What do you think most of the girls do?

Most of the girls are engaged in jobs that do not have a lot of physical work, because they can't do it in this way.

Most of them are engaged in mental work, because after all, girls' energy and physical strength are limited, and they don't have so much social responsibility, so they are still relatively relaxed about themselves.

Are there more civilian and general assistants, but can these jobs be done for the old age? I don't think I'll be competitive when I'm older, and what can I do when I'm older? When the time comes, I can't compare to the little sister who just graduated, and I don't consider special reasons such as having someone at home.

I think most of the girls are engaged in some kind of education and nursing work, and these are some jobs that are very suitable for girls.

Models, actors or flight attendants and the like, but these are biased towards the media, and female workers will be more in civil servants, lawyers, chefs, opening shops, etc

There are many female students majoring in accounting, and there are more female students who should be engaged in accounting, which is very professional, requires high prudence, and has a lot of knowledge of professional span.

Most of the female students are engaged in the profession of teaching as well as clerks, secretaries, some linguistic historical studies, writers, newspapers, literary studies.

I think it varies from person to person whether girls need to have their own careers. Many women have a very strong desire for independence. And economic independence is the foundation.

Marriage is an important turning point in life, and personal time and energy are limited, it is difficult to take into account all aspects of life, so women need to weigh and make choices in career and family, and choices often determine the direction of our lives. Life is like a balanced frank field science experiment, which requires constant trial and error to adjust its direction.

Having a child is an important life step for a woman, and everyone will have different choices at different ages, choose what you can bear, and bear what you choose. If women do not have an independent career, when there is a conflict, they will not be able to create direct economic value, and they will naturally have less right to speak, and they have no "status", which is naturally the free labor force in the family, and their needs will not be seen, and their interests will naturally not be guaranteed in the slightest. Therefore, career is the guarantee of women's own lives, and it is also to make their lives more confident.

For women, the best backer is never a good family background, rich or powerful, let alone finding a good husband, so that they can have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of their lives. A woman's best backing is herself, and it is eternal, and it will never collapse. If your family and marriage are unhappy, at least you have a job that will keep you in touch with society and free you from the trivialities of everyday life.

At the same time, career is not the standard for men, it is actually the standard for women, in today's environment, career is not only important for women, but also for men.

Everyone has their favorite job, as long as they like the job to stick to it is the most meaningful thing, there is no need to squeeze the single-plank bridge to take the postgraduate examination or the civil service examination.

What is the situation that the post-00s girl is working on the tomb to envy netizens.

Recently, a female netizen from Xunyu shared her work in the shed, her job is special, she is a grave keeper in a cemetery. The woman said that her work is simple, leisurely, three o'clock every day, work, rest, and eat in the same small building, and she doesn't have to worry about commuting at all.

Somewhere in Chongqing, a young girl born in the 00s photographed her working environment, the woman was wearing high-heeled boots and a long white woolen coat, and she was walking while taking pictures of the scenery around her leisurely.

According to the woman, this is a suburban cemetery, the environment is quiet, solemn and quiet, surrounded by mountains, and the cemetery is open and open.

As the camera slowly progresses, a patchwork rockery comes into view, with a few big red characters written on it, "Life Back Garden", which is worthy of its name.

Next to the rockery is a two-story small building, the color is simple, antique, the front house is the office, next to the upstairs is the women's dormitory, and the downstairs is the unit's canteen. The woman said that when she went to work, she went downstairs, and she didn't have to think about the problem of digging through the chain at all.

And more importantly, her work is very leisurely, usually very quiet, there are not many colleagues, the relationship is simple, and here the wifi is fully covered, the network speed is very fast, and there is time to "touch the fish" almost every day.

1. If you have a job, you won't lose your colleagues and friends.

Only when you go out to work can you have your own colleagues, so as not to lose your friends, maybe you think that even if you don't go to work, your friends will still come and go, in fact, you are wrong, you can eat and drink every day without worry, it does not mean that your friends will have a life like you, they need to earn money to support their families, they need to earn money to buy their favorite clothes, shoes and bags, and they can eat their favorite food. When you just revolve around your children every day, you don't have time to go shopping with your friends, nor do you have time to go to KTV or bars with your friends, and the relationship between friends will be broken after a long time. Therefore, a woman must have her own job, and with her own job, she will not lose her friends, so that she will not be out of touch with this society, and she will not have no one to talk to when you quarrel with your husband.

2. With a job, you will have the courage to stand up and speak upright.

Happiness is always in your own hands, not in the hands of men, men are just able to lend you a shoulder to rely on when you are helpless. Don't put all your hopes in men, when you reach out to men every month to ask for money, you will feel that you are really undignified. Men will not cherish you better, so when men accuse you loudly, you can only keep silent, after all, you have no confidence and no capital to refute men.

When you have your own business so that you don't reach out to men to ask for money, then you have the courage to raise your head and say "no" to men.

3. When a man tells you to get out, he doesn't turn his eyes away and lives on the street.

Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable, because you don't have a job and everything needs a man to pay for family expenses, naturally a man will have confidence to speak in front of you, when you quarrel over a trivial matter, the man says to you, "You eat me, drink me, wear me, don't want to get over", and then the man throws the door away, and you don't dare to step out of this door, because when you step out of this door, you will find yourself very helpless, you have nowhere to go, and you don't have close friends. When you have a job that covers yourself, I believe that a man will never dare to yell at you, because he knows that he dares to let you go, and you will make him regret it.

4. When you have your own job, you won't be annoyed by men.

When your child grows older, he will leave you, and when you want to find a job, you will find that you can't do anything. After more than 20 years at home, you are used to being lazy, you can't do tiring work, you can't do a slightly skilled job at all, and now you can't do anything when you go out like a fool. Staying at home will annoy you, go out to work and can't find a suitable one, and at that time you will regret your original decision.

Therefore, after marriage, a woman must not lose her job, she doesn't want a man to look down on you, she doesn't want a man to dislike you, and she must insist on working even if she is tired.

Because work is a part of life, girls can not only be financially independent, but also be happy at work, expand their networks and resources, and live a more comfortable and relaxed life. If girls don't work and are completely dependent on boys, they will have an inferiority complex in their hearts and be controlled by others in many ways. Therefore, being a scumbag and an independent girl can be appreciated by boys more, and love marriage can last for a long time.

Maintaining financial independence for women in marriage is a complex topic, with pros and cons:

pros:1.Prevent economic dependence and control. Having your own economy** allows women to have a stronger sense of self-esteem and security, and will not be completely dependent on the man's financial support without having a voice.

2.Enhance your voice at home. Economic independence allows women to have a higher status and voice in the family, and to have the same power to make decisions in the family as men.

3.The risk of divorce is reduced. If a woman does not have a job and does not have a financial situation, she will find herself in a more difficult financial situation in the event of a divorce. Having a job and financial foundation can reduce the risk of divorce after divorce.

4.The impact of children's education. Financially independent women can have the same decision-making and control power as men in the education and growth of their children.

cons:1.Family life may be affected. If women are too busy at work, family life and the relationship between husband and wife may be affected to a certain extent, and the workload of housework and child care will also increase.

2.Social expectation pressure. In real life, women still face greater family responsibilities and social expectations, requiring women to not only make a difference in their work, but also fulfill their full responsibilities in the family, which will cause pressure on women's hearts.

3.Economic spending increases. If both partners work, the family's expenses will also increase, especially for the children. This will also cause a certain burden on the family economy.

In summary, maintaining a certain degree of economic independence among women in marriage is conducive to the relative equality and stability of family relations. But it also requires a balance between the division of family responsibilities and economic management to prevent over-exhaustion. Ideally, both of them participate in the family economy and share household chores and child responsibilities.

Financially independent, with the ability to survive on their own.