Giving love to someone you have nothing to do with hurts the person closest to you. Events

Updated on psychology 2024-03-30
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, the people who love me the most are my parents, and I did do things that made them sad.

    It starts with my daughter-in-law. Most of my marriages were done by my parents and sister. But because my sister did some things that snubbed my daughter-in-law a little, my daughter-in-law still has a big opinion of my sister.

    On the day of the wedding, my sister also said bad things about my daughter-in-law in our house, saying that my daughter-in-law was more difficult to serve, and I was silent when I sat on the kang at that time.

    After that, my daughter-in-law disliked my sister, thinking that she was weak and sickly, which involved a lot of energy from my parents, causing my parents to despise me as a son, so they compared it with my sister. And instead of extinguishing my daughter-in-law's anger, I added fuel to the fire, saying that my sister had spoken ill of her behind my daughter-in-law's back.

    It didn't matter, my daughter-in-law was furious at the time, and she began to cry to my parents, saying that my sister treated her badly and made it difficult for my parents. In the end, my parents suspected me, and I didn't lie, saying that I had done it, and I saw my parents look very disappointed, and they were very sad.

    When I woke up the next day and saw that my parents' eyes were red, I knew that I was really too impulsive and reckless in doing things, which broke their hearts. Family harmony is the most important thing for them, and I am undoubtedly destroying the whole family by doing so. So I felt very guilty at the time, and I can't make up for it until now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After getting married, I often quarrel with my husband over some trivial things, and when I quarrel, I often say some cruel things, such as regretting marrying him, or wanting to divorce, I will regret it immediately when I say these words, but my husband will be very sad and heartbroken after hearing it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm just saying a lot of things, some of these heartbreaking things, I feel very helpless when I think about it now, because sometimes we don't mean it ourselves, but we also hurt others unintentionally.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The happiest thing for him is my mother, because when I was in junior high school, I often skipped classes and played games online, and then one day, I saw my mother crying, and since then I have been going to school well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think the person who loves me the most in this world is my grandmother, when I was more rebellious in junior high school, my grandmother wouldn't let me play games, and then I was in a hurry at that time, so I said something very hurtful to my grandmother.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I may have hurt my mother, but I didn't realize that because I was so kind, there was no taboo in talking, which caused my mother to feel uncomfortable by accidentally talking. So I'm sorry too.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, more or less I must have hurt the person I love the most, I liked to be my object at that time, I knew he liked me too, I liked to do it at that time, vexatious, and then he got sick because of this.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The people who love me the most are my parents, when I was a child, they didn't obey me and I quarreled with them, and once I even had a fight with my mother, and now I think about how sad they were at that time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I had never been aware of the lethal power of words, but I gradually learned how to speak in school, and I also discovered how bad words in daily life can be for my loved ones.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The people who love me the most are my parents, who chose to drop out of school and work in society when they were in college, but at that time my parents also disagreed in every way, and broke their hearts, so far this is the only thing I have ever done to make my parents sad.

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