A man is 30 years old, has money, a car, a house, and a girlfriend, but he thinks that there are sho

Let's find a new goal! For example, having a child, and then learning some educational knowledge, cultivating a great person or something.

Missing the heart of how to cherish and protect all this.

If you suddenly lose everything and get it again after a while, you'll know what you're missing.

As the saying goes, "teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow", before the age of 30, you have a house, a car, and money, which means that you have no material problems, and you have a girlfriend, young man, you should know to be grateful. Spiritual emptiness is currently a common problem among young people, you may wish to participate in some community volunteer activities, increase your understanding of the society, and at the same time determine your own short-term and long-term career goals, you have the motivation to pursue goals, life is not only for yourself to live but also parents, society and friends!

Brother, I think you can get back on campus and pursue the life experience you once imagined! Here's an idea: There is a university nearby, and going to the playground to learn to play basketball may make you feel much more relaxed, really!

After a while, you won't feel anything. It's true. The mystery of human nature.

Ideal! The great ideal of serving the motherland and serving the people!

Lack a home, get married, have children, fight for your family, and watch your children grow up.

There is an ancient saying in my country called 30 and standing, which means that a man should start a family and start a career when he is 30 years old. But the times are different, and now the society is developing rapidly, and many men in their thirties have just finished reading and entered the workplace, and it is difficult to meet the requirements of thirty at this time. Nowadays, many people in society think that a 30-year-old man should at least have a house and a car, so that he can be regarded as a small achievement, and he does not agree with this statement.

1.It is difficult for a thirty-year-old man to ask them to buy a house and a car independently.

Now many people will choose to continue their studies after finishing college, many people are about 27 years old when they join the workforce, the salary is not high in the first few years of the workplace, and now the housing prices in many cities are over 10,000, in just three or four years, it is unrealistic for a man to earn enough down payment, for vehicles, you may only be able to choose a vehicle below 100,000, and then it is expensive, the economic pressure will be great.

2.Many young people have parents who help them buy houses and cars.

Nowadays, there are many young people who own houses and cars, but most of them are purchased with the help of their parents, and these are not obtained by their own efforts, so even if they do, they are not successful.

3.Thirty years old is the age of struggle.

In today's society, many men in their thirties have just become familiar with their jobs, this is the age of struggle, at this time, many people's minds and thoughts have reached the most mature stage after several years of experience in the society, this time to do is to develop their own career planning and development direction, usually continue to learn and recharge, with their own efforts to achieve their own life value and goals.

Material life is not all we have, and a house and a car cannot be used as a standard to measure the success of a 30-year-old man, but to measure a 30-year-old young man is to see whether he has found his own life goal and direction at this time, and whether he can strive for it.

Within a certain range, it is normal for "things to gather like and people to divide into groups". As for the behavior of looking down on people, it may actually be an abnormal reaction that has not gotten rid of the previous inferiority complex after regaining self-esteem. In addition, it may indeed be a sudden burst of vanity, which brings a sense of superiority at work.

There is nothing to look down on, he looks down on you and doesn't tell you, one day her man dumped her, and when he was looking for teeth all over the ground, there were times when you were happy. The more you can. The sooner the person who shows off dies.

Only you know whether you are doing well or not, and it is not certain whether you are crying or laughing! Don't envy, don't be jealous, don't blush, live your own life, work hard to be yourself, and be down-to-earth with what you have gained through your own hard work.

Is it a common girl who looks down on you who has a car and a house, and you can afford nothing and still sour others every day?

The boyfriend is the boyfriend, and it's quite outrageous to start the dream of a broad wife before he gets married, and many girls may end up getting married and being lost by themselves.

It may be that the more people feel that they are missing something, the more they will show off to others.

It is undeniable that some women are indeed as you say, but there are also many women who have a very positive outlook. So, don't be discouraged, maybe one day, you'll meet a good girl.

Now girls will choose to have a house and a car when they are looking for a boyfriend, because the environment is good and the conditions are good, and girls will live better when they get married in the future.

Because there are many girls who worship money now, it is really difficult for you to find a good girl, but this does not mean that there is no such girl, you still have to be patient to find it.

Because now a good woman needs time to wait, and it is not just casual to meet the right person for herself.

Because now everyone wants to prostitute for nothing, a man who is really capable of making money will not like such a woman, he wants to find a virtuous one, but a virtuous woman is too difficult to find

The vision is too high, which may also be part of the reason, after all, people's own conditions are already so good, and it is natural to have a high vision.

Another is that I haven't met fate, the more people with such good conditions, the more particular they are, and they will never find someone to make do with their lives. If you have a car, a house and a deposit, it means that you have a high standard of living, a good quality of life, and you are so serious about life, not to mention your marriage, you must attach great importance to it. A man with such conditions should also be regarded as a successful man, this kind of person will pay more attention to his career, for feelings, talk about it when he meets, and he is not reluctant to meet it, anyway, he usually has work as a companion, and he doesn't have so much leisure time.

I must have experienced a lot to have such good conditions now, I have experienced more, I have come into contact with more people, and I will slowly know what I really want. And people with such good conditions, there must be no shortage of girls around them, and those girls are often more materialistic, rarely sincere, generally girls and this kind of man will also have pressure, because he is too good, even if he likes it, he doesn't dare to take the initiative to chase, and he is busy with his career all day long, and he has no time to fall in love, so he can only be single, quietly waiting for the arrival of that person.

Good conditions also have good conditions to worry about, not that it is easy to find a girlfriend with good conditions, the more people with good conditions, in addition to their high vision, they also have more requirements, such as three views together, have a common topic, common hobbies, it is not simply two people feel that it is suitable, this kind of person is not easy to find a partner, and they are not in a hurry to find a partner, because they feel that life is not only about finding a girlfriend.

I don't think so, these men who have it, their pursuit must be higher, they will definitely not be satisfied with the status quo, they will seek higher. It may also be their quality, I have seen people who have no house or car give up their seats to the elderly, and I have also seen people with houses and cars littering everywhere.

I don't think so, because there are many such excellent men who are completely busy with their careers, or because of work, they don't have time to fall in love, and they don't have time to accept the appearance of a girl.

I don't think it's that boys are too picky, it's that their criteria for choosing a mate have changed. Because their own conditions are very good, the requirements for choosing a mate have also changed, and they will want to find the one they have figured out, rather than the right one.

It's not necessarily just about the vision, a girl looking for a boyfriend doesn't just pay attention to his conditions, I think the more important thing is the character, the two people have the same three views and get along well, which money can't buy.

It's not like that, I think that kind of man should be very good, no girlfriend is not that they are too visionary, it is more likely that they have experienced more people than they have met, but they have not met the one that suits them, there are reasons for good conditions, and there are reasons for bad conditions for bad conditions.

Some men have a high deposit, but they don't understand women, don't know how to get along with women, don't understand amorous, or have personality defects, and often can't get along with girls, which is also the reason why they can't find a suitable girlfriend.

I think it's also a reason to be too ambitious, after all, my conditions are so good, and I want to find a girl with a beautiful family background, or I just haven't met the right one.

It must be a high vision, this kind of man doesn't lack anything, just lacks a ready-made girlfriend, and if he doesn't pick it well, then he's sorry for himself.

I don't think so, they just haven't found a suitable partner either, and with such good economic conditions, they must be busy with their own careers, so they don't have much time to deal with their relationship problems.

Money alone is not enough, but also have a good character and character, it is not enough for two people to get along with money, but also to have the same interests and hobbies.

So,It is understandable for a girl to ask for a house in the place to get married. Having said that, just like a boy looking for a partner, it also depends on the height, shortness, fat and thinness, family conditions, and it is not too strange for a girl to ask for a house and a car. But don't think that every girl who has this requirement cares about money and material things, but in fact, it is not, they may just be for the stability of the future.

I think it's normal. If the girl's family has money, or has a house, a car and a deposit, it is to find a similar family background, if the girl has no money, then she just wants a better life, then it is no problem, as long as both parties are willing, it is none of the other's business.

Such girls are more realistic in life, relatively speaking, and more materialistic, and they pay more attention to a sense of security.

These girls who require boys to have a house, a car and a deposit are particularly material girls, who want to change their fate through marriage, not necessarily because of their feelings.

I don't think such a girl can share weal and butter together, she doesn't really love this boy, she just regards marriage as a benefit.

I think the demands are on both sides, and you ask me. Reality is not a derogatory term. It's also a kind of financial security for himself or for them. There will be no quarrels over the economy.

Most people think it's realistic to ask boys to have a car, a house, and a deposit, but I don't think there's anything wrong with that, and there's nothing wrong with planning for security for the rest of your life.