Hello, my child is at his grandmother s house, I want to bring it back, if his family doesn t let me

Definitely, you can't force yourself to reason with that old man, no matter what? What about the elderly? For your children also have to pay a lot of hard work, you have to know gratitude, if you want to take the child back, I want to start from the child's learning, and tell the elderly, as long as it is for the child, the future of the future, what about the elderly?

He will sympathize with Dari, and so will he, give in for the sake of his grandson's future future, and wish you to respect an old man and bring the child back.

It's okay to bring it back, if it is not advisable to force it, the first will hurt the child, the second will intensify the conflict, and the third is disrespectful to the elderly.

You definitely can't force it, it will hurt your children, so it's better to decide through negotiation, if you can't negotiate, then go through the legal process, I hope it can help you.

Why force it? This is your child, you can make it clear to his grandmother's family, and say that there is something to talk about, if you force it, it will hurt the relationship between the two families, which is not good for the child.

I think you can go to your grandmother's house to see your children, and if your children are young, try not to bring them back, because a stable life is good for your children.

If your child is sensible, you can ask him if he would like to stay home with his father for a few days. If the child wishes, he can persuade his grandmother to agree. You must not do this forcefully.

Hello. Discuss it well, it's not good to be in grandma's house alone, and there are drawbacks to intergenerational parenting, and children need to be brought by their parents.

You communicate with your children and grandmothers about this aspect of the elderly with their children, and the way of education is even more different, and it is best to bring it back.

It is the responsibility of parents to raise their children. It's not a matter of grandparents, for the sake of children's education, whether grandparents agree or not, you have to stick to your own principles.

Let's discuss it carefully, in fact, not only depends on the thoughts of adults, but also the thoughts of children, of course, if there are other special circumstances, give priority to what is good for children).

Are you divorced? Discuss it with the child's mother before doing it.

Summary. Hello dear, good evening. <>

You are the father of the child, her mother took her to her mother-in-law's house, and you don't want the child to spend the night outside, the teacher does not recommend that you take the child back. Because the child only passed once or twice, he didn't spend the night outside often, and it was at his grandmother's house. At this time, if you go to pick up the child, then it is inevitable that your father-in-law and mother-in-law will think too much, and the relationship between you is actually not good.

I am the father of the child, her mother took her to her mother-in-law's house, and I don't want the child to spend the night outside, can I go and pick her up?

Hello dear, good evening. <>

You are the father of the child, her mother took her to her mother-in-law's house, and you don't want the child to spend the night outside, the teacher does not recommend that you take the child back. Because the child only passed once or twice, he didn't spend the night outside often, and it was at his grandmother's house. At this time, if you go to pick up the child, then it is inevitable that your father-in-law and mother-in-law will think too much, and the relationship between you is actually not good.

My dear, the teacher understands your feelings and doesn't want your child to spend the night outside, and thinks it's better to be at her own house, but she is going to Grandma's house, not to someone else's house, so it doesn't matter. And it's not recurring, it's just once. If you and your wife don't have a conflict, then it's okay to let your child spend the night at your grandmother's house, but if you have a conflict with your wife, then she takes the child back to her parents' house.

At this time, it is still necessary to pick up their <>

My dear, we have to do it according to the actual situation. <>

<> understand that you love children, but seniors also like to spend time with children, and it's actually not bad to give a little time for them to get along and promote the relationship between parents and children. <>

The child cries every night, as long as the father and mother don't want it, I am just worried about the child.

If you understand the feelings of your dear and worried about your child, then it is okay to bring your child back.

However, it is still necessary to discuss it with the child's mother.

You have to ask your mother's permission, otherwise if you are the only one who wants to bring the baby home, it will make your dear parents-in-law think that we are disrespecting them.

My dear, I care about the baby very much, it seems that the baby has been very close to you since childhood. <>

I don't want to understand them because they don't understand me either, I just want my children to be happy, and if I cry in the middle of the night and look for my father, my father is not there, and I feel sad when I think about it.

It seems that there is a misunderstanding between you and your father-in-law.

In fact, it will be better for the children to have their parents-in-law to support each other in the future.

If you can have a good relationship, try to have a good relationship, if you can't do it, then at least you can't be intense.

My mother-in-law looked down on my father-in-law and passed away.

Understand your feelings. The thinking of the older generation is sometimes indeed more stubborn, and even more hurtful.

Alas, dear, hard work.

In this case, we must work hard to improve our own capabilities. Take a breath.

Summary. My dear, your wife ran away from home, and you put the child on your mother-in-law's side, which I think is more inappropriate. The teacher thinks that you should take care of the child by yourself, or give the child to your grandparents.

Because your mother-in-law may think that you have done something wrong and run away from her daughter. If the matter is very serious, you will not be together later, and it will be more difficult for the child to come back if he is left with his grandmother! <>

The child's mother ran away from home, and I asked my grandmother to take the child, so the child would not be able to come in the future.

My dear, your wife ran away from home, and you put the child on Yue Liangzhi's mother's side, I think it's more inappropriate. The teacher thinks that you should take care of the child by yourself, or give the child to your grandparents. Because your mother-in-law may think that you have done something wrong and run away with her daughter.

If the matter is very serious, you will not be together in the future, and it will be more difficult for the child to come back if he is placed on his grandmother's side! <>

Of course, the teacher thinks that if the matter is not very serious, then you will have to find a way to coax her home, after all, it is not easy to form a family, and the child must be accompanied by his mother and father, and he will be happy and happy when he grows up! <>

Summary. You can't listen to your child, it's too much of a spoil! He should be sensible!

In this case, you let the father and son use rock-paper-scissors to decide who wins and loses! Be a referee!

Let them solve their own affairs, what are you worried about? Isn't it?

Alas, the most important thing for me is to listen to my children.

After all, the child is also a ten-year-old.

The child just wants to stay at my mother's house, I want to stay at our house, and the child says he wants to stay at my mother's house, so I don't know what to do.

Then you make them want to stay there and stay there!

Yes, I want to hear my child's opinion, but my husband disagrees.

You can't listen to your child, it's too much of a spoil! He should be sensible!

So what should I do?

Then you let them win or lose!

Rock-paper-scissors.

The child said that his grandparents were not good to them, so they didn't want to stay there.

Oh! Then let his dad go back by himself!

You let the two of them decide!

Summary. In principle, it is not advisable to unilaterally prevent one party from not allowing the other party to see the child from the perspective of the child's growth, psychological growth, or physical growth.

The child is at + grandma's house, can the father go and pick him up.

Hello! The child is at + grandma's house, can the father go and pick him up and go home, of course he can, why not.

His mother didn't go home, and my grandmother didn't give me that way to pick up the child.

Are you still in a relationship with the mother of your child?

Yes. Of course, you can pick up the kids. It is out of respect for the elderly, you can consult with them first.

I asked you if the negotiation was not good.

Originally, I said that I would not let me watch it when I went home for the New Year.

In principle, this situation is that during the period without divorce, the children are still the dusty children of both parties, and from the perspective of the psychological growth of the children, or the physical growth of the brothers, it is not advisable to unilaterally prevent one party from not letting the other party go to see the children.

That way you can take the child away.

The wife's refusal to allow him to see the child is a violation of the man's right to visit the child and can be sued.

It's not good for the child if you use it.

So it's better to go through the legal process.

What is the legal process, the child is almost four years old to study.

It's a lawsuit.

Summary. Since you are the legal guardian of the child, no one may bring the child without the consent of the guardian and leave the guardian's control, otherwise his behavior is an act of abducting a child.

Since you are the legal guardian of the child, no one is allowed to bring the child without the consent of the guardian and get out of the control of the guardian, otherwise the behavior of the empty eggplant will belong to the act of abducting the child by Dou Mengcha.

This situation can be said to be a "contradiction among the people", and if you can solve it in your own family, try to solve it in your own family, don't make trouble outside, and don't publicize the ugliness of your family. I don't know the specific situation, but grandma must have done it for a reason, such as a conflict with the landlord's world, or a conflict with other people. It's best if both parties can sit down and talk, solve the problem, or tell grandma how important the child is to you and that you want the child to be by your side!

If you really can't solve it, ask the court and the police station to intervene!

The mother-in-law should help with the children, so that she can reduce the burden on her own children and also increase the bond between herself and her grandchildren.

No, because the responsibility to care for the child should be borne by both parents, not by other elders.

If the mother-in-law has a certain ability and energy, she can help take care of the child, but if the mother-in-law is not in good physical condition and all aspects, she does not need to help the child to take care of the grandchild.

I think the daughter-in-law's opinion should be respected, after all, it is the child's mother, if the daughter-in-law wants the mother-in-law to bring it, you can bring it, but if the daughter-in-law wants to bring it herself, to give the child a complete family environment, or to respect the daughter-in-law's opinion.

After all, my mother-in-law has raised her own children, and their task has been completed, so they should no longer help bring the next generation.

If they are able, they should, if they are frail and sick, after all, it is difficult for them to take care of themselves, so they have the time and energy to take care of their children.