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First of all, try to immerse yourself in other people, and try to interject a few words when talking to familiar people around you, showing that you are willing to communicate with them; Gradually, get closer to them, understand their preferences and personalities, and gradually relax your heart and accept them as your friends. Rest assured, if you give sincerely, you don't have to be afraid of not getting a sincere return. As long as you insist, you are sincere, and you believe in yourself, you will definitely be able to!
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Good friends don't have to be there, you can't have a good relationship with you from the beginning, if so, it's definitely not right. Good friends, this kind of thing, it depends on fate and time...
If you are autistic, you need to communicate more with the people around you. As for how to get rid of fear, you can read books on the Internet, I think it will be more or less helpful. To get rid of autism, you still have to rely on yourself, and you have to change your mentality.
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Hey. It's all bad people on the Internet, and you want to make a group of good friends.
Actually, I really want to make a group of good friends.
It's a pity. Autism As long as you don't reject me
I'm sure you'll get a good doctor.
If you're a man, you go to someone else and heal you.
If you don't have money, you can find someone else to treat you.
I charge very expensive.
Let's be honest, going online will only get more and more autistic.
I'm serious.
Seriously.
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Heck, just make some fun and have fun, anyway, there are no real friends in the first place. A friend is just the object to whom you speak, the partner who helps each other, and the ladder that leads to what you seek.
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When you find that you have this symptom, you must go out and have more contact with others, otherwise you may get autism if you continue to do it for a long time, so you can get rid of it while it is still early.
Think you can't make friends? It is impossible for a person to have even one friend in this world, there will always be someone who smells like him, but he hasn't met it yet! We don't have to make good friends!
It's the same with an ordinary friend, so you don't feel so lonely, there are still people to warm you, and there are still people who are willing to be friends with you.
Another reason is that there are too many shortcomings in yourself, when communicating with others, you should pay attention to what you say or other aspects, sometimes because of a small habit of your own, you can make others hate yourself, people are so inexplicable, don't like you just don't like it, no matter how good you are to her. The presence of these people makes it possible for you to see who your true best friends are.
Don't be autistic and talk to your parents and grandchildren! They will definitely not want to see you like this, their words of concern for you will definitely hurt your heart, at this time, don't forget that even if you can't make friends and your own parents, you will never be alone in the fight. Your true spiritual pillar is still waiting for you at home!
Think about them and you will have the courage to go out and make friends, you will find that making friends is actually very simple, you only need to pay your sincerity, sincerity The other party will definitely feel it, and one day you will receive what you deserve. Don't be too pessimistic about this world, when you look at this world with your own eyes, it will be so beautiful.
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First of all, I think you have to open your heart and not close yourself. Learning to communicate with others is a good way to overcome autism, and you can choose to communicate with your family members first, because they are the closest people and you will not be guarded. You won't be embarrassed or unable to speak, and that's probably what might cause you to be autistic.
Because often autism is caused by the family environment, or there is some shadow in childhood. Family members are the closest people we are, so we can talk to them without warning, and there is nothing we need to pay attention to, if we really say something wrong. They won't have anything to say about you or anything like that.
So speak up in front of your family.
Secondly, I think you have to really go out. Going out and communicating with others or that you can start with a party is a great way to get to know a lot of people in the party, even though you might. I don't take the initiative to communicate with others or anything like that, but I think you can answer when people ask you or talk to you, out of politeness.
In this way, once you are born and twice cooked, you will naturally make friends. In fact, making friends is not a difficult thing, as long as you really treat others with sincerity, others will naturally treat you with sincerity. The reason why I can't communicate, and the reason why I'm becoming more and more autistic may be because I have done too little practice like this.
Therefore, I should go out more, really go out, and dare to communicate with others. That's where real progress can be made.
Finally, I think you can try to go out and talk to strangers. Or with one of your skills, like singing on the street, playing the guitar, etc., you can go out and communicate with others. Many times, it's not that we're not incapable, it's that we're really afraid, afraid to go out, afraid to face the ridicule of others.
Or ridicule or something like that, because sometimes the more you fear, the less courage you have. Although for many things we dare not try, we are afraid to try. If you really experience life and look at people in the past, you will know that you really need to communicate with others, so that you can learn more.
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When you find yourself more and more autistic, it means that you have realized that this is a serious problem, in fact, this is a good turning point, the most afraid is that you don't know that you have autism, which often makes you sink all the time, but when you find yourself with this problem, it means that you want to make a change, as long as you think about it, I believe you will eliminate the way that suits you to change your own problem, so that you can let go of more and more friends.
In addition to you facing this matter from the heart, you also need to persevere, because if a person is autistic, it is often because he does not have the courage to communicate with others, so he will become more and more lonely, and when you try to communicate with others, you will encounter obstacles, and these obstacles will become an excuse for you to escape, so when you change when you come, you must persevere, and firmly believe that you will be able to make changes, only in this way can you really become cheerful.
Of course, you can actually change this autistic mental illness with the help of good friends, I believe that even if you are very autistic, there will definitely be one or two intimate friends, you can tell them about your inner distress, at this time your friends will definitely carefully enlighten you, and give you some guiding suggestions, at this time you will feel that it is very warm to communicate with people, plus those suggestions and methods, I believe you can get inspiration from them, so as to find your own way of communication, Find more friends.
Be sure to force yourself to be cheerful, no one wants to do things you don't like, but often these things you don't like are the most beneficial to your life, so be sure to let yourself do something you don't like, so that you can accumulate more courage.
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Don't lock yourself in your home or dorm room all day to play games and surf the Internet, and lock yourself in a small and closed space, then you will become more and more autistic and unable to make friends. Observe more, observe the people around you, what they do together, what topics they talk about, cater to them, and follow their topics.
Learn to read books and reserve knowledge, the more you know, you will be able to participate in the topics of the people around you, and let the people around you feel that your knowledge is wide and more, and naturally the people around you will gather around you, and the people around you will make friends with you. Go to places with a lot of people, find people with common hobbies to participate in activities together, participate in more activities organized by the school at school, be proactive, do what you can, and take the initiative to integrate in.
Learn from the life of the better people around you, learn from their strengths, and get in touch with the kind of people you know well, and see how they make friends. We must work hard to change ourselves.
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Be sure to open your heart and take the initiative to contact others, so that others will also take the initiative to contact you, as long as you treat others sincerely, you will be able to make close friends.
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I think more and more autistic, it may be you, you may have a little inferiority, you have to believe in yourself, if you contact more people, you will meet a lot of friends with the same interests as you. You can't teach yourself to shut yourself off in your own world and go out and get in touch with each other, so that you can expand your circle of friends, and then you won't be autistic, and only after you have contact with friends will you find the joy of having friends.
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Since it is because of emotional frustration, it naturally has to be solved emotionally. It's the best thing to be able to start a new relationship all over again. As a friend, you should be more considerate of your friend's behavior. Care more. Everything will always be fine.
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Go to the outreach or let him go alone to a big city far away.
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The best thing to do is to get a psychiatrist to enlighten you!
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There is a saying that I don't know if you have heard of it: heart disease requires heart medicine!
Since he was injured when he was in school, it means that he is very disappointed in his relationship, and all he wants to change is to start a new relationship.
When he is autistic, he also has some inferiority, find him some self-confidence!
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You can get in touch with everyone as much as possible, help them as much as possible, and gradually become more sunny and you can almost make friends.
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You can try to talk to your classmates, I'm also a bit autistic, so trust me.
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Find people who share your interests and talk about your psychology.
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Take the initiative to communicate with others and open your heart.
First of all, don't be too reticent, and secondly, you can take the initiative to find a topic to communicate with others, such as: problems in life, when you can't make up your mind, let him help you.
It's so difficult at the beginning, because of your own problems, the Internet is a communication platform, or you have some inferiority complex in reality, but the Internet gives you enough self-confidence, so it is to help you retain your shortcomings and show your good side. It's hard to get along because you're not sincere enough with your friends, or you're not direct enough with your friends, and you're always vague, so it's hard to get along, and if you want to find a friend, then you first have to accept him without reservation. If you have these, then you can definitely find friends, friends, be a little more confident, speak a little more humorously, see a little more in everything, think a little more about things, then you don't have to feel inferior, you used to be the focus... >>>More
Take the initiative yourself, treat it sincerely with your heart, you can definitely make good friends and work hard, contact more if you have nothing to do, don't lose your temper, treat people equally, don't feel that you are noble, I think the best thing to use is to smile every day, and there are more people who are willing to contact you. Pluck up the courage to speak up.
Communicate sincerely and have your own principles. Don't be in a hurry, a good friendship takes time, especially at the beginning, strangers often give you two impressions when you first meet, one is that this person is not suitable for making true friends, and the other is that this person is good, and you want to make friends with him sincerely. >>>More