My friend s father has passed away and he is very depressed, how can I comfort him?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    According to your description, your friend's father has passed away and he is in a very low mood, in this case, as a good friend of his, you should indeed take the initiative to encourage him and comfort him, which is also the responsibility of a good friend. But to tell the truth, the death of a loved one is different from other setbacks, the situation is more special, if you want to get out of the trough, mainly rely on yourself to come out strongly, other external help is not great, specifically, you can comfort him in this way:

    First, don't use too many words or words to comfort him or disturb him every day. The death of a loved one is not a trivial matter, it is impossible to come out all at once, everyone has to go through a painful process, and then gradually return to a normal state of life. Therefore, too much active intervention by the outside world at this time may not necessarily be useful, and may even cause bad consequences for uncovering the scar.

    So, sometimes it's not necessarily a bad thing to leave him alone and quiet, and to do some reflection and emotional venting (such as crying).

    Second, proper accompaniment. Don't be overly intrusive as mentioned earlier, but proper companionship is still one of the ways to relax. It's just that we don't want to mention the death of our family, and we don't have to deliberately eat, drink and have fun, after all, it is not appropriate for the family to go to eat, drink and have fun after the death of the family.

    It's good to find another reason to do something normal, that is, to use a normal life to gradually dispel the pain in your heart, not deliberately, not pretentiously. As friends, we are mainly accompanied, so that he can get out of the trough as soon as possible and face life again, and this is enough.

    Of course, if he himself is very depressed, and even offers to drink or something, you can accompany him, but don't let him drink too much, vent, maybe it will be better later.

    Good luck and satisfaction.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Your comfort now is to no avail. It's just a superficial action. Try to talk as little as possible at this time.

    You don't say something about people who die and can't be resurrected. Words of mourning. That's his real father.

    Not just one person. How can you say that if you are not sad, you will not be sad. You'd better not talk too much.

    Clockwork a message or leave a message. Just say. Your dad must want to see you strong right now.

    If he doesn't return. You don't want to send it. People don't want to talk much at this time.

    You talk a lot. It only makes him more annoyed. What he needs now is to be quiet.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it is such a thing as the death of a loved one, I think it is difficult to put yourself in his shoes and feel the grief in his heart no matter how many words you say, so in this case, I think you just need to be a good companion and give her a shoulder to rely on, and you don't need to say too much, because there are indeed too many words, and you are too powerless.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    At this time, silence is better than sound, you follow him wherever he goes, and don't say too much! Just follow along! The loss of a loved one must be very painful, and this pain needs to be walked out by himself, so you can only be a foil!

    In case he can't think about it. Or accompany him to buy a drunk, maybe it will be fine!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At this time, any comfort is not very effective, the only comfort is to take care of his emotions, take care of his life, and companionship is the best comfort.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My friend's dearest relatives have passed away, he must be in a sad mood, he is very sad, let him mourn at this time, everything will be fine, let him devote himself to normal life, don't think about it anymore, put his father in his heart, miss him, respect him, life has to go on, don't be so sad.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In this case, no amount of words of comfort is useless, I think the most important thing is to accompany him, help him more if he has nothing to do, and let him know that there are friends like you who are worried about him and support him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Stay with him more, I'm very sad now, I can't comfort anything, I can only accompany him more, so as not to make him feel lonely.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My friend's father died, and of course I was depressed. In a sense. His depressed mood is also a manifestation of filial piety.

    You can't help him. Because you are not him, you can't feel the pain in his heart. Therefore, don't say anything, accompany him if you can, it is more important than saying anything. Time will tell if he comes out!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At this time, companionship is the best, don't say anything, no one can really understand his feelings, even if you have experienced it, so just stay with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It must be very sad for my friend's father to pass away, you can stay by his side silently, in fact, he can't listen to any more words at this time, just listen silently.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't comfort him, let him stay on his own for a while, because no matter what you say, you can't understand his mood. 、

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can tell him that people cannot be resurrected after death, and that they have to move forward in mourning.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal state of life, everyone will experience it, the deceased just went to another world, for the sake of our relatives, we should live well.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Festival mourning, the natural law of birth, old age, sickness and death, cherish the present.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your loved ones are gone, you must be very sad, and sometimes it's good to accompany you quietly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's just say that everyone will only accompany you for a while, and you have to learn to accept.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My friend's father died, and his heart was very sad, and you should see that there would be so much for her to say this, so I remember that your name is something that everyone should go through, so you should think of getting ready.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At this time, it is useless for others to say anything.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Words of comfort for the old man who died:

    1. Don't be too sad and take care of your body.

    2. Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, and death is her final rule, so there is no need to be too sad.

    3. When the reality cannot be changed, we can only learn to be strong, the flowers bloom and fall, everything in the world has a beginning and an end, it belongs to the laws of nature, please don't be sad, life has to go on.

    4. Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature! Don't be too sad, he will feel your filial piety!

    5. We should now sincerely wish the deceased, wish him a good journey and rest in peace under the nine springs!

    6. Birth, old age, sickness and death are the most common things, people cannot be resurrected after death, and people should live well, otherwise the old people will not be excited to rest in peace.

    7. Your loved one has passed away, don't be too sad and sad, in heaven, he won't like you to be so depressed, cheer up, work hard, for your relatives.

    8. The dead rest in peace, the living must muster up the courage to face life again, I will be by your side and support you! Condolences change!

    9. People are going to go, whether they live or die is not something you can decide, he is an old man who goes to another place to live happily than in the world, and the festival is smooth.

    10. Your relatives only do it to a place where you can't see it, but they can see you, they don't want to make you have a bad time because of them, let them know that you are not a strong person, and they will not let them down.

    11. Relatives lose pain and part, and bitterness is wet short sleeves. Don't know when to see each other again, the moon is full of flowers in heaven and earth.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello, my friend's father died, undoubtedly this is the <>time to be the most in need of companionship and comfort, in addition to companionship, you can also say more warm words, for example, 1Baby, cry if you want to, and then we go out together.

    2.Baby, he's just accompanying you in a different way! 3.

    You must work hard to live and let Dad go with peace of mind. 4.Baby, I'm by your side, and when you're tired, lean on me.

    5.Baby, Daddy is watching you from the sky. 6.

    I understand your feelings, but there are still many people in this world who love you. Hope mine can help you<>

    My friend's dad has passed away, how can I comfort him?

    Hello, my friend's father died, undoubtedly this is the <>time to be the most in need of companionship and comfort, in addition to companionship, you can also say more warm words, for example, 1Baby, cry if you want to, and then we go out together. 2.

    Baby, he's just accompanying you in a different way! 3.You must work hard to live and let Dad go with peace of mind.

    4.Baby, I'm by your side, and when you're tired, lean on me. 5.

    Baby, Daddy is watching you from the sky. 6.I understand your feelings, but there are still many people in this world who love you.

    Hope mine can help you<>

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  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Hello dear I am happy to answer your questions, first of all, my dear friend's father is about to die, and I don't know how to comfort my friend. My reply is:

    Do your best, listen to the destiny of heaven, everything has a beginning and an end after all, and follow fate. Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature, don't be too sad, his filial piety will be sensed. People can't be resurrected after death, don't be so sad, you should use your performance to comfort him in the spirit of heaven, although he is gone, but we living people still have to live well.

    He is going to another place to complete his mission, and we should bless him. Because he is in close contact with nature. It's best to be happy every day.

    People cannot be resurrected after death, and the strength of the living is the best comfort for the dead. We have grown up, it is impossible for our relatives to accompany us for a lifetime, we will eventually face this day, I am also sad that this happened, I hope you will be strong.

    Hello dear I am happy to answer your questions, first of all, my dear friend's father is about to die, and I don't know how to comfort my friend. My reply is: do your best, obey the destiny of heaven, everything has a beginning and an end after all, and follow fate.

    Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature, don't be too sad, his filial piety will be sensed. People can't be resurrected after death, don't be so sad, you should use your performance to comfort him in the spirit of heaven, although he is gone, but we living people still have to live well. He is going to another place to complete his mission, and we should bless him.

    Because he is in close contact with nature. It's best to be happy every day. People cannot be resurrected after death, and the strength of the living is the best comfort for the dead.

    We have grown up, it is impossible for our relatives to accompany us for a lifetime, we will eventually face this day, I am also sad that this happened, I hope you will be strong.

    What should I say that I am about to die of illness and have not passed away.

    In fact, it is better to do this more realistically, buy some gifts, accompany your friends to visit, help your friends arrange some white things, and take care of your friends' emotional changes.

    This is not the truth.

    I don't want to be comforted by words in one place, and I don't know how to say it.

    My reply is: I heard the news that your father is not in good health, as your good friend, I feel very sad, I also know that you are in the same mood as me, although I am not by your side, but I hope you can cheer up a little, your father has little time left, spend more time with him, you yourself too, don't be too emotional, don't drag your body down, remember no matter what, your good friend is always behind you, if there is anything you need help, say hello, I will come to help you at any time, I will always be your strong backing.

    If you are satisfied, you can click on the solution, and then give the respondent a thumbs up<>

    Thank you.

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