May I ask if you can erect a monument for the dead and engrave the names of the living?

Not good. Whoever is buried in the tomb, whose name is on the stele, monogamy.

Write two names, one husband and two wives write three, and the names of the descendants are engraved in the name of the person who erected the monument. The questioner should also see in the movie and TV series, in the center of the tombstone is the person buried in the tomb, and the title of the deceased in the tombstone text is introduced: There is also a biographical introduction.

The name engraved in the lower left corner is the person who erected the monument, among which there are descendants, and there are also students who set up tombstones for teachers, sons-in-law for fathers-in-law, husbands for wives, and wives for husbands. The first time I found out that my spouse had erected a monument, I wondered if my spouse should not be buried in it, should this monument be replaced? Later, I guessed that the surviving person did not want or could not be buried with him or her.

On the ancestral graves of our hometowns, whether the descendants have erected a monument to the ancestors, or the children of the parents have passed away, the names of their sons, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and descendants who have died earlier are written in the lower left. In the past, we did not find a monument for the deceased to be engraved with red lacquer in advance on the ancestral grave, but only found a lot on the cemetery.

Why don't you know this? You're a kid, aren't you? If you set up a monument to the elders, the elders have passed, and the tombstone, of course, must engrave the name of the living person, otherwise who erected the monument, in the middle is, write the name of the deceased and then on the right, it is written, when was he born, when passed, the year, month and day or something, the left side is his children, ah, grandchildren, the more people on it, the better, it means that this old man is full of descendants!

Ninety-nine percent of the names of the loved ones engraved on the tombstones of all the deceased are living people, because it is a kind of mourning and memorial for the deceased by the living person. You can look at the numerous tombstones as you sweep the graves of your loved ones.

Why is it not good, his son's name or something should still be written.

Okay, it's called companionship, people can't go often, until the name is there, let him know that you are with him!

If you are the only one who erects the monument, it will only write the names of you and your wife, and this includes your children. Signed as Sun, and then written with his name. Most of the people who carved the monument understand.

For people who are under the age of 60 and have died without a son or grandson, there can be no tombstone just after death.

When such a person just died, in the first year, his relatives would only sweep the tomb and cultivate soil during the Qingming Festival, and when he died, some places would set off firecrackers to invite people to dinner, and of course he would still tidy up the grave.

It's just a ceremony anyway, but no matter what, you can't erect a monument.

It is not until the third year that a monument can be erected for the deceased.

Fourth, do not set up a single grave.

In some places, there is also a rule that if a person who dies under the age of 60 or older, even if it is three years old, the monument may not be erected, and the monument must be erected after three years until the death of his partner. That is to say, "erecting a monument does not erect a single grave, the public does not leave the mother-in-law, and there must be a father and a mother", and both parties must be dead for three years or more before the monument can be erected.

Of course, there is no absolute meaning for this, and some places cannot erect monuments, and some places can, and there will be some differences in each place.

As for the matter of talking about partners, the rules in some places are that it must be the original wife, and it seems that the new wife found after the divorce cannot be buried together, nor can the name be engraved on the tombstone. Of course, on the tombstones in some places, the woman has no name, and most of them follow her husband, such as Zhang, Li, and so on.

In fact, in addition to meeting the four conditions mentioned above, the erection of the monument is also linked to people's economic conditions. I have seen a lot of very old graves, no one swept the graves on the Qingming Festival or anything, the graves were full of weeds, and there were no tombstones, just like a lonely grave, and the person who died may have been forgotten by his family long ago. Of course, it is also possible that he died early and there is no way to erect a monument.

Summary. Hello dear! I'm glad to answer for you: I recommend that you don't erect a monument, because erecting a monument involves a lot of feng shui knowledge, which is not something that an ordinary feng shui master can solve. If something goes wrong with the monument, it is easy to have an accident, and if you don't erect a monument, you can avoid a lot of trouble.

When a person dies, it is better to erect a monument or not to erect a monument.

Hello dear! I'm glad to answer for you: I recommend that you don't erect a monument, because erecting a monument involves a lot of feng shui knowledge, which is not something that an ordinary feng shui master can solve. If something goes wrong with the monument, it is easy to have an accident, and if you don't erect a monument, you can avoid a lot of trouble.

My husband died at the age of 40, do I need to erect a monument?

The child was only seven years old.

Hello dear! I'm glad to answer for you: then you can also set up one, one or two generations can remember clearly, three generations later may not be able to remember, so it's better to set up a monument. But feng shui must be seen by the master before erecting a monument!

I just put him in the cemetery, and I need to find a feng shui master to see it.

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How much time is generally put in place.

Three years or 100 days.

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Do you still have to worship it every year?

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OK. After a person dies, if they want to set up a tomb, most of them must have a tombstone. The inscription on the tombstone generally engraves the name, place of origin, achievements, date of death, name of the person who erected the monument and the relationship with the deceased.

The person who erects the monument, including children, relatives and friends, and groups, should write on the tiger side of the monument, that is, on the right side. The child should be written in full, and the deceased child may be boxed around the name. It is still arranged from left to right.

There are also those who do not want to reveal their names, and they can write that their children stand or bow, and worship and stand together.

Generally speaking, the time of the monument can be arranged in advance, but the specific time depends on the funeral process and local customs. Generally speaking, a memorial service will be held within 7 days after the deceased has passed away, and a memorial service can be erected after the memorial service is over. However, there are special circumstances, such as the will requires the monument to be erected in advance, which can be arranged in advance.

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The tombstone is the deceased in the grave, and the identity description is evolved from the mark of the first grave so as not to find it later, so it is necessary to engrave the name of the deceased, and it is necessary to engrave the name of the living, as long as the living person does not object, there is no explicit provision, and I am really helping you look forward to it. Also, in fact, I am very Han Li does not recommend that the name of a very living person be engraved, this kind of practice, divide people's souls, break people's longevity, and hope to do it yourself. To commemorate the deceased, it is enough to talk about cherry blossoms and Qingming.

But it's up to you to decide what to do