There is a place where the groom s brother accompanies the bride for one night

I don't think it's possible to have such a reason, when you get married, the groom's brother accompanies the bride for one night Where are you talking How can there be such a rule Isn't this equivalent to you suffering a loss On the contrary, your brother took advantage of it And you have to stay with him for one night in advance before marrying you I haven't heard of any place where there is such a rule It's nonsense Or they have some ambiguous relationship That's why they do such a thing Under normal circumstances Basically, there will be no such thing happening, and if it does happen, if it is not the rules of your place, then it proves that there is some ambiguous relationship between the two of them, otherwise who would be stupid to accompany someone else for one night before getting married, and if it does not matter, it is a bit unacceptable to the family.

Is there such a custom? It should be a very strange nation to have this kind of customs, the bride is generally a girlfriend the night before, accompanied by friends and family, and of course it should be spent with her husband after passing the door.

Lu Feng's wedding customs follow the ancient traditional etiquette and have a strong national color. There are "six rites" in marriage customs: marriage proposal, eight characters, small food, big food, elephant head, and kissing.

The specific process of "Six Rites" is very cumbersome, and the operation is very particular, and the post-80s generation basically don't know how to hold it, so we must learn for our children! A must-bookmark post! ：

1.Marriage proposal: The matchmaker or the man's elders (must be good people) bring the "four rites" to the woman to propose.

What are the "Four Rites"? It's cigarettes, sugar, tea, and green fruits. Why do you use these "four rites"?

Because in our Lufeng "four" and "world" homonym, doing good deeds is inseparable from "four", because "the world is good". "Smoke" and "marriage" have the same sound, marriage proposal, of course, there is smoke, there is marriage; "Sugar" and "pass" have the same sound, taking the meaning of marriage and passing on children and grandchildren; Tea is an indispensable habit for doing good deeds; Use oranges, citrus or pears instead of apples for green fruits. "Orange" and "love" have the same sound, indicating affection, "citrus" takes the meaning of "Daji", "pear" and "come" have the same sound, which means that they can marry back, and the "apple" of "apple" has the same sound as "poor", so it is not used.

Two cigarettes, or more, depending on the economic situation, but must be an even number.

There is still a lot of sugar with risot, and generally two bags are enough.

Tea leaves are two packs or two packs of one, but they must be even.

Green fruits, generally use oranges and oranges more, pears are still less used, generally use 8.

2.Combination of eight characters:

The man sends a matchmaker (relative) to the woman's house to ask for the woman's name and birthday. After retrieving the Geng post, Bu Ji combined the eight characters. Choose an auspicious day for engagement and marriage.

Our true thing, on the day of the wedding, the bride's family had to add an extra 20,000 yuan to the bride price, and also asked for cash, and immediately asked for it. The groom went to pick up the bridegroom, who would bring so much money, and made up almost 8,000, saying that he would make up for it after he went back, but the bride's parents just didn't agree, and they wouldn't let the bride be picked up if they didn't give it. Then the bridegroom took the people away.

The bride's parents went to chase after others again, and the marriage did not come to fruition. In fact, the groom's family conditions are very good, and they are also very good for the bride, but the woman's parents are too worried. It's a good thing that the groom didn't marry, after all, if he got married, the affairs of the woman's family can't be ignored.

Let's talk about a true thing, my mother-in-law's colleague, her son was going to get married earlier than me and my husband, just because on the day of the wedding to give the woman's relatives a red envelope for the children, we have a custom here that the groom wants to give the woman's relatives a red envelope on the day of the wedding, in fact, it is not much, a child is 100 yuan, the woman said that their relatives have a total of three children, that is, 300 yuan, but the man is unwilling to pay this money and said let the woman pay by herself, and then the two of them quarreled and broke up, and the man has not found a wife until now.

My cousin got married, and the two mothers quarreled at the banquet, and then I saw the bride take off her high heels, drop the goblet, stand on the table, and shout, who dares to bully my mother. Then the two sides scuffled, the mother-in-law took the bride away, divorced the next day, beat the child on the third day, and the woman moved the dowry away half a month later.

A few years ago, on our wedding day, the groom and the bride were playing in the room, accidentally slapped the groom, just by the groom's mother to see, the groom's mother did not follow and hit the bride, the bride called the mother's family to come and pick her up, the mother's family came and was stopped by the groom's relatives and did not let go, now it seems to be quite good.

When my husband and I were in a relationship, my mother-in-law sent a middleman to discuss the marriage. My dad kept silent, and the matchmaker told my mother-in-law that he thought my family wanted a bride price. The mother-in-law came to the door in person and asked my father how much is appropriate?

Dad said that he didn't want a point, just to let his daughter delay for a while and stay at home for a while. I was so sad that my husband and I decided not to hold a banquet and take the money we had saved to go on a trip. After we got married, we bought a house, discussed with two elderly people, and bought three families in one community.

My parents-in-law and my parents had a good relationship, and once when my mother fell ill on a business trip, my mother-in-law called her family to take my mother to the hospital.

Over the years, it has not been without contradictions, and if there is a problem, everyone will discuss it together, and there will always be a way to solve it. When a family is together, any difficulty can be overcome.

I used to see a couple when I worked in the photo studio, and the bride secretly told me that I didn't like her fiancé very much when I put on makeup, and I was very disgusted by her fiancé's eyes, I asked her why she decided to get married, she said that the family forced her to get married, this came and went, the wedding room was also bought and decorated, and the hotel booked relatives and friends were also notified, and there was no way to tie the knot, and the bride asked her to take more single photos when taking pictures, and a few group photos were good, at that time we thought that these two people must have to break, sure enough, the bride hit ** in a few days came over and said that the group photo didn't need to be washed, and the single photo should be kept as an art photo, and the wedding of the two was canceled.

I have a relative in my family, the woman's family does not agree, there is no way to get married if she is pregnant, when she goes to marry, the door of the woman's house is locked, ** can't get through, no one is there, it may be because of money, I don't know what the reason is. A few days later, his daughter-in-law came back to see him, and her family broke off relations with her, and the two rented a house like that for a few months, the woman's belly was big, and the man died in a car accident, and the man's family said that the child could be returned to the man's family, but the woman still beat it off, and the woman didn't even have a place to go, and she died of pity.

The real story of our village, the groom went to the bride's house in the morning to pick up his relatives, the woman was drinking at noon, and the man was drinking in the afternoon, and the man's house was drinking in the evening, but the bride was abducted by a wild man on a motorcycle in the afternoon, and was abducted away....The groom's house and the bride's house are still in the next village, and everyone knows each other very well, and they are embarrassed.

The man later found an out-of-town woman.

A colleague of mine, because the groom promised my colleague a bracelet on the wedding day, but my colleague didn't see the bracelet on the wedding day, so he made a fuss about not getting married without the bracelet. The groom said that he would buy it for her the next day after the wedding. My colleague refused.

There is no way for the groom to buy it on a motorcycle. As a result, he died in a car accident on the road. More than ten years have passed, and my colleague regrets it and still hasn't fallen in love.

My neighbor actually asked the man's family for a padded jacket because the bride asked the man's family for a padded jacket according to local customs, and the man's mother said that her son was so good, why should he rely on the woman, and didn't give it! As a result, the wedding was canceled, and the woman did not marry a year later, and the man was talked about because of this, and no one was willing to marry until he was 40 years old.

Now the best man is married, and the buddies are all people who will come to the house, and the groom will be a peacemaker happily, and the woman's relatives will talk nonsense and immediately pull them to drink the northwest wind, and no one will help him.

Yes, I know a girl.

With his boyfriend for three years, the girl was pregnant, the girl's family asked for a bride price, the boy felt that the girl was pregnant, so he didn't plan to give, and when the girl was five months pregnant, the girl's parents asked the boy when he planned to get married, the belly was big, the boy was silent, and the girl beat the child later, and the boy's family scolded the girl for being realistic and unworthy of being a mother, and now the girl is married and has children, and the boy is still single, (the girl's husband knows that the girl has beaten the child).

My aunt's sister and brother-in-law are quite legendary, my brother-in-law is about to get married with his ex, and the wedding stickers are sent out, and then I don't know what happened to break up, and I can't get married without others introducing my sister to my brother-in-law, and the two got married within a few days! It's just that the bride has become my sister, and now she is quite happy, I think it's quite incredible.

My friend got married, went to pick up relatives and returned to the hotel, the bride had to add 80,000 to get off the bus, (because the bride was more than two months pregnant) to give cash, my friend said that now to go to the bank to withdraw money is not enough, either get off the car first and let a friend go to withdraw money, but the woman just disagreed, my friend asked, you can't get down, the bride said no money will not get off, my friend went directly, to the hotel upstairs in front of relatives and friends said a wedding cancellation, After eating, you will bring your share back, and this meal will be a treat to our family. Then notify the kitchen to serve. Later, the woman's family was anxious and went upstairs by herself, and the man's father said that he would go to the Civil Affairs Bureau in the afternoon to change the card!

I have seen it, it is the scene of the wedding, the bride suddenly said that she would not marry, and I would not marry this marriage, and then the scene was confused and embarrassed.

My mother saw that the groom happily went to pick up his relatives, knocked on the door of the bride's room for more than an hour and did not open the door, the groom pulled the corsage and tie and turned around and left.

In the first few days, the local news reported that a couple of newlyweds were on the spot because of the cost of five extra seats for their mother's family on the wedding day, and the groom grabbed the ring and left if he couldn't say anything, and the bride even shouted out for robbery, and the police arrived to figure it out It seems that the five seats are the last straw that overwhelms the camel, wow, I am unmarried and single.

Well, I haven't seen the groom and the bride have a fight at the wedding scene, because if this thing is here.

There was a break on the spot, and they quarreled and didn't get married, this is really a big joke, both families will be particularly faceless, and everyone is also a person who understands, and it won't be like this again. To do such a childish thing on a big occasion.

Hometown, there is a relative's relative, is the woman's side, on the day of the wedding, the mother's family went to see off the relatives, (parents can't go, the bride has no brothers) as a result in the mother-in-law's house I don't know what's wrong, the groom slapped the bride twice, the mother's family is unwilling, the mother-in-law's family is powerful, a big day, the mother's family has not drunk a sip of water, and the groom is back, the key is that the bride was coaxed by the groom, and was happy, the poor mother's family in the past group of seven aunts and eight aunts are not people inside and outside, at that time I listened to what my aunt said, She's the bride's aunt, it's just okay, it's okay to slap her face on the wedding day?!

Looking at the past to pick up the bride, the bride's room is on the 5th floor, the relatives and sisters are ready, and the kiss is actually eating and drinking in the hall on the 4th floor. The low-mouthed brotherhood said that when the auspicious time came, the bride would obediently come down and go out, and the groom was stupid and not in a hurry, so the bride's father and brother got angry