What does it feel like to be rejected for a confession?

Some men feel that their confession is rejected, but they stimulate their competitiveness and desire to conquer, and they are determined to chase it to the end and succeed immediately, thinking that the success rate of the next confession will be higher than the first time.

Actually, my heart is hopeless, and I feel like I will never love again. The countless pictures that once fantasized about us being together have all come to naught at this moment.

Summer vacation alone to the field, the moment I arrived I called ** to confess to him, and then asked him the answer, but he has been dragging on for more than a month, during which I took the initiative to chat with him on WeChat every day, feeling like lovers with each other, and then he accompanied me to Xi'an, and also said that he would accompany me to see the sea in winter. But he dragged on for too long, and I felt that there were too many uncertainties, so I went back to school and asked him for answers, and he said that we were friends. I cried, but felt that the lines between his friends and lovers were too blurred, or even not, which made me a little disgusted.

In fact, this is the first time I have raised the courage to confess to others when I am so old, and I have thought about being rejected, but I have never thought of such a tangled and sad feeling.

It was an indescribable feeling. When he mustered up the courage to confess, he took the first step, and he would be cranky while waiting. If you wait for the answer you want with great expectations, you will be rejected.

It felt worse than death. No matter how strong a person is, as long as he really likes each other, he will leave tears at that moment. Today my eyes are wet, but I don't regret it.

I'm brave enough to say it, maybe a little bit off the rails, but I just want to find a place to talk about it.

Heartache unable to breathe. Confession rejection is also one of the great sorrows of life. So everyone will not confess easily, so as not to be rejected. Before you confess, you must be sure that the person will agree. If you don't agree, it's so embarrassing.

My confession was rejected, and I was also given a good person card by a girl, and I felt desperate and discouraged! There is a feeling of extreme heartache, I can clearly feel that my heart is pumping, and then I have a long period of low mood, insomnia, my heart is hollowed out, there is a kind of pessimistic thoughts such as all thoughts are lost, the world has abandoned me, self-loathing, and I want to die.

I think in a nutshell is that I feel like I can't find someone I like anymore, and I'm doomed to be lonely for the rest of my life. I finally fell in love with someone, and finally mustered up the courage to show him my heart, how uneasy I was in my heart. I have practiced what I said when I confessed thousands of times in private, but when it came time to confess, the lines that I had prepared before and memorized like a stream could not be said at this moment.

I was afraid of the other party's rejection, so I thought about giving up, but I finally mustered up the courage, and I couldn't wait to know if he liked him, so I confessed. When I said those words, to be honest, I didn't know what I was talking about, only that my heart was pounding and my face was flushed. After I confessed, he thought calmly for a while and said to me, I think we should be friends.

Many people have experienced rejection of confession, in fact, it is not a big deal, and the following methods can be taken after a failed confession: Let's take a look at how a failed confession can relieve the uncomfortable mood.

How to relieve the uncomfortable mood of confession failure?

1.Don't get tangled.

After the rejection of the confession, the boy should recover his emotions. He doesn't have to pester the other side or ask the other side why. Because this will only make the girl more and more bored, and the boy should understand and rationally solve it is best.

At this time, he doesn't have to bother you more because you need to attract her again. At this moment, you should sort out your emotions and allow yourself to return to your normal daily routine. You don't have to get caught up in the spiral of rejection.

Let the girl see your atmospheric side and your open side, and let the girl have a different opinion of you.

2.To live better.

After the rejection of the confession, you should no longer pursue the perfection of the other party, just for the sake of your own rationality for a while. When boys recover their emotions, you need to make yourself stronger, when girls see that you have a better life, it will arouse a certain curiosity, in this link you don't have to break up with the girl, you can be the other side of the thumbs, meaning that you are still there, but can not disturb her every day, let the girl make you the illusion that she does not care, so the girl will have doubts and feel that she cannot catch you. You need to make full use of your strengths and have your own highlights, so that the girl feels that rejecting you is incorrect, and that the girl has an uncertain state of mind.

3.Wash your heart and face.

In this link, you should improve your style, enrich your extracurricular life, and make yourself look better. After all, you can only attract others if you are good. You should understand that only confident and happy boys are more elegant.

The low-level pleasing that has been going on will only greatly reduce the value of your use.

Boys should understand that if they want to pursue perfection to the girl they like, they don't have to use humility as a form of attack and they don't have to try all kinds of warmth to impress her. They should understand that attracting girls according to their best selves is the best option. It is only when boys become better and stronger that they are not afraid of rejection.

If you fight back completely, you will become a new person and it will be even more mysterious to the girls. At this moment, you will once again strive for perfection. Only the pass rate can be improved, and you can get the most complete and beautiful love.

Although many young people do not respond directly to their sweethearts in the process of confessing to their sweethearts, so some people think that they are likely to be rejected by their sweethearts, but I don't see each other this way, and not responding to their confession does not necessarily mean that they have rejected themselves.

First of all, for a girl who is really rational and has a calm personality, when she meets a boy who confesses to herself, it is obvious that such a girl cannot respond to the other party immediately, because such a girl has not thought about whether the other party is really suitable for herself, whether she should really accept the other party's confession, even if she has a certain good impression of the other party in her heart, but she will not easily agree to the other party, The reason why they do this is not that they have rejected each other, but that they need to get along with each other for a while, get to know each other well, and then let themselves make a final decision.

On the other hand, for some girls with reserved personalities, when they met the boy's confession, they did not respond, in fact, it is not that such girls reject each other with silence, but such girls are actually more happy in their hearts, because these girls also have a good impression of the boys who pursue them, but in the process of growing up, such girls develop a relatively reserved and cold character, so they want to further test these boys in this way, Let such a boy further confess to himself, which can not only reflect the boy's Cheng Yi, but also make himself more face-saving.

Therefore, for many young people, in the process of confessing to their beloved, the other party did not respond to them, and they should not be too lost and frustrated, or should have the courage to further find the other party for communication, so that they can get real relief in their hearts.

This is a very common problem because it involves a very common phenomenon where confessions are rejected. So what happens after the confession is rejected? I think there are three issues that need to be paid attention to:

1.Love is a practice, and it is also like a career, which requires long-term and careful management and maintenance. The pursuit of love, confession and rejection does not mean the failure of love.

On the one hand, there may be many reasons for the rejection of the refuser, not necessarily the result after rational and comprehensive serious consideration, maybe it is just a haste to make up its mind, maybe it is still hesitating and not wanting to make up its mind, maybe it is just a further test of the confessor, so the first consideration, after being confessed, needs to continue to pursue, in order to further understand the real situation and related situations, do not let the opportunity be missed.

2.There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts, and the pursuit of love requires courage and perseverance. A person who shows loyalty and passion, tenacity and courage in the pursuit of love is undoubtedly the best footnote to his or her character and attitude towards life.

If a person wants to give up as soon as he or she encounters a little setback and difficulty, then what qualifications does he or she have to enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love! A beautiful life can not be obtained by God, sweet love can not be given to you by God, only if you have worked hard, the final beautiful result will be more precious, "for Yi to make people haggard, the belt gradually widens and does not regret it".

3.If it is an extremely special situation, there are no conditions for love to grow, then it should be abandoned. Calm down and think about it yourself, will she accept you, I believe you have the answer in your heart.

Since I like it so much, I am not afraid of continuing to be rejected and chase her, it's a big deal to wait for her for a few more years; If you can't afford to wait, stop the loss in time, you are now trapped in this emotion, and you will be tormented if you don't get it. As hard as it is, try to jump out. As long as you work tirelessly, and then continue to improve yourself.

Find out the reason for the rejection, make changes slowly, and meet the requirements, maybe you can be moved and accepted!

Shouldn't. If she rejects you, it means that she doesn't like you very much, so don't bother her anymore, you should be brave enough to find the next girl who is destined for you.

You should not continue to insist on pursuing, because people have rejected your pursuit, it means that she (he) does not like you, if you still blindly pursue, it will bring trouble to others and make others have no good impression of you, because you have disturbed others, so it is best to get together and disperse.

I don't think we should persevere, because if we do, there is not much hope.