When parents divorce, what can be done so that children do not lack love?

Rather than letting the child spend time in a quarrel, it is better to give the child a quiet life, but as a parent to often care about the child, even if the husband and wife have no feelings, but the love for the child should not be less, see the child once a week, occasionally take the child to play, can not divorce, one party will not care about the child, so that the child will be sad, whether it is father's love and mother's love can not be missing, the child is innocent, so adults should be responsible for their children.

I think both parents should discuss first, no matter what the reason for the divorce, they should give their children the original love. No matter who the child is awarded to, the other party should spend more time with the child if they have time. Always pay attention to the child's state of mind, and don't think about solving it when something goes wrong.

You can slowly explain to the child that it is not that the parents do not love him, but that the parents have conflicts, so they live separately. You live with your mother now, and I'll come and see you in a few days. Then you pick him up and go to play and eat, just like before.

Don't let the child feel that as soon as you divorce, you will abandon him, so that the child's personality will develop better.

For example, I grew up in a single-parent family, and since my parents are divorced, the children will definitely lack love, and it is impossible to say that there is no harm at all.

I think the best thing to do is not to tell the children that the parents are divorced, but to have the mother or father raise them unilaterally, and sometimes you can come and see the children.

Husband and wife are good to get together and disperse, don't quarrel with the enemy, let the child be caught in the middle of the special difficulty, discuss who the child has with after the meeting, but also often to the child ** meeting, although the two live separately, but to the child care more than usual care, so that the child will feel that the father and mother divorce nothing, they still love him the most.

In fact, no matter how much you care, you can't make up for the damage caused by his parents' divorce, the child's shadow will accompany him for a lifetime, but the only thing we can do is to make the child strong to face this reality, instead of blindly ignoring it, only by facing the reality can the child grow.

1. Don't be a Disney parent", maintaining long-term regular contact with children requires companionship, but this companionship is not blind, because accidentally single parents and mothers will become Disney dads" syndrome. 2. Provide emotional support to children at any timeIn fact, each of us, whether adults or children, has grown up with a variety of hurts and experiences at different latitudes. For example, even if we are Chengzhou Qiren, we have a lot of pain of our own.

When an adult hits the rocks in a marital relationship, it will also cause injuries and pain.

3. Parents should avoid attacking each other In fact, what really causes psychological trauma to children is not the divorce itself, but the way in which parents divorce, especially the constant disputes and conflicts between parents in the process from conflict to divorce, which will have a very negative impact on children. Fourth, compared with whether the other party is absent, the mentality of the father of the single mother is more important Sometimes, compared with whether the other half is absent, whether the parents in the single-parent family are optimistic and persevering is a more important factor affecting the growth of the child.