I heard that a woman asks her boyfriend to have money, a car, and a house for the sake of her childr

Yes, of course, a woman will want to give her children a good future, and these are all money, but when she has no children, she still has to use men's money, maybe just like men like to take beautiful women out, face is also one of the factors.

Whoever you listen to is with whom, the same choice has a different starting point, maybe that's a kind of "fashion", but there are always people who are not like that... It's not easy to say what kind of society is going on, as long as you do it according to your own ideas, and don't be too swayed by other people's thoughts...

If I love you....Deeply loved....It's good to be happy....Who can't afford a garage now? It just depends on the grade....Money can be earned....Happiness? Money can't buy it....What if men really have that much money later?

Women are not very pretty....In the end, nothing....Both men and women should be down-to-earth, what should be their own is their own....Don't let your vanity blind you!

It should be, but she shouldn't have thought about the problem of children before, and she shouldn't have been married yet, so 20% of them think about their children and 70% of them are for their own interests.

Everyone's evaluation is different! Just like Zhou Yu beating Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer!

This is a step, a high starting point!

Who knows, if you like it.

No, that's for your future

I can introduce you to the factors that can be hesitant in marriage and the idea that dowry is equal to the bride price.

1. Factors in marriage that may make people hesitate.

1.Financial pressure: Marriage needs to bear corresponding financial responsibilities, including living expenses, mortgage, children's education, etc. If the individual's financial situation does not allow it, hesitation may arise.

2.Personal growth: Marriage brings a lot of changes, and it requires more responsibility and pressure. If an individual wants to focus on their own growth and development, they may hesitate to enter into marriage.

3.Personality differences: Everyone's personality and habits are different, and if the personalities of both parties are relatively different, there may be contradictions and friction in the marriage, which can make people hesitate.

4.Family and social pressures: In some cultures and societies, family and society have high expectations and judgments about marriage, which can lead to hesitation.

2. Should the dowry and bride price be reciprocal?

Whether or not the dowry and the bride price should be reciprocal has always been a complex topic. In ancient times, dowries and bride prices were important symbols of social status and identity, depending on the family's honor and wealth. From the perspective of whether there should be reciprocity, there are the following views:

1.There should be reciprocity: Traditionally, the man needs to give the woman more financial and material support in the marriage to show his love and commitment to the woman. Therefore, it was believed that the dowry and the bride price should be equal in order to balance the wealth of the two families.

2.There should be no reciprocity: dowry and bride price are essentially material exchanges between the two families, which should be determined according to the economic capacity of the two families and the customs of their traditional cultures.

At the same time, marriage is not an equal transaction, it is a process of mutual support and mutual growth between two people.

Summary: There are many hesitant factors in marriage, which may need to take into account personal finance, personal development, personality differences, family social pressures, etc. The view that the dowry and the bride price should be reciprocal is controversial, and those who support reciprocity believe that it is a sign of equality between men and women, and should not be measured by the amount of wealth; On the other hand, it is believed that the communication between families should be determined according to the family's economic situation and traditional customs, and that marriage is not a purely material transaction.

Summary. Thank you, now women are very demanding, it is normal to have a car and a house, but you can't be objective and picky, two people to communicate or really love each other, you must have a material foundation to back, I don't think so, as long as the two work together, there will be no car, no house, by that time you will feel that you are as strong as men, when you live in a new house or drive a new car, your heart feels different from what you are going to come, people will slowly get old, Because what you ask for will bring great pressure to a family that is not wealthy, because no one wants to live with foreign debts, I hope that ladies in society who have this kind of thinking will think more about their future life, don't use things outside your body as a reason for your marriage, stop in moderation, don't force it!

Hello, I've seen your question, I'm sorting out the answer, please wait a while Thank you, women are very demanding now, it's normal to have a car and a house, but you can't be objective and picky, two Liangzhen with people to interact or really love each other, must have a material foundation to back, I don't think so, as long as the two work together, there will be no car, no house, by that time you will feel that you are as strong as men, when you live in a new house or drive a new car, The feeling in my heart is different from the feeling that you are coming, people will slowly get old, because what you ask for will bring great pressure to a family that is not wealthy, because no one wants to live with foreign debts, I hope that the ladies in the society who have this idea will think more about the life after respecting, don't take things outside the body as a reason for marrying, stop in moderation, don't force it!

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Hello, according to your description. It is the normal people's minds who fancy the car and the house deposit, which means that they only look at the material. Both for men and women. Looking for a partner and a partner, just looking at the material is not comprehensive.

If a person really has to find a good home, a good partner. It is also important to pay attention to the person's nature and conscience, and see if the other person is suitable for him. After all, there is only material matter, and people can't do it for a long time.

After all, in life, you still have to get along with people. and not just living with the material.

As a girl, material things are important. But more importantly, it is important to find a reliable and capable future husband. Compared with material and people, people are still a little more important.

Because a person treats you badly, no matter how much money he has, it has nothing to do with you. People don't have the ability to make money, and no matter how much money they have, they will run out.

As long as a person is able to live financially, he has the ability to live or is struggling. He has a good character, has a conscience, and can work positively. Such people are also worth considering! Find a potential stock, plus manage your marriage and relationship well, and life will be good.

Therefore, this issue should be viewed from a long-term perspective. You can't just stand in front of you, you can stand in front of you, of course, the house and car deposit is important. But from a long-term perspective, talent is the most important thing!

Of course, if you have the opportunity to meet, it is best to have a car, a house and a depositor. It depends on your actual situation! Personal advice, thank you!

What is lacking, then what will be valued.

If the family lacks a house or a car, it will pay more attention to material things.

If the family's financial conditions are good, they will definitely not care much about these.

The car and house savings are all important factors, but not all, there are many girls who are still in love.

Most of them are like this, especially young people, who are more likely to be confused by North Materials, so they care about the car and the house, and those who have experience will care about whether the other party loves them or not.

How do you say that? For example, no matter how pure and pure the love between men and women is, it cannot be without the material foundation. Therefore, for modern society, it is not only necessary for the house, but also for the fixed net income of both men and women.

Just imagine, if a girl is looking for a boyfriend who has no car or house, but the love between the two is very noble, but in the end you will definitely face the problem of getting married and having children, but at that time you need a fixed place to live and a fixed income, which are the premise of the continuation of the future.

It depends on the person, some girls value material things, and some girls value men's character and entrepreneurial spirit.

This is not necessarily, some people have a very good relationship, and they don't care about these, although the car and the house are the main ones, but I feel that the feelings are the most important.

In today's society, everyone yearns for material pursuits and enjoyment, and most girls are like this, but some girls value personality, ability, character, and different points of view, and there are no absolutes in everything.

Yes, quite a few girls value these.

Love, marriage needs a certain material foundation. Why does a girl looking for a boyfriend reduce her quality of life? Girls pay more attention to their boyfriend's character, cultivation and potential.

Look at what girls need, need a car and a house deposit, just look for this category, don't need these materials, just find this person to be good to you, just look at this person

What woman doesn't love money?

Which lady is not for money?

This can't be generalized, there will always be girls who don't force those material things.

The world is so big, there must be those girls who don't value material things too much. The times lead people to change, people's hearts are already very complex, to this society is becoming more and more materialistic, and it is inevitable that there will be people who value material things very much. Not only girls, but also many boys.

After all, living in a material age, I have been influenced by this era since I was a child, it is difficult to think about not being materialistic, and it is not in vain that money can make ghosts grind! But under the influence of this great era, should material matter be criticized? I don't think there's anything wrong with matter!

Times are advancing, and people can't always live in the minds of the past! Is the form of society changing so well? Only by adapting to society and following the law of survival of the fittest can we live, in fact, is it wrong for girls to just want life to be a little better?

If you don't have money and want a woman to marry you, this can only be said to be a pipe dream.

It's not always a way to live in your own world all day long, you say that other people's materials, then why don't you work hard, in today's society, there are too many opportunities, as long as you are willing to use your brains and work hard! Can you not make money?

I have a female friend who got married a few years ago and is now divorced. The reason is very realistic!

She married a boy with a monthly salary of 4000, 4000 yuan is not low in them, they talked about love for three years and finally got married, the boy is the only child in the family, it stands to reason that there is only one child in the family, and the economic situation should not be too bad, but the boy's mother has been in poor health, and has been ** for so many years, and has spent a lot of money!

When I got married, the woman's bride price didn't cost much, so it was a little more meaningful, but after getting married, everything else could be without, but there was no house, so the boy's family looked for relationships and borrowed more than 200,000 yuan, and then borrowed a house of about 100 square meters, and finally hastily renovated and finally lived in.

But the house bought with a loan requires a monthly payment. The boy's salary of 4000 a month has to be spent every month, and the rest is just enough to live after the monthly payment, plus water, electricity and diesel, buy clothes, cosmetics, and consumables for life. Now that it's like this, how will it be in the future?

What should I do if I have a child, I'm afraid that the child will not be able to raise it by then!

I heard that the boy's job was also lost later, and the reason seems to be that the company is not operating well, and many people have been laid off at once, and the boy is also on the list of layoffs!

Later, the girl finally couldn't stand the financial pressure and divorced.

I think it should be, because girls nowadays are very realistic, if a boy has no house, no car and no money, she feels unhappy in the future.

Not necessarily, but there are more and more girls in reality, and most of them will require the man to have a car, a house and money before he is willing to get married.

Not all girls want it. It also depends on what kind of person you are dealing with, if she is greedy for vanity, then she naturally wants, if she truly loves you, then don't use.

I don't think so, as long as two people love each other, the house and car can't be a stumbling block for them to get married, and it makes more sense for two people to work together to buy a house after marriage.

No, it mainly depends on the character, but it is not excluded that there are such girls. Having a car and a house is just an additional part, and the most important thing depends on the quality of the person.

It's not a matter of what's wrong with it, it mainly depends on whether you're self-motivated or have the ability to take on life responsibilities, but the woman's family definitely wants you to have a house and a car.

The vast majority of girls are like this.

There are no material absolute needs, and when you are too demanding, it can only be said that you have not met true love. If encountered, all conditions are false.

I think it should be, because girls also want to have a better life, instead of accompanying him to endure hardships, which is also what everyone yearns for.

I think most girls are like this, because having a good material foundation is for a marriage and life security.