How long will it take to forget someone you don t want to forget?

Have you ever confessed? If it was a confession, it didn't work out.

Then I'll teach you a way. But are you sure you really want to forget her?

First of all, you have to get to know her well.

Then look for his shortcomings. And then compare it to other people.

Look at her strengths again, and try to imagine that as a pretend.

For example, she is very lively. You can think of it as naïve. It's not big.

Time will dilute, but he will live somewhere in your heart, and one day you will think of him, but after a long time, it will be better, and you will not love so deeply, and you may want to wish him happiness one day.

We'll never forget the people we once loved, but now I admit it! Time can slowly fade away ... Including the love you once had ...

Since the love is so deep.

How can it be easily forgotten

Don't forget it.

Time is the best neutralizer.

Don't dwell on the past.

Keep the happy part.

Learn to look forward.

People don't forget, but that feeling between you will one day come back to ......

Time can dilute all ......I believe in time.

Why deliberately forget.

Instead, you can keep it as if it were a very innocent memory.

Seven years can forget a person.

No matter how deep the wound is, it only takes seven years to heal. Since it takes seven years to replace all the cells in the body, there is not a single old number of round cells, and every day that passes, some of the cells that are missed will die, and one day they will be clean.

Ways to forget a person:

1. Keep yourself busy.

Keep yourself busy, not only will you focus on another thing, but you can also divert your attention appropriately, especially those things that are more detailed and have to be done, which will make your brain quickly forget about some people and things and focus on the thing at hand. This method is often the most effective, but the effect time is also relatively short, and you need to use this method for a long time to make that person fade out of your field of vision.

2. Distance yourself and reduce meetings.

Forget that the first thing a person needs to do is to distance himself, try to avoid meetings that can be avoided, and don't do it too deliberately, try to reduce the number of times the two meet, and also source the ridge to effectively dilute his memory.

3. Divide time with the people around you.

Think about him more time and hail yourself to the people around you, those are the people you should care about and miss, maybe as long as you look back, you can see that they are standing behind you, supporting you all the time. <>

How long it takes to forget a person depends on the weight of that person in your heart and whether that person still has some influence on you.

Forgetting a person is to avoid pain, and the reason why some people, crying and shouting, want to forget the person who is deeply related to them in the depths of their memory, is because they want to avoid pain. For some inconsequential people in real life, it is difficult for us to have the idea of forgetting each other, because he does not affect our thoughts at all.

On the contrary, for those who have a good relationship with us, two people have nothing to say, especially some particularly good friends or lovers, then after some contradictions and disputes, the relationship between the two people cannot be reunited, then we naturally want to forget each other.

It takes three steps to completely forget about a person.

1. Accept the facts.

Many people face a breakup, because they have just broken away from the intimate relationship, both physically and psychologically, our body is not willing to accept such an outcome, and our brain is not willing to accept it.

So, in order to alleviate this pain, we will deceive ourselves, including coming up with all kinds of reasons to prove that the other person still loves us, using various methods to show that it is still possible between you, and even someone will force each other to die and threaten the other person to continue to be with us.

Although this may provide temporary relief from our suffering, it will not be conducive to our growth in the long run. When facing a breakup, whether you will get back together in the future or not, you should learn to tell yourself: we have broken up, everything is in the past tense, and I have to learn to accept this outcome.

2. Don't blame yourself too much.

After we break up, we are also prone to a kind of wrong psychology - self-blame, we will blame ourselves for the fault of the breakup, and feel that it is because we have not done a good job that leads to the departure of the other party.

We like to blame ourselves because it gives us a psychological hint that if I do those things well, they will come back to me. However, the breakdown of any relationship is not a one-person problem, and a breakup does not mean which of the two is bad, you are simply not a good fit.

3. Learn to be alone.

At the beginning of the breakup, whenever you do something alone, you will always remember that this thing has always been done by the two of you in the past, and when you see familiar things, you can't help but think of them, and you need to spend a lot of time to get used to being alone.

But luckily, there's still a long way to go, and you do have plenty of time to find the joy of being alone. You can try things you wanted to do but didn't, you can run, you can draw, you can make food ......There is so much to discover in life.