If you don t give me enough security, don t ask anything

How lucky it would be if someone who is good-looking and acts and thinks a little different from the type you admire will show favor to you.

And this luck makes you have a crush on him almost effortlessly. Talking to him is never cold, and his seemingly casual little movements are like flintstones that spark in your heart. He's like a master of love, he can't find fault with anything, and you can't even tell what he doesn't like to be a lover.

He's a very good guy, and the more you confirm that, the more worried you become.

Not surprisingly, how good he is, sure enough, not only you can feel it, but there is never a shortage of people who have the same affection for him as you. If you can, you want to be the one you have the same vision as everyone else.

He is like a very colorful garden, and the people who flock to it have never stopped, and his splendor and his fragrance are all shared by those who see him. Maybe he didn't spread it on purpose, maybe he just didn't know how to refuse, but your jealousy gradually deteriorated towards him.

Because you just like it, or you don't like it yet, you can't express it, you can only see everything in your eyes, think about it in your heart, and then tell yourself to just hold on and continue to observe.

But if you like someone, you can easily control it, especially when he is still close, still a few words, a few actions will make you fall again, he is so easy to tease your heart, you have no way to deal with yourself.

It's more than ambiguous, but you haven't reached love yet, this is where you have always been. No one wants to speak first, and neither do you, nor does he. No matter how intimate you are, how close you are to the level of your lover, and you almost have to open your mouth a few times, but when you see his kindness to others and his smile at others, you lose your confidence again in an instant.

You can't confirm what your position is in his heart, you can't define how his kindness to you is different from other people, even if you imagine how much anxiety he will feel when he takes your hand and says he likes you, your happiness, and so on. Whether he likes you or not is the first question, whether he is the only one, is the second question, whether he can eliminate all your insecurity is the biggest question.

After all, your liking and affection for him still loses to the sense of security he can't give.

It's never easy to let go of the people who are put on your heart every day. Almost unable to fall in love, your sensibility almost kills you, but every time you learn that he is not looking for you, there is still someone in his life who can make up for it, and your reason pulls you who want to run to him.

Sometimes the sense of security is given to oneself, don't put any hope in anyone's hands, you must give yourself enough security.

You look like this, insecure, stay away from this man, always look for one or maybe the next one is more suitable for you.

If you give enough security, don't tell people that you love people.

There is still a lot that can be done, when your self-strength is strong, the people around you can't hurt you, and you meet people who really recognize you and care about you.

When I was young, I wanted to fall in love many times, but as I grew older, I finally understood that truly loving someone, even if it takes a lifetime, it will still be not enough.

If it's a situation, then I actually suggest that it might be better for you to stay away, because this kind of person may hurt people more.

People are looking outward all their lives, looking for the sense of security that the external environment gives them, looking for the embodiment of self-worth - a sense of self-achievement and the recognition of themselves by the outside world.

Seeking a celebration of the most able to give yourself a sense of security to the person to entrust for life, thinking that you have found it, pour your whole heart and soul into a person, but slowly find that he does not have the perfection he imagined, he pays all the emotions, but does not get the response you expect, so, you feel that he has changed his mind, he doesn't love you anymore, the heart is going farther and farther, the sense of security that is painstakingly sought is so little by little exhausted, the ego is in endless distress, cutting constantly, and the reason is messy.

There is a voice that tells you that the sense of security is not the skin that others give you, it is given to yourself, and everything you think is real that you see in others is just your illusion, which is reflected by the projection of your thoughts on others. Your Changlun feels bad about him in your heart, and you will see that what you think is bad is happening to him as it is, and it looks so real. When you think that a person is good, what you remember is this good feeling, and this feeling brings you a good experience in your soul, a series of beautiful feelings such as happiness, excitement, happiness, joy, joy, joy, etc.

A good feeling can create more goodness, so you feel that he is getting better and better. On the contrary, if you stay in the bad feeling all the time, you will find that bad things happen one after another, and you are so busy that you can't finish dealing with it, because you are still in a bad mood and don't come out, your heart is covered with a thick layer of dust, the light can't shine in, it's always black, how can you feel the beauty of the outside world.

Beauty in the world is everywhere and all the time, it depends on whether you have the eyes and heart to find beauty, love in your heart, and everything you look at is lovely, and so on.

I know that a lot of times, I suffer from gains and losses, and I don't feel secure because I don't have enough self-confidence.

It's been together for a long time, so long that I won't look at your phone, so long that we get along naturally like an old husband and wife, so long that I thought you wouldn't leave me.

Later, it dawned on me that it wasn't.

I gradually learned that in addition to caring about this kind of gain and loss, it is also that I am not confident enough, not confident enough that I am worthy of your liking, and not confident enough that I am not the reason for you to reject others.

I do not know. And so, I began to realize that security doesn't all come from the other person.

I decided that I was going to give myself enough security.

How to give? I began to learn to be bearish, and it is not that I don't care, but that I lower my expectations, and it doesn't matter how much I gain or lose, but I just feel worthy.

I started to **, sometimes I have to admit that people are actually really "superficial", but I also have to admit that the change of body shape makes a person more confident.

Work well in the world, work hard to earn money, for girls, there are many things they want to buy and they are also expensive, and having money in the card is also one of the most secure things.

When you feel insecure, you can improve your sense of security by doing the following:

Accept your emotions: A person who feels secure is aware of their emotions and is willing to speak up about their feelings, which can help maintain emotional stability [1]. Therefore, you can try to accept your emotions and learn to express and process them.

Build trusting relationships: Building strong, trusting relationships with others can give us more security and confidence. It takes us time and effort to nurture relationships and build a real system of trust and support.

Learn to think independently: Life will inevitably bear certain risks and uncertainties, when we admit this in our hearts and Sun Sou Cheng tries to accept all this, your unfounded anxiety will disappear, your sense of security will be improved, and life will become better. Therefore, learning to think independently and make responsible decisions about your thoughts and actions is also a way to increase your sense of security [1].

Establish self-affirmation: Self-affirmation refers to the recognition and admiration of one's own abilities and values. To build self-affirmation, you need to learn to let go of your mistakes and shortcomings and develop your own self-confidence, while also respecting the perceptions and feelings of others and building a positive self-image that will improve your self-esteem and sense of security.

To me he is really a super insecure guy!!Every day, I am afraid that you will be abducted by a man who does not collapse the acre, and I will log on to your QQ to see your chat history after saying good night every dayAs long as you say something in the wrong tone, he can immediately reflect on whether he has done a bad job.

Saying good night didn't follow Tuansen's usual words, he would also feel that he didn't do a good job. Will want to know each of you...

The sense of security is given to Shi Huaiqing by himself, seriously. The sense of security that others give is not so reliable, because that sense of security will have a chance to withdraw, and what you give yourself can be stable for a lifetime, don't you think it's an old grip?

The meaning of this sentence to you is that you are too close to some people of the opposite sex, and the lack of tease makes you stay away from them, because it is very selfish to lose love, and he wants to possess your love alone, and does not want to share it with others.

The sense of security is self-transporting to oneself and to oneself Said filial piety is really. None of the security that others give is so reliable, because that security will have the opportunity to sneak away, but what you give yourself will be able to live a stable life, don't you think?

Recently, a girlfriend of mine and his boyfriend were at the stage of talking about marriage, but they suddenly broke up. Everyone was surprised and asked her why, and her girlfriend sighed deeply and said that because he couldn't give me the security I wanted. Boys may not understand what security is.

It's really embarrassing that two good people will divide it.