I regretted it after the divorce and now I want to remarry, should I choose to remarry at this time?

Updated on society 2024-06-17
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think you need to think about it. You need to figure out why you got divorced in the first place. You only said that you should not remarry after divorce, don't you consider the reason for divorce?

    Two people, from the beginning of understanding, step by step to marriage, how many problems need to go through halfway to become a family. In life, of course, there are thousands of reluctance, helplessness, and eventually divorce. Neither of them is a child, and if they got married because they were not well thought out, then the divorce must be the result of thoughtfulness.

    <> If divorce was impulsive, do you think you would still be impulsive? If it is not impulsive, then it must be that one of the parties cannot accept some life problem or behavior of the other. After such a long period of divorce, do you think you can tolerate the other party's problems, or can you easily accept the problems that you absolutely cannot accept.

    If you magnify the original problem again, can you still accept it, the problem is serious, can you bear it in the future?

    If you think there is no problem, then the two of you have a good talk, understand each other's bottom line, understand each other's thoughts, and then consider whether to remarry or not, because marriage is not a joke. Why Divorce? Two people can get married, they must be very satisfied with each other from the beginning, and at present, the marriage is free, and no one can force you to marry him.

    As for why you want to divorce in the end, you must know better than anyone else that you can get a divorce, it must be that you are disappointed enough with him, and there are irreconcilable contradictions in the middle, so if you want to remarry, you have to ask yourself, has the contradiction between you been resolved? Are you happy with his current situation? If the answer is yes, then remarriage, you can consider it, if not, then don't repeat it.

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't think you can choose to remarry at this time, because after the divorce, you will have a sense of loneliness and loneliness for a period of time, so at this time there will be an urge to resurrect, but the divorce of the two of you proves that the relationship between the two people has come to an end, and there is no fate, try not to look back.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you regret it and want to remarry, it also depends on whether the other party agrees to remarry, if the other party also agrees, then you can remarry, and then the two of you can manage this relationship together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You should follow your heart, if you have always liked each other, and you feel that the other person is your family, and you want to give your children a complete home, you should choose to remarry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If the relationship is incompatible and divorced, should I choose to remarry for my children?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can try to live together for a while with the consent of the other party to see if you can tolerate each other. If you feel you can, then remarry. If it's still noisy, then bless each other.

    In marriage, divorce cannot be said lightly, once it is decided, there is no going back. What do you do when you leave the other person and regret your decision? Especially in these three cases, the couple regrets the divorce the most, and the probability of remarriage is also very great.

    1. There is no social experience, and you don't know the blessing in the blessing. Some women always think that women should be taken care of by men, although the words are true, but things must be reversed, and men are not servants, and they can't call him around under the pretext of respecting women. If you are lazy and don't get up until noon every day, and almost let him bring food to the bedside to feed you, I believe every man will not be able to bear it.

    Maybe you will say that you don't understand women, you don't know how to love women, you are not a good man, this is a bit far-fetched for men, a bit out of context. When you are sick, when you are overworked and need to rest, men have reason to care about everything about you and take care of you, but this is just a special situation, this is not the norm of life.

    Therefore, if you have no social experience, you really don't know how to be blessed in the midst of blessings. If you get divorced one day, you will find out that you need to be diligent and thrifty everywhere when you enter the next marriage. When you look back on the past, you're sure to regret it.

    2. Never consider the child's feelings. Some wives are young and ignorant, and their personalities are a little willful, and they don't know how to discipline their children.

    When children clamore about the need for their parents every day, when the family is no longer a family, divorce becomes an inevitable choice. Although these are not things that happen in every family, after all, divorced couples are still a minority, but since such a thing has happened in the world, they can only sigh the helplessness of life, and what can they do about them who are young and ignorant. When they go through the vicissitudes of life and see that their children lack the love of their parents, they realize how stupid divorce is.

    3. Impulsively divorce just to block the momentary anger.

    Nowadays, there are many young couples who have been selected by themselves and their families before getting married, and they have finally chosen their marriage partners, and both parties are naturally the best men and women in a million. But they are not as happy and beautiful as you think in life. Because they are excellent, they are each very self-respecting and trustworthy.

    To put it bluntly, the contradictions in their eyes, that is, some small things about children's house, are really not worth going to the step of impulsive divorce. When their parents were still sad because of their impulsiveness, they were reconciled as before, and it was not impossible to remarry, which was really helpless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The original partner did not regret it until after the divorce, how to solve the impulsive divorce of a woman?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This question depends on why you regret it, if you regret it because of the relationship problem, or if you still feel that you love him, then try to change yourself and strive for it. If it is an additional issue such as the economy, it is better to be cautious. People have a limited amount of time in their lives, and they still have to consider whether it is worth it to fight their youth for money.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If both parties have the idea of getting back together, remarriage can of course be considered

    If it's just one party's idea, then it's not necessary.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fundamentally, it is necessary to solve the reasons for the divorce, whether the reasons for divorce still exist after remarriage, whether it will still affect your life in the future, if you think about this, if both parties are willing, then consider remarriage.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The degree of injury to each other and both families is one of the criteria for judging the compound, whether the two parties have the same will is also one of the criteria, and the degree of economic acceptance is also one of the factors. After all, divorce is an emotional tear, not a ......

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Marriage is sacred, and remarriage should be considered if you have children. Ultimately, though, it depends on both of you. Thank.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Look at your own thoughts, as a person who has come to advise you, treat others with sincerity, but for the kind of love for you, don't hesitate to do anything with him, there are many friends, not worse than him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This question is actually simple and simple, difficult to say, it depends on what both parties think, because of what divorce, what is the attitude of the other party, if it is because of family quarrels and divorce, then you can consider remarriage, the premise is that everyone must change after marriage, the temper can not be too big, everyone must be aware of the problem, that is to say, everyone knows that the fault is **, so that is possible, otherwise it will be more painful to remarry! If the divorce was due to the economy, and the economy is the same now as it was then, then there is no need to remarry. It's never too late to wait for the economy to improve!

    If the divorce is due to the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, it depends on what the man thinks, whether he can not get along with his mother-in-law, and if he can, then he can also choose to remarry.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This question is mainly a matter of consideration for the wishes of both parties.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, whether it is out of emotional needs and feels inseparable from him or out of consideration for the child, it is a good choice to want the child to have a complete home.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I don't think it's necessary, and most remarriages are repeating the mistakes of the past.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you regret it, you can remarry, provided that the other party also agrees to remarry.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If both parties regret it, they can remarry.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let me think about it carefully, since divorce is not something that you suddenly think about (but it does not rule out that both parties are willful). There are also those who remarry after divorce, which may include the factors of both parents and children, I think you should think about it, after all, it is a lifelong thing.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't really love you, fart!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the other person thinks the same way, of course it is perfect.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on whether you want it or not, if you want to.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I want to ask you, I'm very entangled now, usually my husband treats me well, but we have been married for a few years without children, and it has been a sexless marriage for more than a year, I don't know if I can go on in the future, I feel unconfident and unwilling, after all, I am still young, can you help me with ideas? Thank you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You regret it, doesn't he regret it?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I wouldn't choose to remarry because I know that there are many dangers to remarrying after a divorce

    It will hurt your feelings again, if we regret choosing to remarry with the north after the divorce, in fact, it is very irrational to do so, after all, now you only know that you still have each other in your heart, and you don't really realize the real reason why your marriage will break down, and not finding the reason will hurt you a lot of remarriage, that is to say, it will make the contradiction between the two of you deepen step by step, and it will also make your attitude towards each other more and more serious, so don't divorce casually, and don't choose to remarry after divorce casually.

    If we choose to remarry after the divorce because of the children, in fact, there is no real relationship between the two of you, then this kind of behavior is not only for both parties is also a great harm, for the children will also have some harm, although on the surface you are now a happy family of three, but if you do not have any emotional communication in the process of getting along, let the child not feel the existence of love, Such a marriage that exists in name only will actually be more harmful to the children.

    Only if we can pay attention to our own emotional problems, and can face up to our own marital problems, will we make your marriage happy, and will make your other half able to love you more and cherish you more, divorce is undesirable for anyone, but if you say that after the divorce, you have not thought about the situation, you choose to re-establish a family with your other half, This will increase your damage even more.

    After all, a person who doesn't know how to cherish his marriage, no matter how much he loves each other, will make their marriage have problems, so only after two people can really solve the problem, can they choose to be together again, so that the two of you can live a happier married life, and will make the hearts of the two of you closer.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The marriage of the husband and wife is never a matter of two people, but the integration of two families, and even the integration of families, so after a woman gets married, she needs to face her husband's family, relatives and friends. Both husband and wife can choose, if they have a similar temperament, they happen to be together, but relatives and friends can't choose, so married life inevitably intersects with them, which is very depressing. The good thing is that there are complex influences in the relationship, so it's also good to choose friends and relatives to help you after a major problem in your marriage.

    Marriage is something you choose to take your own initiative. After getting married, you will face all kinds of quarrels, disagreements, problems, illness, death, etc. In the case that you consider the bad influences and everything that is good is not good, you still want to be with each other and live without separation, then get a marriage certificate to get married.

    Later, you decided to divorce, this is the first time you have reversed yourself, you can endure it, and you have the certainty of delaying the divorce. However, after the divorce, you feel that your married life is not satisfactory and want to remarry. This is the second time you've backtracked.

    Basically, it can be explained: you don't have the wisdom and ability to work hard to master marriage and your own life, what you need to do is not to remarry, just find a psychological counselor to do long-term psychological counseling, the average man will feel very lonely within half a year after divorce. Maybe at first, he will feel good to be single, but after a long time, he will feel very uncomfortable with no one to take care of him.

    If you meet your ex-wife or learn something about the other person, you still can't help but care about it. You feel that it is too impulsive to separate two people at this time, so at this time, they will have the idea of remarriage.

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