Why is it sadder than not getting it?

It can only show that you care about her too much, when you don't get it, your relationship is very natural, when she becomes your sister, everything becomes unnatural, the main reason is also yourself, the relationship between your sister is not better than that of your girlfriend, your girlfriend can care more, and your sister can only care about occasionally and care occasionally, to put it simply, sister is just a title, because she is not your own sister.

The landlord's idea of wanting to have a sister is not wrong at all.,But why say it so bluntly to a girl.,Even if you don't say it.,You can also see her as a sister.,Because the mode of getting along with my sister is almost the same as the mode of getting along with friends.,It's not that there is kissing or some other intimate contact between lovers.,So you have to make it clear.,Determine the relationship.。 Because for girls, being recognized as a sister by a boy in person is a very relieving thing, unless she first has the idea of recognizing you as a brother, otherwise girls think that boys recognize themselves as sisters is a thing that they feel is not attractive, of course, I believe that the landlord just wants to have a sister, but a girl's mind is far more than you think, the reason why she didn't reject you immediately may be that her reflex arc is relatively long, and she feels more and more uncomfortable after two weeks, so she is alienated from you, And have you seen that the male protagonist often likes the second female protagonist in TV dramas, but the second female protagonist has always liked the male protagonist, and every time he confesses, the male protagonist will say that he has always only regarded the second female protagonist as ......his sisterAnd I want to know, what kind of feelings does the landlord have for that girl now, is he really in love?

Losing after getting is more painful, because if you never get it, you will not feel it, and you will not have extravagant expectations, so the latter is more painful.

I feel more painful to lose. The loss of something dear to oneself is very painful for anyone, and it is an unacceptable reality.

After getting it, it hurts even more to lose, because after all, I once had it, and suddenly I don't have it, and it seems a little uncomfortable.

The man broke up and said: Because my parents don't agree.

So we broke up.

The woman will go back and persuade her parents to agree because her parents do not agree.

As it turns out, it's still women who are stupid. The shrewdness of men is something you haven't seen through yet.

He may also dislike your low education or your poor family conditions, and feel that he can find a better one. These are human nature.

Are you afraid that you won't find someone better to be with? Then you are too humble to live.

In fact, I can answer your last question with many historical questions, the theory of descent works in China, but there are also many people who cross classes. Those are the ones we call heroes.

You have to live and live like this, haven't you already studied for an undergraduate, and you can still go to graduate school in the future, when the time comes, no one cares how low your education is, and this society is not divided into classes according to academic qualifications.

But reading is a tool that can cross classes. (I won't talk about this use, it's too long.) If you don't have the money, and you don't have the talent to make money, you don't care about your education.

If you graduate, you can earn 10,000 yuan a month, are you still afraid that you will never find a Tsinghua boyfriend again?

I can tell you the exact answer. The latter is painful. But as an experiencer, do you understand both good and bad?

The former didn't understand anything when he didn't get it, but he wanted to try. And the latter gains and loses, although it is painful, but the pain you have experienced will also allow you to grow slowly on the road in the future. I hope to adopt.

I also had a similar experience to you, we were together for a short time and were opposed by his parents, at first I was also very uncomfortable, blaming myself for not being good enough, but it was also because of his parents' opposition that I felt that I had to work hard, I wanted to improve myself, so that I could match it with my excellent becoming, although in the end I was separated, but it also made me change a lot and improved a lot, it was very painful to lose after getting it, but it also made me have a lot, we can't be afraid to start because we are afraid of the pain after losing, no matter who I meet, How far we can go is a kind of fate, we cherish fate and don't climb it!

Never got, when you have given the most real you, the purest heart to the other party, or it's not yours just a little unwilling! Getting and losing is much more painful than never getting it, because this thing originally belonged to you, but you lost it for some reason (person or thing), you could have lived sweetly with each other, but now you have lost it, and you feel bitter in your heart, so the loss after getting it can be painful for a lifetime.

A lot of reality is like this, if you really can't convince it or his parents, you can only choose to give up, if he chooses his parents instead of choosing to use his ability to persuade his parents with you, then he is not worthy of you, not worthy of true love, you can try to choose to let go, there will be better waiting for you, not a high degree so what, you have to be confident, not good grades, he is good at everything.

It doesn't matter. The pain is only temporary, and the best way to suffer is the best way to suffer when it comes to time. It's like a cut wound, and after a long time, it will be fine.

Of course, it is more painful to get and lose, never get it is just a fantasy of beauty, and it is different to get and lose, it is really existing, and it will hurt really. Although love is a matter of two people, if you want to be together and get married, it is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, and many factors will affect this relationship, which must be considered clearly.

It should be more painful to get and lose, never got so much that you won't think, and you can't be sad**, and it's not the same when you get and lose, you need to have the next relationship to forget the previous one, so it's more painful.

It should be that the latter is more painful, people are like this, when you don't get it, you don't know how it feels when you get it, and you get it and lose it, that kind of pain is very unbearable.

Each has its own regrets, but it depends on what it is. If it's money, it's definitely a pity to "get it and lose it". After all, I have enjoyed glory and wealth, but I suddenly fell to the ordinary people, and the contrast in life is too great.

If it's a relationship, it depends on what kind of person the other person is and why they lost each other? In short, it is necessary to analyze specific problems in detail, and it is difficult to generalize.

Everyone will experience pain, it is part of growing up, try to make yourself better, you will naturally meet better, and time will fade to the past.

It must be the most painful to gain and lose. Never gained, let alone lost.

Of course, it is more uncomfortable to gain and lose, because it will not be uncomfortable if you don't get it.

Cherish it when you get along, and don't regret it after separation.

Getting lost is more painful as you have had.

First of all, I personally feel that this is a very subjective question, because everyone's experience and feelings are different and cannot be generalized.

Some people may feel more regretful about having and losing, because they once had, had beautiful memories and experiences, and now losing it will make them feel very regretful and painful;

Others may feel more regretful because they have never experienced it, they cannot know what it feels and what they have experienced, and they may feel a sense of regret and regret. Stove Wang.

Therefore, the answer to this question will vary from person to person.