Why are many people now afraid to tell others that they work hard?

Because I am not sure whether I am really working hard, even if I work hard, it depends on whether I have done things well, hard work is the process, and the result is the performance of your hard work.

This is probably because even if you try hard, you always can't achieve the effect you expected, and you will disappoint your family and friends. That's why I'm afraid to tell others that I'm working hard.

Because nowadays many people want to be smart people and always want to show that they have succeeded without much effort, they don't want others to know that they have worked hard.

Because I didn't work hard, I said that I was said by others like this, as if I was sorry.

This is done because of the fear that the other party will surpass you and make yourself one more competitor. I am also afraid that I will be made fun of by others if I have no results after my efforts.

Because I am afraid that others will know that I have worked hard and have achieved nothing, I will feel very ashamed, which is a denial of my own IQ and ability.

Because this kind of person is afraid that he will not get the desired results after working hard, they are afraid that others will ridicule them, so they dare not reveal that they have worked hard.

Because there are too many people working hard now, but sometimes hard work will not have a good return, and everyone is afraid that they will not achieve anything after working hard.

Because it's very stressful right now, and it's hard to be successful, even if you try, you may not achieve anything.

Because they feel like they're trying hard to make themselves stupid. They want to be seen by others as having an easy way to do something.

Because others may say to you, since you have worked so hard, why have you not achieved anything?

Now the social competitiveness is very large, and if you say it, you are afraid that others will surpass you.

Because I don't necessarily have a good result after working my own, I generally don't say to others that I really worked hard.

<>I don't think so, it's a bit narrow. I have people around me who work hard, but they are not the kind of people who worry that others will surpass them, and they are not as narrow as others think. I think that first of all, people who are jealous of other people's efforts to achieve results are themselves narrow-minded, everyone has their own life mode, I choose to work hard silently, to pursue my goals little by little, hoping to achieve my own wishes as soon as possible, but this matter is within the scope of my decision, do I choose to share with others, or do I silently persist and bear all this, what does this have to do with others?

Besides, I have my own space, and I don't want to tell others how hard I work, because I don't think it's necessary, and what is the inevitable connection between my efforts and others? Everyone can choose the model they want, some people work the surface but always don't get good feedback, and some people don't seem to care about anything and don't work hard, but they still get what many people have been trying to seek, what can be done? Everything has its best arrangement, we often say go with the flow, but not do nothing, do nothing, let things develop at will, but after going all out, do not have a clear conscience, as for the result, often not under our control, it has other multiple factors to intervene, we are talking about the result of going with the flow, not the process of no effort.

I can't say how hard I work, but for the goals I pursue, I also prefer to work silently, and I don't describe it too much to others, not because I'm worried that others will surpass me, but I want to remember that firm idea, and I don't want to just talk casually, but I can't stick to it until the end.

Actually, I don't think it's necessary at all, that is, not to care too much about other people's opinions is the most important thing, and there is no value in thinking about these irrelevant issues all day long. How hard you work is always only what you know best in your heart is not something that others can experience, and often only yourself is the person who knows you best, and there is no one else to speak of. First of all, there is no need for everyone to tell others how hard they work, is there any point in doing so, obviously no, everyone lives for themselves, so the most important thing is always their own and their own views and ideas are the most worthy of our attention.

Secondly, it doesn't matter if others know how hard they work, don't worry about others surpassing themselves, others know that there is no problem at all, you know, what's the big deal, you are working so hard, this is the fact that there is nothing worth covering up, others have other people's ideas, everyone is different, everyone's ability is different, even if others exceed themselves, it doesn't matter, because this is the result of people's own efforts, And we can only control ourselves, we just need to actively do a good job of ourselves, indeed there are many people in this world who are better than you, after all, there are people outside the mountains, this kind of thing is like this, it is necessary to be entangled in this regard, and we should also bless others when others succeed, even if they are better than themselves, they should also face it with a harmonious attitude, compare with themselves, and think that they can do their best.

I thought the same way when I was in high school, and now I think it's a little too anxious.

When we were children, we often saw a plot on TV about a person who was threatened but refused to give in, and when he was forced to the edge of a cliff, he resolutely chose to jump off the cliff.

He didn't die when he jumped off the cliff, but met an old man with a white beard, smiled and told him that he had waited for him for many years, and then handed him a copy of the martial arts cheats.

After getting the cheats, he practiced under the cliff for many years, and when he re-emerged from the cliff, he became a generation of heroes, and he was ashamed.

This plot embodies this idea: devoting yourself to cultivation at the bottom of the cliff and not daring to tell others how hard you work, re-emerging from the cliff to become a hero, and surpassing others before the snow.

It is undeniable that this plot has its reasonableness, but it ignores one of the most important conditions, the competition between people is not only hard work, but also talent.

Take the college entrance examination as an example, everyone knows the scope of the college entrance examination knowledge points, that is, everyone has a cheats in their hands, but it does not mean that all students who study hard will achieve a good result, take my own experience as an example: I have seen students who laugh all day long and do not study hard are easily admitted to the top 10 of the grade, and I have also seen students who stay up late to review until twelve o'clock every day with books in their hands, and their grades are a mess.

If you understand the above truth, you should understand that even if you clearly tell others how hard you work, you don't have to worry about others surpassing you.

Because there are some people in this world, even if they know that others are working hard, all they do is sigh, and then they still live a free life; Of course, there are some people, they never put others in their eyes, their efforts are purely to compare with themselves, today is a little harder than yesterday, and they will improve a little.

I always tell people that I work hard, even if I don't try, I have to pretend. Otherwise, it's not good to buckle up this hat if you don't work hard.