Should I do it and will I regret it

As long as you don't let him get a divorce, you can do anything, but remember not to have children.

Neuropathy! Posting such a post is a complete waste of resources.

Heh, all of these thoughts? Tell you, he spent the money, and he won't take you seriously. To be precise, it's buying and selling. Since you want to change careers and do business, no one can stop you. There is something wrong with your values.

Hey, it's better to find a new one, why do you want to get yourself into trouble, a man with a family is a problem, so don't make trouble for yourself.

Why do you want to do things that hurt other people's families, in fact, you also hurt yourself, aren't you so distressed now that you have been affected!

There is such a thing happening around me, so I want to tell you, such a man is still far away from him, he covets your youth, to be honest, I don't exclude a third party, because people have the right to have feelings, but they have to think about each other, he originally had a happy home, maybe you don't destroy, but after a long time, can you guarantee that the balance in your heart is not tilted towards him? What's more, women are emotional and can't stand the coaxing of men, so if you want to live a good life, you don't rely on him, but on yourself! I hope you'll think twice!

Huang Jing of the Central Plains Focus Team2022-3-4 Lecture 10 insists on sharing the 960th day.

Growing Up Freely" Reading Harvest:

1.There is such a characteristic in the human heart that what is obtained will be looked down upon, and what is not obtained will become heavier day and night.

2.Married to a red rose, over time, the red one became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, the white one was still the bright moonlight in front of the bed, and the white one was married to a white rose, and the white one was a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one was a cinnabar mole on the heart.

3.People have the need for multiple experiences in love, and the love that has been realized and has to be experienced again and again naturally becomes redundant, and the unrealized longing becomes precious. Regretting the original choice is the psychological driving force for demagoguery to experience extramarital affairs, and it is also the most easily mentioned topic in husband and wife quarrels.

4.Regret is a kind of negation of oneself, which seems to point to the past me, and is essentially an attack on the present self.

5.People can't objectively evaluate what happened in the past, the past me is not the current me, things have changed, the current me actually doesn't really understand the past me, and the present I have no right to evaluate the original choice.

6.The self is a fluid concept, and each experience changes the meaning of the self, making one aware of something that was not realized before.

7.Through regret, you can choose the future over the past, and knowing this, regret is a valuable emotion.

8.People who just regret it, but don't want to make any subtle changes to the future, realize that the choices made in that moment are still important today. Because of regret, we cherish everything we have now, and because we regret that we make some beneficial adjustments in the future, the flower of life will never wither, and the tree of life will be evergreen.

9.Memory is a very unreliable thing, and the memory of the past is a reconstruction of the present, not a real representation of the past.

10.When you are happy, you can recall the past, and everything is sunny and warm, and when you are unhappy, you can recall the past, which is a bad thing.

11.A person often recalls the things he did wrong in the past, regrets it, and is very painful, which can only show that his current emotional state is not good, not because he is sad because he recalls the wrong things, but recalls the bad past events just to explain or rationalize the bad emotions of the moment.

12.It is impossible for people to objectively evaluate who I used to be, because I am not the same person as I used to be.

13.There are three dimensions of yesterday, today, and tomorrow in people's inner time and space, and melancholy people live in yesterday, forgetting today, and there is no tomorrow. Anxious people live in a bad tomorrow, ignore today, and worry about yesterday.

People who actively bridge the gap live today, focus on tomorrow, and be grateful for a better yesterday. Dreamers only live in the fantasy of tomorrow, escaping today and yesterday. There is no yesterday and no tomorrow for those who transcend, only today.

14.When it is unpleasant, use memories to extract happy pasts, read and reminisce about them, the pleasant experiences of the past will be slowly awakened in the body, and the original frustration will be soaked and replaced by the pleasure of memories.

If I had a chance to go back to my childhood, I would tell myself a lot of things when I was a child, and here are my suggestions and ideas.

First of all, I would tell myself when I was a child not to care too much about other people's opinions, and to believe in my own worth and abilities. When I was a child, I was always very shy, afraid to express my thoughts and opinions, and always worried that others would laugh at me or not accept me. But I now understand that everyone has their own value and ability, and don't let other people's opinions affect your self-confidence and actions.

Secondly, I would tell myself as a child to cherish time and opportunities, and seize every opportunity to learn and grow. As a child, I was always playing and playing, and I didn't really like to spend time studying and thinking. But I now understand that time is limited, every opportunity should be taken advantage of, and learning and growth are one of the most important things in life.

Thirdly, I will tell myself to actively participate in social and friendship activities and establish good interpersonal relationships. When I was a child, I was more introverted and didn't want to communicate with others. But I now understand that relationships are very important to help us build a wider range of contacts and resources, while also helping us grow and develop.

Fourth, I would tell myself as a child to keep exercising and maintaining a healthy lifestyle. When I was a kid, I always loved snacks and junk food, and I didn't pay much attention to a healthy lifestyle. But I now understand that health is the foundation of everything, and only when you are healthy can you have more abilities and opportunities to pursue your goals and dreams.

Fifth, I would tell myself when I was a child to read more books and learn more knowledge to expand my horizons and thinking. When I was a child, I loved to read, but I didn't read much of it, and I wasn't very willing to think and explore. But I now understand that reading and studying is one of the best ways to expand one's horizons and thinking, and only by constantly learning and thinking can one become wiser and more valuable.

Sixth, I will tell myself when I was a child that I should respect my parents and elders, and learn to be grateful and giving. When I was a child, I sometimes didn't respect my parents and elders, and I didn't know how to be grateful and giving. But I now understand that family and affection are very important, and only by respecting parents and elders can we build good family relationships and interpersonal relationships.

Finally, I would tell my childhood self to be brave enough to pursue your dreams and goals, and not to give up and retreat easily. As a child, I was sometimes easily affected by setbacks and difficulties, and it was easy to give up and withdraw. But I now understand that it is very important to pursue dreams and goals, and only by constantly working hard and persevering can you achieve your dreams and goals.