Why is it that you can t tell others the truth?

I know everything, but when I really want to do it, I can't do it. Perseverance needs to be cultivated to overcome inertia.

Perseverance refers to the ability to overcome difficulties with perseverance and perseverance in action. People with good perseverance qualities are able to persevere in activities, do not hesitate, do not waver, do not stagnate, and start well in the face of difficult and difficult conditions. Persistence is very important in daily study and life, it is not difficult for people to do something, the difficult thing is to persevere in doing it, "people are precious and constant" is said to be this truth.

The anticlimactic phenomenon that often occurs in daily life is a manifestation of lack of perseverance. If you want to succeed, you can't do it without persistence, and only by persevering to the end will victory be yours. Here are some ways to develop your perseverance.

1. Be good at cultivating, protecting, and using existing learning interests. Interest can stimulate your enthusiasm to participate in activities and prompt you to show greater willpower in activities. Therefore, add interest and vividness to the activities and learning content, and carefully design activities and learning methods, such as games, competitions, performances, quizzes, storytelling, etc., so that the learning and activity process itself can attract you, which can promote them to do something well.

2. Identify specific, achievable goals. The goal is the desired situation or standard, which restricts the direction of behavior. For himself, only specific and feasible goals can motivate him to persevere in achieving this goal.

The so-called specific goals refer to what should be done and how to do it, and the goals and requirements must be clear. The so-called feasible goals mean that the goals set should be suitable for your age, experience, and ability level, and can be achieved through your own efforts, that is, the goals should not be set too low or too high. When they accomplish a goal, the joy of success will strengthen their entrepreneurial spirit, arouse their enthusiasm to determine the next goal, and thus develop the habit of continuous improvement.

3. Learn to self-monitor. It is necessary to be persistent in a certain activity and rely on one's own conscious behavior, so it is necessary for oneself to learn to check and monitor whether oneself is working towards the set goal. To learn to self-examine and self-supervise, you can start with the teacher's inspection and encouragement, for example, after determining a certain activity or a certain goal with others, check your own completion every day, and let them self-evaluate, encourage their good performance, and guide them to correct if they are not doing well enough.

After that, you can draw a self-appraisal for them**, let them score the completion of the learning plan, good behavior habits, certain activity goals, etc., and regularly hand over the self-appraisal form to the teacher, so that parents and teachers can understand and praise their conscious behavior, and check their self-supervision. Only after learning to self-evaluate and self-supervise can we urge ourselves to persevere in engaging in certain activities.

Because there is no serious thinking.

As the saying goes, the authorities are fascinated! At a certain time, if the mood is not good, or if there are other physiological or psychological reactions, the person's judgment will be reduced by more than half. Try not to judge when you can't be at peace.

That's why the authorities are obsessed! Therefore, it is good to have someone to discuss and listen to the opinions of others. Be calm.

Self-shielding and regretful scum. Even if you understand that the consequences of something are bad, you will still do it. If everyone can do this, then there will be no gap between people in the world.

The identity and perspective of human beings have changed radically. When you encounter things yourself, you are personally emotional; And when something happens to someone else, you are personally rational. The quality of emotions often affects people's judgment and decision-making.

When you advise others, you objectively analyze the pros and cons of things. And when it comes to oneself, there are always some emotional and emotional things that cannot be separated. People always need friends, that's all.

No matter how rational people are, they always have feelings. You need friends to listen to you, maybe others persuade you to be not as reasonable as what you say, you understand the reason, but you need emotional catharsis.

The most familiar with one's own personality is the friends or enemies around oneself, and people often do not know enough about themselves, so this situation can occur.

There is no way, just like persuading others, the same words can persuade others, but they can't persuade themselves.

Anything, put it on yourself, it's not so easy.

People have the nature of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and everyone hopes that they are right.

People often only enlighten others and cannot appease themselves.

Because I'm too close to myself, there are some things I can't see.

Doctors can't cure their own disease! So do I.

This is the so-called bystander Qing, who has lost his mind when he is himself.

Easier said than done.

When you comfort others, you say a lot of things with a clear conscience, in fact, you yourself may not agree with what you said at that time, but in order to comfort others, you are also helpless to say this. Right? Everyone has the same experiences and feelings.

Character is everything, like me, I left the big things behind me after an hour! You try not to think about that and face the present! Or just get some sleep!

The main reason is that when analyzing others, you are a bystander, and other people's things can be analyzed very logically, and when you encounter your own affairs, you will be upset and unable to analyze calmly. It's like a doctor can't treat himself.

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Especially when encountering troubles, it is often difficult for reason to control the sensibility, and there is a person to enlighten and enlighten, one is to find a step down, and the other is to avoid impulsiveness and make a big mistake.

This is the so-called bystander purging the authorities.

The saddest thing for people is their own level, they can't do it, so they have to take themselves seriously.

This has to do with your own personality, temper, bad mood, extreme dryness, and relaxation.

This is called the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear!

That's right, it's true that people have emotions, and they stabilize their emotions.

Hehe, a little bit of that meaning, often people say this, when we persuade others, we are standing in the position of bystanders, the so-called "bystanders are clear", so we can see the problem and things rationally, and when it is really our turn, we will be "confused by the authorities".

Indeed, there is such a person in this world, in fact, he (she) does not do very well, but he or she likes to talk about others, comment on others, and sometimes, the main thing is that he does it, which is boring, and he doesn't know it.

If this person is your friend, you have to look at other aspects of him, whether it is worth you to be close to him, if he is good in other aspects, you can try to exchange opinions with him at some point, tell him that, in fact, you don't like him to comment on people, and besides, he can't do it himself. In this way, you can not only ensure your friendship, but also help him correct his shortcomings.

If he is not your friend, your colleague, classmate, or someone you have to deal with, you can stay away, don't talk to him too much, when he comments, smile silently, even if you talk about people or things you don't like, don't interject and participate in the comments. In this way, you at least do not have a handle in his hands.

I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain!

He can see the mistakes and shortcomings of others at a glance, but it is difficult to find his own faults. This kind of person is somewhat narcissistic.

The biggest enemy is yourself! One of the reasons is that you can't see your own shortcomings. That's why I let myself be wrong again and again.

In fact, you should thank someone for pointing out your mistakes, and you should thank him for his tireless efforts to help you correct them. This is a rare friend!

When you have adjusted your mindset, be bold and straightforward and tell him that you appreciate his correction and ask him to continue to help you in the future. He will be proud and will really correct the shortcomings for you. Yes and most likely to be true bosom friends! +

When you say others, you can say it boldly, but you are stupid.