What does it feel like to be in the habit of hiding your heart?

Originated from low self-esteem, it will slowly hide itself, longing to have emotional resonance with others, but I don't know how to do it. Ordinary friends of colleagues are reluctant to express too much of their life hobbies and feelings, for fear of being ridiculed by others accidentally, I am very inferior and think too much.

I like to hide my feelings, and the biggest reason for hiding my feelings is because of my distrust of the world outside of my body, and this distrust extends to family, friendship and love, because of distrust, I will think about every sentence before I say it.

Sometimes I am used to hiding my sadness with silence, I am used to hiding my inner thoughts, and I feel that no one will understand me, and everyone is an executioner who rubs salt in their wounds, so it is very painful.

Maybe it's a habit, sometimes if you know how to hide your heart, you will easily be seen through your true thoughts by others, but this is not good in today's society.

The speed of making friends is always slower than others, and they will not easily express their emotions to others, whether they are happy or unhappy, especially painful things, they will hide in their hearts and repeat themselves, and they will digest their own troubles and depression when they encounter them, rather than choosing to confide in others.

I don't know when it started, I feel more and more lonely, I always feel that I am alone, I don't have that kind of special good friends, and no one likes it, and I occasionally feel uncomfortable, but after a few days, I will get better, and gradually I will comfort myself that it is actually good to be alone.

I'm just used to compromising and going with it. When I eat with my friends, as long as my friends say what to eat, I say okay, even if I don't want to eat at that moment. I just couldn't express myself, and over time, I became the way I am.

Gradually, I will feel that the distance from the people around me will become farther and farther away, and the loneliness will double, so I am trying to change.

It really takes courage to hide the fragility of your heart. Even if it's hard, it's not hesitant! Because I have chosen this path, no matter how difficult it is, I have to go on.

For those who are used to hiding their hearts, I don't think they want to show their mentality.

In the eyes of outsiders, I am a sunny and strong person, and it seems that I am the only one who comforts my friends, and it is not anyone's turn to comfort me. But in fact, the identity is still lonely inside.

In fact, I like to hide my heart, and I think sometimes it's not good to show it.

In fact, it is recommended that you have better communicate with your friends or girlfriends, because as long as you can face life by yourself, you can go on strong and brave, so this is still the point.

It's not that you can't save yourself, it's that you don't want to save yourself

It's already a habit, how can you be sure that you don't have love in your heart, don't care because of habit, don't cherish it, maybe you can only really understand when you lose it, this habit has been planted in your heart.

You can be together for so long without love just by habit, I'm afraid you haven't found a good one, or he has what you need. Other men won't give it to you.

Why do you want to be together if you don't love it, do you want to try the feeling of divorce?

It's become a habit, how can you be sure that you really don't love him?

If you feel like you can get used to it, then be together, and if you don't get used to it, follow the true feeling of your heart and listen to the truest voice in your heart.

If you don't love him, how can you get used to him.

"Superiority and despair will expose your own shallowness and naivety, the world is so big, there are many things you have not experienced and felt. I hope that I am in awe and have a pair of beautiful eyes that can encompass everything in the world, and I hope you are too. ”

If that person is your idol, you must go back and want to learn one of his moves, in a word, I think it's normal.

If it's a child, it's understandable.

Because she loves to imitate new things.

If it's an adult, it's boring.

In fact, people learn every day, but they just learn different things, and they don't care.

No, could he be deliberately angry with someone, haha, is it the opposite sex,

People with a strong appearance are more likely to be reckless, and they are more likely to force themselves to do things they don't want to do.

He is very patient in front of others, swallowing all sadness and vulnerability in his stomach.

But often the stronger the person, the more vulnerable he is, because he is very fragile, he wants to be strong, and he doesn't want others to see his vulnerability.

In this case, there is dependence on people.

But the words will not be easily expressed、

Word: light purple.

Song: light purple. i'm sorry

Sorry if I'm missing a word and roses.

Can I wait to get close to you.

A hug for a comfort.

my baby

How will you shed tears on a rainy night?

I passed by the door.

How many times has this door been opened.

I want to challenge the world with you.

I don't care how cold tomorrow will be.

I'm not afraid of how embarrassed I am.

Just say a word, just say a word.

I love you more than anything else.

Smash the obstruction to pieces.

Regardless of the latitude and longitude of the earth.

All the way to the encounter.

It's because of you that you're chasing.

I love you more than anything else.

Although you also understand.

I'm not perfect either.

Believe that one day.

Parting with you.

It is the farewell of life.

my baby

How will you shed tears on a rainy night?

I passed by the door.

How many times has this door been opened.

I want to challenge the world with you.

I don't care how cold tomorrow will be.

I'm not afraid of how embarrassed I am.

Just say a word, just say a word.

I love you more than anything else.

Smash the obstruction to pieces.

Regardless of the latitude and longitude of the earth.

All the way to the encounter.

It's because of you that you're chasing.

I love you more than anything else.

Although you also understand.

I'm not perfect either.

Believe that one day.

Parting with you.

It is the farewell of life.

Farewell to life.

I love you more than anything else.

Smash the obstruction to pieces.

Regardless of the latitude and longitude of the earth.

All the way to the encounter.

It's because of you that you're chasing.

I love you more than anything else.

Although you also understand.

I'm not perfect either.

Believe that one day.

Parting with you.

It is the farewell of life.

Farewell to life.

We have grown up, and all childishness has been lost into sand.

Looking at the title, it feels like Scorpio, but Scorpio is not like that.

Geminis may seem innocent and scheming, but the other side of their personality is more hidden.

Sagittarius people are very deep in the city and are accustomed to hiding themselves.

Aries seems to be very naïve, but in fact, they think a lot in their hearts, but they are just used to being treated gently.

Sagittarius, you will be hard pressed to get his sincerity, a sign with reservations.

In today's society, everyone has begun to seek fame and fortuneEveryone consciously or inadvertently puts on a mask on themselves, and it is difficult to imagine how difficult it is to really see the true face behind a person's mask。He often shows you what he wants you to see, and if you are not careful, you will fall into his way. So we must not be fooled by the superficial phenomena of things.

Then let's take a look at those constellations that seem innocent on the surface, but in fact they are deeply hidden, and the city is particularly deep?

Scorpio

Scorpios usually look simple. Some of the big things that everyone discussed seemed to be casual about, but in fact they were ambitious. Although he didn't participate in the conversation with everyone, he actually secretly wrote down the things and opinions discussed by everyone in his heart, and then made his own decision after analyzing and weighing the pros and cons.

And Scorpios usually look big grinning. But it is precisely because of this character that they are particularly optimistic when dealing with things. The one thing he decided to do was at least 90% sure he could do it.

Taurus

Taurus is a typical person who is simple and simple on the outside, but has great ambitions on the inside. In ordinary life, I am very enthusiastic with everyone.,It's also very fun to play.。 But once it comes to their own interests, then their own wishful thinking is still very accurate.

So don't try to undermine their interests, or you'll end up miserable.

Libra

Everyone is unexpected, on the surface, the seemingly innocent, kind and benevolent Libra is also a very deep person. Libra people have their own scales in their hearts, and they will show their gentle side when they are usually with everyone, but they still weigh their own interests very clearly. If there is a deviation on the other side of the scale, they naturally have to adjust.

I really want to be a kid, and I've told a lot of people, especially in college, freshman and sophomore, because after graduating from college, you have to face the problem of finding a job and going to graduate school, so you have to learn cultivation, etiquette, strategy, means, and a lot of things, so when you can be simple, try to be as simple as possible, I said a long time ago, you don't listen.

Pisces give people a very innocent and lively appearance on the surface, but in fact they are the highest hidden sign.

Capricorns are still relatively innocent, and they are also very cold and scheming.

Hello. For life. Life is an accident, death is an inevitability!

The process of living is life!

Don't ask yourself to take every step is right, only ask yourself to take every step is no regrets, life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

If you can't find the value of your own existence, just think about yourself, give yourself an explanation, give your parents, friends, and the one you love the most!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset, giggle a little, and draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Hope my answer is helpful in solving your problem.