Is marriage now a transaction of money, a contest of power?

Now your choice is to choose face, or choose your lover?!

If you can't be self-reliant and self-reliant, and you can't grasp your own happiness, we netizens can't help you.

Brother, if you really like that girl, bravely face the eyes of your family and society, and bear all the consequences for your own happiness. If you can't bear all this pressure, let's let it go, don't delay you and that girl!!

Normal marriage, the so-called door-to-door pair, is that.

If you think it's right, the opposition of parents is just a reference.

You're a boy who can afford to support yourself and your wife. Why bother with my mother's opinion.

If you can't get along, you can move out and live.

Love is beautiful, beautiful love is enviable, money inevitably becomes the foundation of love, in addition to truly loving each other, two people have to be excellent to each other, and strive for a better tomorrow.

There are also ideals, feelings, values.

Conduct yourself in the world, and only seek to be satisfied.

Different people have different pursuits.

To sum up, it is "fame and fortune".

You can say yes or no.

Say yes. Money, power. What does it mean when you get it?

In fact, it is a kind of guarantee, a guarantee that you can get a good living environment; It is guaranteed to be respected, to satisfy the girl's vanity; A guarantee that your child will be well taken care of. Personally, I think that most girls are insecure, and in this society it is still a man's world, and it is difficult for women to realize their own value. Therefore, marrying a successful man is a relatively big choice.

In addition, money, power, talent, and appearance are the things we can show to girls. It's like the feathers of birds - the conditions for attracting mates; Duels with other males**.

Say no, there are quite a few girls who are not exactly materialistic people. As I said earlier, they are actually looking for a sense of security. For the sake of security, sometimes they even give up some of the richer and more powerful partners.

Therefore, money and power are boosters, and your sincere feelings are the main body of the rocket. Without money, the power rocket does not fly high, and without the main body rocket, it is flying blindly.

Saying that they don't care about money at all is mostly lying.

Just like if you go to school now, how to pay tuition fees and eat without money, "women only value money and power" is not quite right, at least not everyone else, I dare not say that I have a girlfriend, and two people chase her, and she likes the one who has no money, and she is married to him.

Actually, it's not all about money, power, power, but it's also important.

No, "If It's a Good Woman".

It also depends on what kind of feelings, [If it's an online dating gift to you, because it's strange, it's brave because it's beautiful because of the distance.、] Now the social reality is very, and the feelings without money don't last long

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world of Tongtong with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some of the big joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and suck in the aroma it emits. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Trouble, thanks!

This is the inevitable trend of social development, and the formulation of laws is inherently influenced by power and money, and the two are actually interdependent. We can't change the trend, but we can change ourselves, face it positively, bear it, and create ourselves.

Your point of view is very correct, in the real society, driven by rights and interests, attracted by the so-called "trend", many people are occupied by "material" The whole mind, in the eyes of this kind of person, material supremacy, as long as everything can be used, he will use it, and this kind of use is only for his personal sake, this kind of person thinks that he has seen through the society, and thinks that the whole society attaches importance to the feelings of the people are fools. I don't know, when he understands, he finds that he has nothing around him except "material", and even they will think that he has been abandoned by others, in fact, in the process he is abandoning this little bit of feelings, this kind of person's life can only be described as "pitiful". Of course, this is all the opposite, don't forget that most people are not so obsessed, the key is still the "communication" between friends, as a friend, to be sincere, exchange more positive personal opinions, and strive to guide such friends, so that he has a correct outlook on life, values,