The marathon of love, I lost my way

Hello, your problem is actually very popular, first of all, you have no sense of security about your feelings, your future, this problem is the most troublesome, you can meet your parents at the appropriate time, and then get closer to the relationship, so that the burden in your heart will be reduced a little, and, if you really love her, I think there will be no problem, do you have any concerns?? Or if you have any other ideas, seek truth from facts, for the sake of your future, think she is a good girl and chase her.

About text messages**,I think it's better not to be too "diligent",I hope you can understand the meaning,If you're too diligent,Suddenly one day for a few days without sending or replying there will be a sense of loss.,Just contact it occasionally.。

I didn't tell you a little problem at work, maybe I don't want to trouble you, girls also have self-esteem, and they don't want to rely on men for everything.

You feel that she is not invested, not because she is not invested, but because you are more invested than her, so it is easy to get hurt, take your time, the relationship needs two people to take care of.

Good luck to all of you, lovers end up as family, haha.

You can't introduce her to a job in your city, how simple it is, if she likes you, she will go, and you don't take your feelings too seriously, some things can't be forced, just do it, if you can't do it, you can only follow fate.

It's unrealistic, give up as soon as possible, find a suitable one.

That is, give up before it's too early and find the right one.

Three methods:1See a psychiatrist.

2.Travel. 3.Faithless.

Actually, it's nothing.,I think of course you have to grasp the opportunity.,If you don't work hard, you won't have a chance.,It doesn't matter if she likes you or not.,It's just chasing.,Girls are chasing.,You say it's not.。

It's you who can't hide - it's not you who can't grab it.

Let it be, hehe.

It also makes sense to adopt the first floor.

Because of all kinds of irresistible factors, external or internal factors. The two have been in love for many years and have not been married.

Marathon love, you have been together for a long time, it can be said that you can get married, but you are still not married

We can talk about it for as long as we can

Don't say I'm bad, I think you can divide Hui for a while, and when you have been separated for a long time, you will know that no one can do without anyone. We have been together for four years and have gotten to know each other very well. Of course, there will be quarrels between them.

If there is no quarrel, I don't believe it. It's like a married couple, scolding is love.

My boyfriend and I also quarrel a lot, we have been together for three years, and I always feel that it is not interesting to be together, but we still can't be separated, and we are still quarreling and contradictory

You have to have the means, you can't every time you quarrel with him, he will reason with you and then reconcile, if you are angry, you should ask him to take the initiative to coax you When he doesn't talk well, you point it out directly, and then get angry, and then wait for him to coax you The most powerful time between me and my boyfriend was that I quarreled for more than a month

I also always wonder if marathon love is unreliable

Anyway, I wish you happiness

Because of all kinds of irresistible factors, external or internal factors. The two have been in love for many years and have not been married.

It's that two people have been in love for many years, but they have never married.

This is what happens when two introverts come together.

The process will be painful.

The general results can also be painful.

But if both of them can make it to the finish line.

It would be the happiest thing.

At least for about 7 years, I've been in love for the past 7 years, it's good, and the marathon is not bad.

I don't know, anyway, I've been in love for 6 years, and the so-called marathon should be in love at an advanced age, that is, I've been in love for a long time, and I didn't get married until I was about 35, because when I read Schwarzenegger's biography, the author wrote this, Schwarzenegger was married at 36, and he was in love for more than 8 years

I don't like marathon love, because it's too long and I can't stand it. But if you can persevere, then your love will be stable and long-lasting! Hehe.........

I can fully relate to the pain you describe.

But your pain lies only in that"You don't want to lose him! "Because you have concerns, because you have pigtails, weaknesses, and dead ends, you are so passive, and you will be controlled by others.

In fact, maybe you are just not used to losing his days, not losing him as a person, the tragedy of many women is that they can't harden their hearts and be ruthless to themselves, if you think now, what's the big deal about losing him? I can still find another lover, and I can live a happy life, because your happiness does not have to be given to you by this so-called boyfriend at the moment! This is not a word of comfort for you, it is a fact, anything can happen in this world, it is not that you will die without him!

It's the same for him!

On the other hand, he doesn't pay attention to you, and his presumptuous attitude towards you may be the psychological change after he gets you (I don't know if you have a substantive relationship), which is the habitual attitude of many men who are not so much nowadays!

Let go of him, from now on, put yourself first, just eat happily, sleep happily, breathe happily, go to school happily, do things happily, make friends, in short, do everything happily, do not be affected by him as much as possible, do not go to him, ignore him, relax, and think about what can be done even if you lose him? You are still very young, there are opportunities, as long as you have capital, as long as you have confidence, as long as you are good enough, not bad for him as a man, women put the time of studying men on studying themselves, the harvest will be greater, remember, do not ask him, don't make a mistake, look up and walk forward, don't look at him, even if you should bow your head, we have to be low to the person who is worthy, if you do it, it won't be long before this man will run back to you to ask for good, the rest depends on yourself, if there is that day, I hope you can choose the right way, don't go back to the old way (passive old way), if you don't have that day, it doesn't matter, at that time, you don't need him very much, and the next fate may be very close to you

Good luck and happy!

You shouldn't be so proactive, often the more you take the initiative and ask him, he doesn't know how to cherish it, because he knows that you won't leave him.

In the past, you were not together, he was afraid of losing you, so he had a good attitude, but now it is different, he does not cherish you as much as before, loves you, and your position in his heart has naturally declined, in the future, you don't take the initiative so much, in this way, often he will not take you seriously.

You send him a text message and tell him:

If you don't love me anymore, then you can break up, but whether you still love me or not, please remember that I really love you, I really cherish this love, I don't know what's wrong with you, if you don't love me anymore, then break up, but you have to remember that I love you! Give me an answer].

After that, don't keep sending him, you must calm down, otherwise you will give up your efforts, you have to let him know that this time you are real, if he still loves you, he will definitely call ** or text back, if he doesn't love you, it's really so ruthless, then, he is not worthy of your love...

This time, don't bow your head, you have to keep going, don't apologize to him, listen to me

Be sure to let him know that you're really angry this time!

It's not like you can't live without anyone in this world. I used to beg like you, crying cheaply, but he promised him that he wouldn't do it again in the future, and he still made the same mistake over and over again. Later, I found that it was myself who compromised and changed.

If that person no longer cherishes you, it means that his heart is not in you, and if you pay for such a man, I can only say that you are stupid. Try to let him go slowly and be kind to yourself! There's no question of what you can't do, it's just up to you to make up your mind.

Time will dilute everything! lz, I hope you can make a careful decision, don't let yourself live like hell. Women should be kind to themselves.

The more you look down like this, the more he looks down on you ...

I think two people who love each other should understand each other, his approach is very speechless, of course, I am looking at this problem from the perspective of others, to be honest, I really can't understand your unforgettable love for him, maybe I'm too calm or indifferent or can't feel your feelings at all. But I think there must be a limit to everything, if you exceed a certain limit, it is better to be able to recover from the previous state, through your description, it seems that you have not yet reached the point of being lost, you can still look at this problem more objectively, and you also have your own ideas about his approach. Since you have reached your current state, I think it is better to separate, it is his fault that he does not cherish you, don't impose your love on his understanding, there are many people and things in this world that you are worth cherishing.

It's a bit ugly to say, but in fact, people are very cheap You treat him well and he takes it for granted, you treat him badly, and he thinks you haven't done enough. I hope you don't get obsessed with this painful relationship, you are still young and have a lot of time to change what you want to change. Please cherish yourself.

There is always some love to yourself in love, the girl asks the boy how long you love me, and the boy replies "I love you for a minute more than you love me", isn't this a truth? He's like this because he loves him because you love him, and he thinks you can't leave him anymore, and that's true! However, he may not have thought that if he really loves you, then you have become a part of him, and he has subconsciously become inseparable from you.

You can ask him out to have a good talk, and if it turns out like this, say goodbye in style, there are many good boys in the world! If he loves you, you should apologize to you, or have a cold war, but you must take your composure and forgive him when he apologizes to you! Give him a chance if you think he really loves you!

I believe that time will tell, good luck!

I'm just like you. What you can't do without is what you instill in yourself and what you imply yourself. Recommendations:

Let's fade first. Study hard at school, live a good life with your classmates, gossip with your sisters, go shopping, or go out to travel ......In short, live a period of time where you don't have time to think about your relationship. After this time, I will look at my current self, and then think about him now, and then I will think about him in the past.

I guess your mindset can change.

Because you have been very consistent with him, he is a little bored, then be ruthless, give him a little bitterness, be cold to him for a while, let him reflect on it, and then be good with him, maybe it will work, many men are like this.

You should leave him, otherwise you will be more miserable in the future, the person who really loves you will not let you cry, find someone you love when you are in love, find someone who loves you when you get married, the truth !!

That kind of man is not worthy of you to be so good to him, he breaks up with you, you will break up with him, not to say that it is really divided, you look at the division and give him a week If he doesn't recover, don't want him, why do you have to live so tired, think about it, he is not worthy of you to treat him like that. The man he raised had nothing to be nostalgic for. ok

With all due respect, maybe he has someone else out there, have you ever thought about what you will do if he continues like this, and you will get married? Long pain is better than short pain, maybe one day you really leave him, he knows how to cherish you.

Let him calm down first.

You also calm down.

Maybe distance produces beauty.

Maybe the distance has widened, and the beauty is gone.

If he thinks you're good after a while, she'll come back to you.

Take it in stride and be a mature woman.

To be honest, you love him so much that it makes me jealous. (I don't have a girlfriend yet, so let's leave him.) Better a finger off than always aching...

Ending this fruitless love soon...

Don't say good or bad to him.

But it is a relief for you ...

To make a long story short, you lost your life's happiness for a moment's face, or did you lose a moment's face and win a lifetime of happiness??? No one will slowly forget about what will happen in the future, let alone say "I'm sorry" thank you.

You love him so much to hear it and you'll know what to do...