Now that they are all divided, is it necessary to be friends?

If being friends with you always reminds him of the past, it's not a memory but a torment, why should you force it, and think about it from his point of view, if you can't be friends, don't force it, you say.

It is clear that there are two options after a breakup between lovers

Keep being friends

Those who go their own ways and go their own ways think that they have once been clothed in love, and once again, they will only be more heartbroken! But they just underestimate the greatness of friendship, they think that even if they are friends, it is difficult to face each other, in fact, friendship and love are great!

I also want. But it's hard.

But. Because I brought it up at the breakup.

So there's a little bit of guilt in it.

Face his current situation.

I'm patient. QQ. I'll say a paragraph.

He replied to me, yes. Good. No, that's wrong.

I don't care. Now it's improved. Willing to say a word.

Don't you know if your situation is similar to mine?

Believe if we want to.

You can be friends with him.

You can't be friends because you've hurt each other;

and neither can they be enemies, because they have loved one another dearly;

The most familiar strangers.

Or don't be friends.

My situation with you is also very similar, I think he broke up in April, I proposed to break up at the beginning, we are friends now, I treat him almost the same as before (almost the same as in friends), but he still seems to have an unforgivable attitude towards me, but I believe that this situation will change, after all, we are the "friends" who know each other best!! You should see what I mean

Whether or not people in love can be friends after a breakup is not a one-sided meaning. This kind of question is different for everyone. If you want to be friends after a breakup, this is just your opinion on this issue, you also need to ask the other person if they agree with your point of view, if he thinks that he can't be friends after the breakup, then your unilateral desire needs to be dispelled.

In addition, there is an important key issue that the boundaries between friends and boyfriends (or girlfriends) must be clearly recognized in your or his mind. If both of you agree on this friendship, then you can no longer go beyond the boundaries of friendship, otherwise it will make your relationship ambiguous and unclear. Unless you decide to fall in love again, then you can completely break the boundaries of friends.

In short, in a word: whether to be friends or not depends on whether both parties agree on their views, unilateral hope is useless, if you both agree with the friendship relationship, then you can no longer go beyond the friendship relationship, otherwise the relationship will become ambiguous, unless you both agree to fall in love again.

Finally, I will give you a suggestion on how to deal with this kind of thing: if you have the intention of being friends, then you can tell him clearly and ask him for his opinion on the matter, if he agrees to be friends, you or you must stop thinking about what happened when you were in love (it may be difficult to do, but I hope you can know and always remind yourself that "you broke up, he doesn't love you anymore"), you have to think that he is now on the same "level" as other friends around you, don't go beyond this boundary; If he doesn't agree to be friends, then I advise you to forget about him, because you may become strangers. This kind of thing cannot be forced.

In fact, after a breakup, do you still care if you are friends or not? That's the good that you haven't forgotten him, although it's hard to forget someone, but trust me, time is the best to kill this pain**.

Here, I wish you happiness and find concrete ideas from my point of view what you should do. Wishing you happiness and happiness.

Whether you can be friends or not depends on the personality of the two people (fate is secondary). It's not that you can, and you can't do it necessarily, but if you can be friends, it may be good to be a close friend, provided that you also pay attention to the degree of two breakups.

Friends can do. I think you'd love to meet him, too.

Even if you break up, you are still the person he knows best.

Strive to recover. If not, then be friends.

I think that as a friend, you are also his closest friend.

Love is really not something you can grasp! If a breakup is inevitable! I still resolutely chose to leave!

When asked, how many times have you been in love! They, only twice, once you love her and she doesn't love you, and the other time you don't love her and she loves you! Beautiful love is always on the next step!

It's all like this, being friends again is a waste of youth.

Is it? It's been half a year, and you still can't let it go.

All right. No matter what we can't be together.

At least you'll see each other later.

You should be better than him. I went to see him.

Or don't get in touch.

My boyfriend and I broke up in May this year.

It's a pleasure to be a friend now.

He always called himself my eldest brother.

Ha ha... It's funny every time.

Yes, you can!

As long as you both have the idea of making each other friends with you in your hearts!

There are also friends who have made friends, but I still find it weird, and I haven't spoken since the breakup.

Unless there is any use value.