My parents are disgusted when they come home for the New Year, and they feel that it has disrupted m

It shows that you are a little withdrawn, you should communicate more with your parents, and the current society must have roots.

People without roots are like duckweed, your parents are also because of life to abandon their family and business, communicate with them more, usually talk to them, so that they will slowly become close, our society needs such a relationship, slowly you will understand.

Aren't parents working hard to earn money outside so that their children can have good conditions? Don't parents want to spend time at home with their children? They are also hard, life outside is not easy, and it is not easy to earn other people's money.

The feeling of sending people under the fence is also very bad, no way, because they have to work hard for the next generation, but they miss them very much, so they have to go home to see their children during the New Year's holidays, and they should be more grateful, understand and tolerate more, and thank their parents for their nurturing grace!

This kind of performance is that I am used to living alone, and I am afraid of being restrained, but family affection is greater than everything.

Parents are the parents who raised you and gave birth to you, you can't think so, I think my parents can go home for the New Year and be happy in their hearts, don't think so, they don't talk about the hard work of raising you.

Obviously, when your parents go out, you lack the love of your parents and slowly get used to it, but your parents go out for the family, in order to give your children a better life, you have to try to get close to them, and when you experience the love of your father and mother, you will look forward to them coming home!

Parents go out to work for the sake of a better life for the family, including your school expenses, what do you get to pay for tuition if you don't earn money? Electricity bills, living expenses? If you're sick, you need money, and your parents don't want to go out and leave you, there's no way, right? Understand your parents and be grateful to them!

In this way, the child is very withdrawn, so you parents often accompany the child.

After being separated for a long time, there are some raw points, and after the process of getting along, you will get used to it.

After all, you don't spend much time together, and it's normal to be indifferent to them. But they are your parents after all, and how much they respect them.

Feelings circulate in communication, and your current mood is mainly caused by being separated from your parents for too long and lacking communication. It can't be said whose fault it is, parents have to leave their children behind in order to make a living, but in the hard work, they forget that their children need love. Parents come back every year for the Chinese New Year, which shows that they love this family and love you, so I think you should clean up your indifference, tell them your needs, and find things that you didn't understand before in the exchange.

Also, you are still young, on the one hand, you have to go to school the other hand, read more, read more, and you will recognize yourself, understand your parents, and see the social reality clearly.

It doesn't matter, anyway, everyone just spends the New Year and gets along well, why do you have to pursue emotional connection.

It's not that you're too cold, it's that you've been together for a short time. Family affection faded. Parents are busy, go out to earn money to support you. You should know to be grateful. You can communicate with your parents.

It's not that you're too cold and too strange to them.

This is normal, feelings are formed over time, and if you only see them a few times a year, you will indeed be a little indifferent. But I still hope that you can try to open up and talk to them more, after all, they are the people closest to you.

It's not that you're too cold, it's that you spend too little time together. Family affection faded. Feelings are formed over time. You can communicate with your parents. Talk to them more.

It's a bit pessimistic, you have to think about everything for the better, and work hard to struggle, because you have experienced the feeling of being left behind, so you don't let your next generation experience this feeling again. That's good.

And its slim waist bundle prolongs Gu Bu, the beginning of summer, the beginning of spring, the beginning of the moon, the beginning of flowers, you are just too alone.

A lot of things are actually quite simple.

Don't overthink it. It's hard to get confused.

Get along with classmates, friends and relatives Don't always be alone in a daze.

Everyone has their own characteristics, and sometimes there is no need to change them. Since you feel that you are excellent, you should improve yourself, maybe you can't change others, but constantly update yourself and seek a breakthrough in yourself. Let yourself shine so that you can shine on others!

When you're on your way to success, look back and see that none of that mattered.

Do you have a good friend, find good absorption from him, and don't be afraid that you will always have to be independent.

Left-behind children will suffer from some mental illness to a greater or lesser extent, such as:

Depressed, withdrawn, irritableAnd so on, but how do you solve these problems? I think we should start with the following points:

1. For left-behind children, we must first do it when we contact themBe patient and attentiveBecause left-behind children are often particularly psychologically vulnerable, we reach out to them when we reach out to themThe first thing should be to be patient with them in the most amiable mannerThen carefully discover their strengths, respect some of their decisions and practices, and make them recognize us.

2. After getting the initial recognition, we can try to communicate with them, at this time, we need to pay attention to not easily deny any of their practices, and carefully ask for themBe very careful when making a request, and it should revolve around the principle: "This request must be made to ensure that they can fulfill it." “This is because it builds up their self-confidence and makes them feel that they are a particularly useful person.

3. Finally, guide them from the side, dredge their feelings for their parents, do some small games to establish feelings with their parents, and empower them at the right timeLet them make decisions and try to make their own decisions to help their peers or adults, this method will help them build a positive mind.

If the above steps can be successfully completed, then their feelings for their parents will be greatly improved, here, I would like to say that left-behind children are extremely fragile psychologically and need our careful care, so before helping them,We should ask ourselves if we are patient? Are you genuinely willing to help them solve their problems?

In order to increase the relationship with the child, we must play with the child every day, communicate more, and care more about the child's daily life.

Parents can spend more time with their children when they come home, bring them a little gift, and if the situation allows, they can take their children out with them, and don't leave them alone at home.

It is best to increase the time that children spend with their parents, companionship is very important, and parents and children communicate more, parents should not be too strict with their children, and be more considerate of their children.

Left-behind children are used to living alone, parents should carefully observe their preferences, slowly enter the child's inner world, let him slowly accept you, give them more love, and slowly the relationship will become better.

After all, parents have not been with their children since childhood, and you have not participated in his growth, so it is normal for a bad relationship to have a bad relationship. The last way to change this situation is to keep in touch with your child and let him know that you love him, but you are forced to do so.

Left-behind children are lonely and sensitive, so as parents, we should communicate with them more. Even if my parents are not around, I still love them and care about them.

This should be left-behind children, we also have them here, I feel pitiful just by looking at them, other people's families are dressed up beautifully, they look very sloppy, and their clothes are dirty, I haven't seen them play with other children, just play with children of the same age as themselves, I also heard my relatives' children say that they are often bullied and ridiculed at school, anyway, their parents will not come to support them, just grandparents are there, the old people say it's useless, only the children wipe their own tears. Why do other children have their parents to love, they don't even have the opportunity to let them beat and scold, the psychological impact is the heaviest, if the child thinks too much, he may get autism, or want to get the attention ......of his parents and often cause troubleThe economic pillar is far less than one-ten-thousandth of the spiritual pillar, people will not be poor all their lives, but love is missing, it is a lifetime of imprint! I lived in school for the first time in elementary school, just a few days ago I especially missed my parents, I am a strong person, so I have not dared to hit my parents **, hiding in the bed at night and crying, thinking about my parents in my heart, as long as I can go home now, even if I am beaten, it is the best, I think too much, after falling asleep, I dreamed that my mother was taken away by the car, how I cried and how I couldn't catch up, and finally I woke up crying, and woke up others, this is a dream that I can never forget in my life, so, I hope you don't leave him in order to give the child a better life, maybe he wants you to be with him more than a toy.

Yes, it is good for children to have strong self-control or someone who does their best to manage their personality, but if no one cares about it all year round and the self-control is not strong, they may learn badly, or learn badly from others. If you can, you should take the little ones with you.

The impact is that the parents are away from home for many years. The child's food, clothing, housing, transportation, temper, character, and rebellious period are not known. Many children change their lives during the rebellious period because their parents are not at home. I still hope that parents will not forget their children and contact ...... often

Parents are not usually the elderly at home, children are not taken care of by parents, and many parents are not involved in the growth of children, so the gap between children and parents will become deeper and deeper in the future. There will also be less communication. The environment in which the child lives may cause the child to be withdrawn, or it may cause the child to be naughty.

It will invisibly increase the pressure of the child, and the child will also have unsound personality development and autism due to the lack of relevant education!

Of course, it will weaken the relationship between the child and his parents, he will have low self-esteem, he will be easily emotional, and he will be looked down upon by others.

The problem of left-behind children has too much impact to experience it in person. Even if it is for the sake of the family, for the sake of the child's better future, it should not be like this, because such a decision has already made the child afraid and lonely on the road to the future.

There will be a lack of care for the child.

A child's lack of love from the family can be extreme.

They may also be introverted, autistic, and don't like to talk.

Yes, parents don't want to be like this, it's all for the sake of being able to live a more comfortable life, children miss their parents, many parents are very hard outside, and they miss their children very much, and they will cry, and they can't help it, they have to learn to accept it, and be considerate.

Yes, really, my parents are also out, I go to school outside, and every time I come home, I feel very sad

Children will become introverted and lack parental care.

The older generation spoils children too much, and the children will be difficult to manage in the future.

The lack of parental care from an early age will affect the personality of the child, and he will become a lack of love and introverted.

Alone. If you want to be too naughty and disobey discipline. Rebel. Rebelling against parental wishes.

Of course, children lack warmth, lack of guidance and guidance from their elders!

Serious will be suicidal, not serious cold-blooded, introverted.

It depends on what kind of character the child is, but it will more or less affect the relationship between the parents and the child, and make them feel that it is important for their parents to slip back to the orange, because even the most important days are the same without their parents.

Guidance:

Autism (also known as autism) is currently considered to be a biological disorder related to biological and psychological factors. There is currently no cure for the disease. The main purpose is to improve social communication and life adjustment skills, reduce maladaptive behaviors, and reduce family stress.

The primary methods are special education and behavioral interventions. Early intervention is beneficial for children. Wishing you good health.