Do you compare your current predecessor?

Updated on amusement 2024-06-06
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I won't compare, but my ex taught me how to grow up, the current one taught me how to be a child, my ex was still in high school, and I am very grateful to my ex, because he taught me how to deal with a relationship, and I got a lot of experience in the relationship, and he was an experience in my life. At that time, it was really two people who loved to die or live, and in the end they couldn't resist all kinds of contradictions in life, inappropriate is inappropriate, and finally separated is the liberation of each other, in this relationship, the most you receive is your understanding of feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, because there is no ex in my heart anymore.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since the past is the past, there is no way to renew, there is no way to empty the past, there is no way to embrace the future, heart for heart is not just talking, the other party can not feel the wholehearted love, that is the beginning of the tragedy, in fact, any relationship is not the person who pays more and has more heart suffers the most, but the other party will think of regret and guilt later, a life is so short, or not love, or deep love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, the reason why I compare my ex-boyfriend with my current boyfriend is that I want my current boyfriend to love himself more and be better to himself. This is indeed a hint from a girl to a boy!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have a few friends who just like to compare the current with the ex, and the current one says: Since your ex is so good, then you go to your ex! Then, the incumbent left angrily, and the two could only break up.

    One of them was still a halfway couple, and finally broke up for this reason. So I'm not going to compare.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's better not to compare, and I can't accept the object always comparing me to his ex. Of course, I don't compare my current position to my predecessor. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. As the old saying goes, people are more popular than people die!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is inevitable that there will be comparisons, different results of the same problem, it will naturally be compared, and it will be weighed, this is human nature, don't say that you don't care about the other party's ex, it's impossible, it can only depend on how much you care about the other party's ex.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's okay to compare once in a while, and don't always talk about these things! Boys also love face, always think that he is not doing well, and he will also have a negative psychology!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I won't, no matter how good my ex is, that's already in the past. No matter how bad the current one is, he is also a very important person at this stage. If you are really not satisfied with the current position, you can choose to break up.

    But if you don't break up and only compare him with your ex there, it will only hurt his feelings and won't do much good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When the current or the current is the next one, I will not bring harm to my lover out of my sincerity in love, whether emotionally, morally, or in reputation. So it won't be accepted.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let me tell you a story first. A man came to a cornfield and wanted to pick a piece of corn, and asked to pick only one, and he couldn't turn back. This man always felt that the corn was small all the way, and always thought that there must be a bigger one ahead, so with this thought, he came to the mouth of the field and picked a small corn.

    Looking at this corn, he regretted it, and he felt that the corn in front of him that he missed was bigger than the corn in his hand. Regret and self-blame made him depressed.

    This story is actually equivalent to us in love, missing the ex, indicating that there is no chance, then accept the current calmly, if you always take the current of the ex and yourself about it, it will only increase the sadness.

    Besides, although the four seasons are different, each has its own charm, no one is perfect, and each has its own style. Accept what you choose and learn to appreciate and accept, so that you will be happy!

    Everyone has their own characteristics, both characteristics, advantages, and disadvantages, and no one is perfect! And when people get along with each other, the same person, different people will have different feelings. Therefore, if you want to put two people together, you have to distinguish who is superior and who is inferior, which is also a matter of opinion.

    And as a couple who are in love and break up, they can be regarded as fateless. After the breakup, the two drafts or individuals will inevitably feel regret in their hearts. The aftermath is not over, that is human nature. It is wise to dust up the once beautiful feelings.

    There is really no need to compare, it is two people, not two things, people have different personalities, different growth environments, different families, there is no comparison, as long as it feels suitable for you. Everyone thinks differently, has different views on one thing, handles things differently, and has different results, how to compare? As long as you feel good and considerate to you, it is enough.

    The people who compare it are still worried about their predecessors, so I think it's still not good for comparison, and I feel disrespectful and impolite to others. Since you have broken up, you should let go, and you don't need to compare, in the past, it's useless to think about it, cherish the present, fate is in front of you, why should we be cheap ourselves.

    Although it is natural to compare the current of the predecessor with yourself, you can't do it for a long time, and it is easy to live in the middle of gaining and losing. For you, the ex is a thing of the past.

    There will be no intersection with you again, no matter how beautiful the people and things of the past are, they can only be erased into eternal memories, and they will not let it affect your current life. People often obsess over what they have not gained and what they have lost, but because of this, they ignore the happiness they are holding. Don't dwell on the past, learn to cherish the people in front of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is because you are not confident, in fact, you should not have this kind of mentality, you should vent the flashes of your body, and then talk to your boyfriend about Bi Shuhai.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ying Zao should be relaxed, since he has become the current of the other party, he should have a broad heart, Gao Yanzhen should not be compared with his predecessor, because that person has nothing to do with himself, and he has nothing to do with his other half.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should change some of your ideas, which are very bad and very unfair to your current situation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This mentality is not right, first of all, you have to correct your mentality, because now you and your boyfriend are a spring-type couple, don't always think about his ex, no matter how good a person is to defeat the guesser, it's already a thing of the past, and don't add trouble to yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, worse than my ex, my ex will laugh at me, what to pick up and pick up a pig's head blind, what is fortunate to break up with you, worse than the ex will say that I knew why I had to do it now, so I must find a better relationship than my ex.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, because people go to higher places, and if you find a worse person, you won't be happy in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No. Because whenever you go to a relationship, you must hope that the other party is a particularly perfect person who can meet your needs. If he is worse than your ex, you may feel a little bit of a gap and will regret starting the relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When I'm in love, I'm likely to find a current one who is worse than my ex. Because a man who is not necessarily worse than his ex will not be good to himself, and he will not be able to cause himself a lot of harm.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, because people think about the good, and breaking up with an ex is because the ex is not good, and when looking for the next one, he will definitely find someone better than his ex-boyfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think when I'm in love, I won't look for a current one who is worse than my predecessor, after all, I have already enjoyed excellent treatment, and it is impossible to lower my stature to find such a trust.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I do not know. But I'm definitely going to find someone who treats me like my life and treats me as his everything. People have flaws, and as long as he loves me enough, I won't compare him to my ex.

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