruthlessly abandon their children and choose to divorce! However, these people he did not actually understand the essence of marriage, what is marriage? Marriage is a couple of men and women living together, facing oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, pots and pans, facing a common livelihood, facing the trivialities and contradictions of life, and ignoring anyone's marriage.

Most divorced people in life eventually have regrets! They found that after remarriage, the new marriage is nothing more than that, and sometimes, it is not as good as the original marriage! The successor is not as good as the predecessor, because it is a halfway combination family, if both parties have children in the past, it must be a family where you quarrel and quarrel, and the contradictions are constant, it is simply worse than death, and what happiness is there to speak of.

But who do you blame? You brought it on yourself! Suffer as much as you want!

Therefore, love is sweet, marriage is bland, you don't think too much about marriage, they will give you food and clothing! But it's also impossible for these people to give you sweet love, why?

You should know.

Generally speaking, marriage is still good! Because the original marriage is a seamless whole that is fused by the feelings of the husband, wife, and children; What's yours is mine, and what's mine is yours; The child is biological, your child is also my child, my child is also your child, the family is emotionally integrated, regardless of each other.