Why can t I love someone with joy?

The reason for the divorce of your parents makes you have a shadow in your heart You must know that you have received very little fatherly love since childhood, so you will like the older opposite sex, and that is only because you want to get the love you lost before, and you don't really like it! ``

Falling in love should be happy to talk about it, and every failure is your next love experience! I know that the previous paragraph was wrong, and this time it won't be wrong! Right?

If you really can't let go, then you take your time and adjust your mentality

I've done a lot of psychological tests, although I'm a very independent person, but it is said that I still need a man with a sense of security, older people will have a sense of security, and they will hurt women more, I think the road of life is very long, you should learn to take care of yourself first, liking a person is different from loving someone.

You will grow slowly, and your ideas will mature slowly.

Some people just prefer older people, and that's not surprising.

Psychologically, you are a person who wants to love but is not able to!

I think you should adjust your attitude and face your loved ones positively and bravely.

Love needs to be constantly expressed and passed on in order to be sublimated. In order to experience the joy of it!

Have you seen the movie "Happy Birthday" starring Rene Liu and Louis Koo? The heroine is your problem: she is insecure about people, so she delays getting married, which leads to the end of the story.

You should believe that the world still has love and warmth, you have to open your heart, to understand others, to know the people of this world, and don't let the shadow of the past haunt you in your life. May you find your true love and the person who truly loves you.

The divorce of your parents has more or less had a bad impact on your growth, and you subconsciously feel that men are untrustworthy. At the same time, the promotion of the TV series ** makes you have high expectations for love. Try to interact with people with a normal attitude, and be moved by some trivial things.

Life itself is bland. I wish you happiness.

Leave all the past behind.

Try to relax yourself.

You're not calling.

Just afraid of love.

Fear of insecurity.

At least the guy asked you when you were going to find a boyfriend.

It's usually out of concern.

Of course, it's hard to say. He likes you.

Friend. Don't be jealous of everyone.

Have fun. Looking back.

Actually, it's not a big deal.

Take it easy. You're still young. Love is a wonderful thing. When it's time to come, he'll be by your side. If you don't come, you don't come, and it's useless to force it.

That's right, you should find someone about your age

I don't think my parents' divorce is a big reason

My parents are also divorced

I won't, I won't be like you

Although I'm not in a relationship, I'm at least fine with my friends!

This is a common trait of people, especially for their first love, because this is the most serious time you give your feelings, even if you will give your feelings in the future, it is always not as good as this time

Don't trust, the one who writes the rhetoric, remember!!

It's so much bigger. Find a boy about your age to fall in love. Bless you.

That's not a reason, right?

To like is to like.

Why make so many excuses.

Hey, at least it's much better than me! nnd My first kiss was taken away by mosquitoes pull! `

That means that the way you love is not right, you do feel that you love each other very much, but the way you express your love is often not the point, but it will bring harm to him, you should reflect on yourself, what is wrong with it?

Because I love each other too much, I want to be with each other for everything, which causes the other person to have no space and feel unhappy.

Maybe it's because the personalities of the two people don't match and they always quarrel, so it always brings her unhappiness.

, yes, if you really like someone, you will choose to let go. "Letting go" is not to escape from feelings, let alone give up, but to leave good memories for each other and find value-added space for feelings.

Looking back, when you first entered the world of feelings, no matter how clingy and unreasonable you were, the other party would communicate with you with kind words.

He may even say that you are suddenly less clingy, and he will think that you don't love him, so he will argue with you endlessly.

But when you get through the hot love period, whether you are clingy or vexatious, it may touch each other's temper.

He will feel that you have become less sensible than before, even if you have learned not to be jealous in order to become a sensible person in his eyes.

Love is very realistic, and the more you give, the more depressed the other person will be.

Bi Ji Zao said: In your opinion, it is to care about his life and repent, and to understand things related to him through various channels, but in his opinion, your behavior has made him lose his privacy and freedom.

When you love someone, you also have to understand that you should let go moderately when you should let go, and don't push the other person too hard.

This is not to let it go, it is to trust the lover and yourself, to create a comfortable environment to get along, and to make the relationship between two people more valuable.

Know that the people who truly love you have a heart for you.

He knows that your moderate relaxation is sensible, and he wants your relationship to develop better, so there is no reason to rush to cherish you who are so sensible.

I once heard someone say that "love is the fusion of two people into one person, and finally into two people".

Two people who love each other, after being together, are equivalent to being one person, and in the case of joint efforts, they will run their lives in a good way.

But you can't decide the other party's affairs by your own will, after all, whether it is a person who enters love or marriage, is free.

No matter how much you love him or how much you are afraid of losing him, learn to empathize.

You need the other person to understand you, you need personal space, and the other person naturally needs it too.

If you don't know how to respect each other's personal space, and only know how to blindly express your feelings to the other person, then you are likely to have conflicts.

Maybe your man loves you very much and willingly leaves his affairs to you, but you have to know that this is the way men love you and trust you.

And what you have to do is to cherish the trust he gives you, hold on and let go moderately, so that your relationship will develop better and better.

If your relationship is about to fail, or has already failed, don't be in a hurry to complain about the other person's not;

After calming your emotions, think about whether the way you love is inappropriate, so as to avoid encountering the same problems in the next relationship.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

Loving someone deeply is happiness. Loving a person's love and happiness is also very simple, trusting, understanding, tolerant, broad-minded, and respecting each other. To keep it fresh, you need to communicate, as long as you trust each other in your hearts.

You want to believe in love. But how to express this "love", perhaps many people can't express it clearly. Actually, love.

That's what it feels like: when it doesn't.

When the time comes, it will.

It's hard to feel lonely.

Patience, when it is around, it will be cheerful and happy. Only when there is separation can we understand the preciousness of being together, and only when we miss can we feel it.

The presence of love!! I think when two people can't be together, you are lonely, you can listen to ** to relieve boredom. The best solution is Mo.

It's too much to keep a diary, and keep the good memories of the two of you forever on the paper, but I hope that it will last forever. The most precious thing in the world is not that you can't get it, nor that you have lost it, but that you can grasp the luck in front of you.

Blessed really. Love is to be able to love.

know how to cherish it.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

It is yours and it will be yours after all; It's not yours, and what you grab will leave. If you had the experience of grabbing toys with children as a child, you will definitely understand. You can only get what belongs to you. Love can't be snatched.

I have such an experience now, I understand your kind of pain, miserable, others will not understand, which is mixed with a lot of helplessness, a lot of things that they can not predict, but they have always been humbly left behind, has been quietly loving, very tired, I want to give up, but I can never let go, maybe just like between me and my boyfriend, a ring love can, and the heart of the can is filled with Sprite, if there is so much helplessness, then, please be cruel to yourself, let go, In the future, there will definitely be someone who loves you and knows how to cherish you, and I wish you happiness for a lifetime.

At this time, either your letting go is wrong, or it is right, if you love her, your letting go is wrong, if you don't love her, you let go and argue that Sun is right.

There is no absolute perfection in the world, only continuous improvement, your love is the same, if your love is not perfect, you should work hard to improve, you can't give her happiness now, but you can fight for, strive to change your current situation. Strive to change everything you have if you can change the situation.

But if you really try hard and persevere, but you still can't change the situation, I advise you to let go, or let go of the person who carries the chain, which is a relief for you, a kind of happiness. In fact, loving someone well, silently accompanying her by his side, supporting her, caring for her, and caring for her is already a kind of happiness, why bother pursuing the taste of happiness? In fact, happiness is by your side, but you don't know how to find out, you don't know how to grasp, the more deliberate the love is, the less happiness you get, and the more you care about things, the less happiness you get.

Why not think about these questions from a different perspective?