If two people love each other are separated, there s always a reason

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Kindness. To say that, it must be that both sides or one side are unwilling to change.

    Or something, who is deterred.

    Not loving enough. Are you still together? Hehe, you don't understand each other enough, right, love is like that.

    We all love each other because we see what we like each other, and after loving for a long time, naturally many dissatisfaction points have been exposed.

    You really love each other, you should think like this, you are already the most suitable pair, every pair of people who love each other have times when they are not compatible, you are the most suitable for each other, change someone else, maybe hurt you more, you think about each other when it is good for you, and then properly experience each other's feelings, to understand each other.

    If you are separated again now, it is not loving enough.

    I heard you say this, I think you love each other a lot, at least my former boyfriend and I, none of them have ever gotten back together, the past is the past, and I forgot that you are in love, I wish you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, in the end, it has to do with personal personality and endurance, and now I know that I want to fight. However, there are some things that are not subject to will, and if there are two possibilities, LZ will see if he will be happy in the future before making a conclusion.

    1. The life circles are very different, for example, a graduate student, a shampoo girl, I don't feel anything in love, at most I can hide it, but as soon as I get married, the contradiction comes, one wants to study, and the other wants to play; one is taste-conscious, the other is face-conscious (quality and quantity in terms of shopping); one focuses on connotation, the other looks at the image (involving the birth of children); One likes to be reasonable with facts, and the other is simple to know; In addition, once a quarrel occurs, it is easy to evoke old things and cause conflicts.

    Second, if the economic conditions are much worse, you can get through it now, but if his promises and efforts before marriage do not bear fruit, or his promises are not put into action, or other reasons, resulting in differences in living habits, and then compared with others (perhaps needless to say), and then quarrels and damage to the other party's self-esteem, you see, even if such a marriage name can be maintained, what is the point.

    So if you really love him, fight it, and if you hesitate or are not ready to press for a lifetime, don't give up, just look more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are many, many people who love each other who have broken up, some are inappropriate, some don't feel it, and some don't want to get married... But I feel that you and him don't need to continue at all, he doesn't know what you feel in your heart, if it goes on like this, it is very likely that you will be hurt!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are many reasons for this, and love is not what most people say"Love is together, and if you don't love, you are separated"In fact, there are times when there is a last resort.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Or maybe the people in his family put pressure on him, because not knowing Cantonese is really a problem in Guangdong Province.

    It is advisable to have a deep talk with your boyfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I am also from Guangdong.

    But I've never disliked people who don't speak Cantonese.

    I think your boyfriend is so selfish.

    He doesn't care what you think.

    There is no good result in getting along like this.

    Let's separate.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is a very beautiful and easy thing, if you carry too much, then it will not last long.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not that I don't love because of helplessness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe. It's just that it doesn't call.

    Not everything has a reason!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's hard to say about feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not necessarily. Everyone has a different experience.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, aren't you emotionally firm, hehe.

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