Is it right to hold back your wife? What is Forbearance?

If you are a person who loves your wife, you need to forbear, but forbearance is limited, it is impossible to have no bottom line, and the responsibilities and obligations between husband and wife are equal.

At this time, you should analyze the reasons why you are disliked by your wife. If you feel that your wife just blindly dislikes you, since you are working hard, and you still can't get rid of it, and your wife dislikes you, then it is not your problem, it is your wife's problem. So the best way at this time is to reason with him, or show her attitude.

If you feel that it is indeed your own problem, then this is the time to correct your mistakes, make yourself better, and improve yourself.

Forbearance is not the best way to solve the problem, to make yourself stronger, far more financially than her, and to care more about your wife.

Forbearance cannot completely solve the problem, husbands and wives should communicate with each other, communicate more and understand each other.

It depends on what kind of person your wife is.

If you are responsible for your family and care about your family, you can tolerate it appropriately.

Others can be based on your own situation.

The advice of others is only an aid, and it is up to your own judgment.

If you have a baby, you will endure it, and if you don't have a baby, you will leave.

Sometimes forbearance is your love, but quarrels hurt you!

Communicate well and communicate more to know each other's feelings.

When you should think about it, he has a bit of a request for you?

Forbearance is not the best choice, because he will become even worse, and he should live in peace as equals.

Forbearance is a kind of generosity and humility. The Tao Te Ching has not cracked the clouds: "A gentleman is as good as water, and water is good for all things without fighting" Forbearance is not only a kind of cultivation in itself, but also a kind of demeanor in interpersonal communication.

When encountering contradictions, digesting them within a tolerable range is not only more conducive to the elimination of contradictions, but also to gain the respect of the other party and establish a better interpersonal relationship. If someone steps on you in public, is it a frank and straightforward statement of "why are you like this" or a forbearant sentence of "It's okay, it doesn't matter" can better eliminate the existing contradictions? Second, forbearance allows one or both parties to have plenty of time to think about the problem, as the saying goes

Impulse is the devil" may be more direct and efficient than forbearance, but it is not necessarily better to eliminate existing contradictions. If in the contradictions between the two sides, bluntly point out the shortcomings of the other party, first, the hurt is withered and the feelings are closed, and the other party's heart falls into a pimple, and second