I broke up, what should I do? I want to break up but I can t bear it, what do I need to do?

In fact, you have feelings, if there are no objective conditions between you, that is, material problems, that is, there is a problem in your communication, it is not easy to meet a person you really like, don't give up a relationship easily.

If you want me to say, you just don't love people very well.

First, you have to learn to communicate correctly. It's not trivial to share with each other at all times, I can't wait to tie the two together, and it's not a bad thing to hide in my heart and not tell each other not to cause trouble to each other, in good love, there are both each other and yourself, don't sacrifice endlessly for each other, and let yourself be unrecognizable, but to present each other with a wonderful self, share with each other when you are happy, seek comfort when you are sad, support each other and comfort each other and move forward together, which is good love.

Second, build up your faith on both sides. If both people are insecure and impulsive people, they will definitely stumble when they walk, no one is perfect, and it will definitely take time to run-in, and the run-in is actually a process of putting away the minions for each other and becoming soft, change is certain, but you both have to believe in each other's love for yourself, don't doubt your subconscious feelings, you have to put aside the addiction to the feelings you have paid, and put aside the lack of confidence and inferiority complex after your relationship, and then, if you are reluctant to leave, what else can you do except love, Learn to show your love in a gentle way, and the other person will feel it.

I asked myself if I was very good at loving people. In fact, I have broken up with my boyfriend twice, my boyfriend said before, maybe we both consider each other is not what the other party wants, he said that he wants to understand his people, to be objective evaluation, I give him a split head and face and think he is good for him, but he actually does not particularly need, in turn, what he gives me is tolerance, is he to take out time to accompany me as much as possible, what I want is to always worry and accompany, this is also the problem of the difference in thinking between men and women, at the beginning, I stuffed my uneasiness to him, It increased his psychological burden, and later, I hid all my anxiety and almost drove myself crazy.

I don't know what will happen to us in the future, but I may finally have learned a little bit how to love people, love is a long stream, not in a hurry, if this person you really want to live with her for a lifetime, you don't have to rush to arrest each other and lock them up in your own world at this short moment, you have to live a wonderful life, but also give her enough freedom, to be a warm harbor when each other is tired, far longer and deeper than the vigorous and menacing love.

Don't talk about dependence, don't say that people have feelings. Dependence is a sign that you are not confident; And to have feelings, just to satisfy your own vanity of playing the Virgin. Don't put layers of rose-colored light veils on your life, life is not a TV series, and you won't be able to melt the hard heart of a scumbag because of your love and warmth, and then live happily together from now on.

If you feel that it is impossible between two people, forget him completely. I feel that there is still room for redemption between you, so just put it down and work hard to redeem it.

What can be done? Time is the best**, it's just a matter of time. During this time, I was also injured due to love, and I couldn't sleep, and I met scum and could only heal slowly.

It's impossible to divide it, some things can't be forced.

I firmly believe that in the process of falling in love, everyone has countless impulses to break up and strangle others, and there are two choices, either break up or be together again, and being together again must be due to reluctance, so what should I do if I want to break up but am reluctant to deal with such a situation?

Think about why you want to break up

It's not easy for everyone to explicitly break up for no reason, there must be something wrong in the middle. It makes you feel unbearable, it's not as good as thinking about it, the problem is there, and seeing if you can handle it. For example, if you want to break up because the other party is not there, then you can sit down and have a good talk about the future and say what you hope for the other party.

Open your heart

If you feel that the problem is more serious, then digest it yourself or with friends, if you feel that the problem is very serious, then don't hold it in your heart, because the relationship is a matter of two people, one party may have to deal with the problem together. Talk calmly with the other party, maybe the dilemma is very well resolved.

A new way of getting alongIn many cases, it is unbearable to break up, so you can change to the latest love experience, because no matter who you are with, there will be a burnout period, since this is the case, just find a way to get rid of it, for example, to be able to travel together, to challenge one thing together, in short, when opening new things, a sense of mystery will follow.

Do relationship counseling

At this time, it is better to find a feeling company to do a technical professional emotional counseling try, which is much more useful than thinking about it, and the consultant clearly put forward the proposal we can refer to, and will get an effective proposal from your mode of getting along, temperament, since you are reluctant to him, then make a change.

I remember that last year due to the proximity to graduating from college, I wanted to break up with my boyfriend, but the 2-year relationship was really reluctant, not only to graduate every night** but also worried about this thing in my heart, and there were many people who were physically and mentally exhausted and lost their hair. But fortunately, one day I saw the article "Shi Yi's Heart Saving Technique", and I inadvertently learned some solutions to the problem of wanting to break up, and I gradually felt as if it was not impossible to break up, and there were other ways to deal with it.

And I learned a lot about how to solve relationship problems from my mentor, and I gradually used those professional skills effectively in a relationship. Gradually, I realized that the burden of environmental factors was actually very harmful to me, and there were some minor emotional problems that made me feel like I had to break up, but in fact, this kind of problem can be dealt with if you want to. Therefore, if you have the same emotional problems as me, you can learn about it, and I believe that this article will help you.

If you want to break up but are still reluctant, don't break up in this case, because since you still love him, then find a way to try to change the situation between you and solve the problems that arise. Then I didn't want to break up, and your relationship became very harmonious. That should be the case.

Because if you want to break up and are reluctant, it means that you still love each other, so you need to calm down and try to give up this idea.

Since you can't bear to break up, now you just need to calm down and think about how happy two people are when they are together, and you don't need to have the idea of breaking up because of something.

I want to break up so much that I can't give up, I think it may be because you may have some contradictions or something at the time, then you two should have a good talk, and there is nothing that can't be solved after saying it, so that you won't be so contradictory, and you will have a clear answer.

If you want to break up, it means that the relationship has entered a period of fatigue, at this time, you should calmly think about what is wrong with the relationship, explore your inner views, and talk openly and honestly with your partner.

If you want to break up but are reluctant. It is necessary to find each other's faults and shortcomings. What causes it is necessary to separate. Communicate more. Only when mutual tolerance is tolerated can love last.

If you are reluctant, then you must still be in love with her, you can continue to talk, because love can be changed and affect each other, so don't have the idea of breaking up.

1. Think calmly.

2. Imagine the ending.

3. Explore your heart and communicate well.

Since you want to break up, think about why both parties solve the things that they are not satisfied with. Feelings need to be managed. It takes both sides to work together. Since you can't bear it, you can manage it well.

Since you want to break up and are reluctant, you don't need to break up again, because you may be together after the breakup, and you can't get such a good thing, so try not to guess the score.

Since you are now very contradictory and entangled, you should still maintain such a relationship with the other party, don't break up easily, otherwise you will definitely regret it, so be with each other.

I think this kind of psychology means that two people are not happy together, and they feel very tired, but what about breaking up, they will still miss each other very much, so at this time, the two people should be separated, calm down for a while, and think about what they should do? And then start the relationship again.

If you want to break up and are reluctant, in the end, you still have to break up, it is better to break up as soon as possible, you must know that the love is deep, the injury is deep, and each other will be uncomfortable at that time.

I think at this time, the two should be separated for a while, take a good moment, think about it, and then make a decision, otherwise it will be too impulsive, and the decision may be regretted.

It is necessary to strengthen communication, understand the real thoughts of the other party, and make timely judgments on this phenomenon, and do not always drag the mud and water.

Then you should think that the other party is not good to you, and you should also see some shortcomings in the other party.

Then divide.

Holding hands and looking at each other's teary eyes, they were speechless and choked. Affectionate parting since ancient times, and even more so that can be snubbed on Valentine's Day, this past year, should be a good day and beautiful scenery is imaginary. Even though there are thousands of styles, who do you say, you are my woman, I am your man, you are my heart, I am your liver, you are my all, I am your everything, you are my world, I am your future.

It is an unchanging vow for our life. We meet in the red dust, we hold hands in the wind and rain, we move forward side by side in the waves, and the heavens have their own arrangements in the dark, let us treat this love well. I hurt you, I know it's because I don't know how to cherish it, I deserve to lose you.

But I want to say that if I am given another chance, I will definitely take good care of you, not let you be hurt a little bit, not let you shed a single tear, so that we will never be separated again for the rest of our lives.

Girl, let's give up. After patiently reading your description, I saw a few keywords, playing games, licking dogs, ......Actually, there is nothing wrong with any of you, and you may even be better, but I want to tell you that you are not suitable. No matter how reluctant you are, be ready to say goodbye, and then go find the right person for you.

I also just experienced a breakup, very reluctant, but it is true that the other party no longer loves you, no matter how entangled it is, it can't be changed, it is possible that the other party will still annoy you, your current reluctance should be that you have not been rewarded but have spent a lot of time and energy unwillingly, you must know that no one will always love you but someone will always love you, don't go because you are unwilling to let go of your body and wronged yourself to lose your principles, talk about it, you can't continue to break up, don't leave regrets, love is not the norm, I just split a few days, It's also very reluctant but you have to know that only by loving yourself can you love others, sometimes the result is not so important, and it is worth celebrating if you have the process, don't do anything that moves you, look forward, come on!

If two people are fighting again and it doesn't feel very suitable, then I think it's best to find ways to change this personality and get along with each other, because the best way to break up and be reluctant is to be able to tolerate or change each other.

I want to break up, but I can't bear it, the best way is not to break up, cancel this idea, and the two of you can live well, this is your best destination, the best way.

I think if you want to break up, it may be that you have been together for a long time and feel annoyed, and you are reluctant to show that you still like him, or that he has something worthy of your nostalgia. It's not easy to meet someone you like, don't break up easily.

There is no reason to continue love without a common language, and there is no need to continue, life is short to give yourself the happiest, do what you want, good luck.

It's too tiring to insist, and it's reluctant to break up.

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