The girl who has just met for a short time has only seen one time, and she has not yet started to co

You said that the girl who just met for a short time only met once, and before you started to get in touch, you said that the three views are different, you don't know if it can be reversed?

There should be no eyesight, maybe she is not satisfied with your conditions, find a good excuse to refuse, you don't have to waste time, anyway, it hasn't started yet, save it, find someone else.

Haha......Haha......

This kind of thing is very difficult, and a woman's feelings are very powerful, so if he thinks you are not good or doesn't like your appearance, it may be difficult to win back others in all aspects of your body.

1. Face issues.

Many people do not accept second-married women mainly because they feel that divorced women are second-hand, and they feel faceless after marrying, and the people around them will always talk behind their backs, followed by pressure from their parents. As parents of the generation, they are usually more traditional and have more concerns about second-married women. In their eyes, second-married women are usually less valuable, who would be willing to marry a second-married child who has worked hard to "discredit" the family, unless their sons are not in good condition, and they are very old and can't find a partner, otherwise it is rare to meet an old man who is very tolerant of his son marrying a second-married woman.

Some men themselves hold this view, so they would rather marry an older leftover woman than a second-married woman.

2. A woman who is married for the second time is more realistic and more difficult to make friends.

A woman who has had a marriage, after the marriage fails, the longing for love has been worn out, replaced by material, reality, and money, especially if you have children, it is inevitable that your selfishness will be heavier. Some women would rather suffer a little for themselves, but they will definitely think about their children, so as the saying goes, "a halfway husband and wife will always be a thief". Because of selfishness, it is inevitable to look at things biasedly, and always feel that the other party will be like this, so they tend to be wary and hateful of each other in marriage.

Looking at things from the material point of view, this is one of the main reasons why many men are reluctant to find a second-married woman.

3. The relationship between a woman in a second marriage is complicated.

The reason why some men are reluctant to marry a second-married woman is because they are afraid that after the woman marries home, she will always be entangled with her ex-husband. Unlike first-married women, second-married women have ex-husbands, and some have children, as the saying goes, "a husband and wife for a hundred days", and after the breakdown of some marriages, one of them may regret it and want to redeem it. In this case, it will be difficult for a man who has married a second married woman to accept the disconnection between the two people, after all, many situations can occur after marriage, and men will carefully consider the possibility of these situations before marriage.

Many couples who marry for the second time mostly have children, even if both parties can get the approval of the children to get married, but after all, they are not fathers or mothers, there will definitely be some estrangement, and the older the children, the deeper the estrangement. And sometimes when one party has one child, in order not to be partial, but to favor a child who is not his own, it will bring greater contradictions to the two children.

And after many people have children, even if they remarry, they don't want to have another child because of economics, age and other issues, and even if they want to have more, they can't do it. In this way, there is one less condition for the maintenance of this marriage, and there is not even a bond in the future when they quarrel or are unhappy.

Ex-husband and ex-wife are not clean.

Now that everyone in society is open, even if they are divorced, they will not die of old age and do not get along with each other, which has caused many people to still have contact with their ex-husbands and wives. Sometimes it's because of children, sometimes it's because of money and property, more or less they will be connected, although there is no emotion, but it will still make the current lover feel guilty.

In particular, a man's ex-wife who has not remarried is the most difficult problem to solve, and they always have all kinds of problems to contact the man. It's the child who is sick again, the son misses his father again, and even if he wants to change the light bulb at home, he has to call his ex-husband. This is a headache for many second-married women.

Ignore him, just don't go back in the future.

We need to adjust our mentality and calm down a bit. It is inevitable that there will be troubles in life, which is very distressing. But we can try to look at things from a different perspective, and that might help us.

When you are upset, you can try to listen**, find someone to chat with or go out to exercise outdoors to relax. It's also good for our physical and mental health. Hopefully, you will be able to come out of your upset soon.

Do you know each other? Personally, he may be interesting to you, and when you are lonely, you will always find someone you like to talk to. The other is pure harassment.

It is recommended to block it, be careful, and call the police if necessary. After all, no matter what the reason, at least he doesn't know how to respect another person's life, and will only live in his own world. To put it simply, even if he likes you, he will be self-centered.

Coming to you when you're drunk Maybe you're important to him, or maybe it's a vexatious mess when you're drunk, but be careful.

Maybe I like you, I spit out the truth after drinking, maybe I don't usually have the courage to say it.

He likes you and wants you to value him and comfort him.

Maybe I want to talk to you about my heart by getting drunk.

Ignore him, such a rotten spill is not worth it.

Maybe he likes you, but he's embarrassed to say it to you.

I have you in my heart. I don't dare to confess to you.

If you have a good impression of the blind date, you should take the initiative to chat with him, but pay attention to the way and skills of chatting.

1. Take a deep breath to adjust your state and be confident. When you chat with someone you like, you don't know if the other person has a crush on you or has just established a relationship, and it's still a little strange. Therefore, you will suffer from gains and losses, and you will be nervous.

At this time, you must be confident, and self-confident people are the most attractive. Chatting is a matter of two people, if two people only have one person to talk about, it is not interesting at all, although you are a girl, but you should also find more common topics.

Second, you must be able to talk about a complete thing in a serious and devoting manner. Serious men are the most handsome, and serious girls are the most moving. You like him, and your seriousness may also be able to touch his heart at some point.

A complete thing can reflect your logical ability and serious ability, so you should be able to tell a complete story. And you have to learn to be humorous, so many people say the importance of humor, so when you chat with the person you like, you should also be humorous occasionally, which can relieve the tense atmosphere and psychology in the chat, and make each other better carry out the topic.

3. Pretend that the other person is a friend, not the object of your intentions against him. Establishing a relationship between "friends" can relieve the stress caused by crushes or flirtatious relationships, and you will be relatively relaxed and less nervous when chatting.

And learn to attract the attention of the other person. There are many times when you may not be alone together chatting, there are a lot of light bulbs around, and at this time, cheeky.

Be thick and take the initiative to go over and chat with him. Or, you can jump out appropriately and express your own opinions and opinions, and be serious and focused when publishing.

If you have feelings for him, of course take the initiative to talk to him, but here are a few things you need to learn:

1. You should learn to show your true self in front of him, many girls will instinctively disguise themselves in front of the boys they like, trying to shape themselves into a very perfect person, either wearing exquisite makeup, or wearing too grand clothes, giving others a feeling of over-force, which will not only increase the distance between you, but also directly affect his first impression of you.

It is advisable to keep yourself in life, remember a sentence, people who like you, no matter how sloppy you are, like you.

2. Should learn to express bravely, some girls are originally a person who talks eloquently, but in front of the person they like, they will suddenly become less able to speak, the final reason is that they will become nervous in the face of the person they like, and they will worry that the other party does not like to listen to what they say. It is recommended that you should learn to express yourself in life, you know, the more afraid you are, the less you will be able to speak, and the more you will not be able to talk to the other party.

3. There should be a basic understanding of him, some girls often have a superficial impression of boys, it may be an inadvertent action of him, it may be his unintentional concern, in short, there will be a variety of reasons, but many times if we really like a person, we should have an understanding of his life, such as personal hobbies, dressing style, etc., which can not only make you have something to talk about when you meet next time, but also enhance your distance.

4. You should learn to take the initiative appropriately, you can take the initiative to chat with him, but don't always take the initiative. If he is too active, he will feel in his heart that even if he doesn't talk to you, you will take the initiative to find him, and he will not bother to think about what to talk to you about, because you have already considered this issue.

5. You should learn to shut up, some girls will start to use some simple small means when they don't get a response from each other for a long time, such as deliberately expressing their good feelings for other boys in front of him, hoping to see him jealous, this technique is good to use once in a while, if you use it often, it will only make him really think that you are chatting with him just for other boys, and it will only make him farther away from you.

6. The other party should be given the opportunity to express his suggestions, not you alone to talk about it, but give him the opportunity to speak. If you're afraid that you won't talk to each other and keep talking, maybe he'll get bored. Chatting is a two-person thing, and if you say something that he doesn't want to listen to, and you continue to talk about it, it may make him reluctant to talk to you too much next time.

You should let him talk about what you have in common.

Many girls who go on a blind date have thought about such a question, whether they are contacted after the blind date, and how long they have not been contacted means that there is no play. Maybe you actually have a good impression of him, but the other party has not taken the initiative to contact you, you don't understand what the other party thinks, how to figure out what the other party thinks?

Usually after a blind date, many people will not know how long they have not been in contact or there is no play, should girls take the initiative to contact boys? In response to these problems, I personally feel that girls should not take the initiative to contact boys. Men are naturally aggressive and hunting, especially when dealing with the opposite sex, that is, if they are interested in you, they will take the initiative to contact you, contact you, and even press a little step by step until you "disarm and surrender".

In connection with the reality, if he doesn't take the initiative to contact him that night after the blind date, you can almost prepare for the next blind date; If you don't have contact within three days, you can celebrate with champagne because you don't have to waste any more time with a man who doesn't love you. Don't make excuses for him, he may be too busy, a man is too busy to take care of you at the stage of pursuing you, so after marriage, you can imagine that you can take the initiative with such a man, are you sure you can really tolerate being ignored often after marriage?

As the saying goes, "Men chase women across mountains, women chase men across the veil", this sentence is biased, or it is out of step with the times. Most men run away from aggressive women, unwilling to be hunted.

Maybe you think that man is funny and humorous, and his appearance and height are not bad, maybe he is just missing the kick you take the initiative. Sisters, do you know how many women have such thoughts as you, such men are definitely sought after by many women, so they are always comfortable among women, and you are not the only one. This kind of man uses his advantages to grasp the weakness of women, and if he doesn't contact you for three days, he just weaves a net, and when you take the initiative to contact him, he will be trapped in the net and unable to extricate himself.

If the guy on a blind date likes you, he will definitely contact you that night, even if he is introverted and clumsy, he will ask your introducer to probe you as soon as possible. Even if you talk too much on a blind date and come home too late, he will inevitably find some excuse to contact you the next day that you think is obvious, such as caring about your diet during meals, or asking you to meet you directly after work. Some people are more direct and will directly tell you about the possible development between you, which will be within a day or two after the blind date.

Men, apparently, are anxious, and they possess a decisive personality that does not hesitate in these matters.

In the face of those men who do not take the initiative to contact after the blind date, girls should be vigilant, you are not a commodity to be sold at a price, so he hesitates. Men can usually determine whether there is a possibility of development with you when they meet and chat with you, and when they take the initiative to contact you, they just continue this possibility. After the blind date, the girl should not take the initiative to contact the man, because it is good for the girl from the perspective of self-esteem and dignity.

Most single men and women find it difficult to find their favorite partner in blind dates again and again. After being lost, I can't help but feel that each other's fate has not arrived! In fact, the failure of the blind date really has nothing to do with fate.

When two people meet for the first time, they usually don't "feel" very well, because the first meeting between two people who are not familiar with each other will inevitably be wary, and this vigilance is a natural hostility. Many men and women have repeatedly lost on the issue of blind dates, which is nothing more than this kind of vigilance. The only way to get rid of this vigilance is to make frequent contact.

Feelings come from the high-frequency interaction between the two parties. If you meet a suitable partner on a blind date, you should work hard in the direction of love. So in the early days of blind dates, what can effectively enhance each other's feelings?

The blind date has a good impression.

1. Dating more.

If you feel that you and your blind date are very eye-catching to each other, then you should strike while the iron is hot and go on a few more dates. It's not too much to see each other once a day! Because two strangers develop into a relationship of lovers, they must know and recognize more, how can they understand without dating?!

The blind date has a good impression.

2. Keep in touch.

If you feel shy to meet each other, or if you can't see each other often due to the distance, make more contact! You can chat with each other every day through text messages, WeChat, **, etc. After all, it's about falling in love, how can you call it love if you don't talk or communicate? !

The blind date has a good impression.

3. Create surprises.

The key to progressive relationships is to constantly create surprises, such as giving the other person some small gifts that represent their hearts, helping the other person to do some practical little favors, etc. It's all about making the other person grateful and slowly converting into love.

The blind date has a good impression.

4. Create romance.

Every time you go on a date, you should try to be more romantic, such as choosing some elegant places, such as cafes or restaurants. Doing so is not only a good atmosphere, but also can enhance each other's yearning for beauty, as well as enhance the other party's impression in their own hearts. Because the environment is very good, it is natural to be in a good mood.

The blind date has a good impression.

5. Remember the key points.

When you fall in love on a blind date, and it is no longer important to be alone, you should remember some key points, such as the other party's birthday, the day when both parties know each other, the taboo of each other's diet, the most intolerable things of the other party, and so on. If you really like each other in your heart, these key points must be kept in mind.

The blind date has a good impression.

Sixth, be more inclusive.

When two people develop a lover relationship, they must be more tolerant, and they can't be too self-willed. Because we are all young and vigorous people, it is easy to break up because of some misunderstandings, so we must have more trust and understanding in order to make the relationship go further and healthier.