The girl rejected me ruthlessly, and a girl rejected me, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I haven't seen you for years, and maybe a lot has happened in between.

    When I was in junior high school, I liked a boy in my class very much, and I never looked for a boyfriend, and then I met my current boyfriend, he was very good to me, I actually didn't love my boyfriend, but it was so good, the boy before I graduated from college said that he loved me very much and wanted to be good to me, but I refused, I didn't want to destroy his good in my heart, but it has been so long, the past has passed, why bother to turn over those old things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You will forget about her when you meet others in the future, since it is impossible, then don't contact too much, otherwise it will hurt even more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Dude, you're too much to breathe!

    Too anxious! I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry!

    Forget she's looking for one! There are still a lot of good women!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes......It's good if you've experienced this feeling a few times.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Is there a kind of love that can make people not hurt! Less!

    Everything goes naturally, just as it happens!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Brother, remember, men don't hang themselves from a tree! Put it when it's time to put it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This society is like this, there will never be a love of Harami.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it's ruthless

    It's okay. Otherwise, what do you want?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You refused, and refused to ask people to ignore you, obviously the requirements were too high, and people have self-esteem.

    There is also a sense of honor and disgrace, but I hope that after a period of time, with the passage of time, she will gradually forget. Otherwise, this result is also normal.

    Of course, if you regret it and still want to accept him, you can sincerely apologize and confess sincerely, and the chance of redemption is very high.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After being sad, move on with your life.

    It's really embarrassing to be rejected.

    But who says that one day there won't be a girl who will take a fancy to you and confess to you. So it's still necessary to live well.

    Loss, there will be; Sad, there will be; The key is, to heal, to get better.

    Be generous and forgiving, and still be able to face the person who rejects you.

    To be manly, you must show manly spirit.

    Teacher Yu Minhong is right, before you confess like that girl, she doesn't belong to you; After confessing, although you were rejected, she still does not belong to you, so what do you have to lose? No, I don't. On the contrary, you also got a chance, an experience, and exercised your mind and face; You'll only be braver next time, won't you?

    Bravely pursue love, express love, what's wrong, what's there to be ashamed of, it's her business to accept it or not, if you don't accept it, maybe it's her loss, not yours.

    After being sad, you have to live happily ever after, that's the right attitude!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it's a situation like yours, you are choosing someone who doesn't love you, but it's the person you love, if you force it, the consequences may not be good, if you feel that you can't do without her now, it's not called love, you don't really love her, because you are forcing her, if you are really good to her, you have a future, because she didn't reject you on the spot, proving that she still cares about you, in fact, there is a kind of love called silently giving, I don't know if you have tried, good for a person, really good, She can feel it, why do you want to be so depressed about your feelings for yourself because of your current attachment?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ren will fall in love with one or several people all his life, inevitably hurt, after crying and hurting, one day after a long, long time, when he finally meets the love that truly belongs to him, he will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces on memory!

    Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

    Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

    And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and wait until your other person really appears before using it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't you think it's scary like this? Originally, you were an elder to her, that is, an uncle. What you have to do is not to pester her and give her the feeling that you have a purpose, but to play together and bridge the generation gap.

    It's really hard to be honest, you don't have a common topic with her, you don't know what she likes and wants, you can't give her joy and happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sadness is always inevitable, reward: 100 points, generous. Let everything go with the flow, of course it's good to get it, and it's better if you can't get it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go for it if you like it, let go and do everything you can, and try even if you fail. Regrets.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Feelings can't be forced, if you really like her, then use your sincerity to slowly impress her, but you can't be in a hurry

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's up to her attitude. If she has feelings for you, go ahead, and if she doesn't have feelings for you, you don't have to force it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Brother, it's up to you to do this

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