My boyfriend said I don t understand how to keep my distance from the opposite sex, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-06-19
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He loves you too much, it is a manifestation of love for you, but your normal social interaction and life should still be adhered to, you can't completely lose yourself because of his care, life needs mutual understanding and care, live your own style with your heart, I wish the world a lover to eventually become a family!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't be too close to your male classmates or friends, and don't move your hands and feet

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He's not at ease with you.

    It's because: you don't have him every day.

    He doesn't see you every day, either.

    Maybe you're better than him, and he's afraid you'll be with someone better than him.

    That way, you can use your free time to send him a message.

    After school, let him pick you up, and I don't have some time to communicate on weekends.

    Gradually, let him get to know you better, and usually you hint that he needs to be trusted in love.

    That way, he knows what kind of person you are, and there won't be anything like that in the future.

    That's the typical possessive man.

    That's also a sign of loving you.

    You don't have to worry about being scared, it's enough to keep your distance from other members of the opposite sex?

    You show that you're scared, and he's going to be suspicious.

    Don't deliberately make yourself cautious.

    Naturally casual is your best performance.

    Even talking to the opposite sex isn't a big deal.

    As long as there is no eyebrow-to-eye, talking, laughing, and making trouble.

    At school, don't worry too much about someone spying on you.

    This will bring you trouble all the time, don't think about someone watching you, just OK the so-called "don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door"!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is clear that the current problem is not a reason to distance yourself from the opposite sex.

    How to reassure your boyfriend? It's a big science, and it's different for all kinds of people.

    Based on the information you provided, there are at least two things that you can understand:

    1. Your demeanor is like duckweed in the water, easy to swing, and it is difficult to give people a sense of security;

    Second, your boyfriend has low self-esteem, is extremely possessive, has too much vanity, and cares a lot about what others say.

    Comprehensive analysis, in fact, the two are not a very suitable couple, and it is easy to break up because of a little contradiction.

    The reason for your breakup is that both men and women will have the following characteristics in their mindsets:

    Woman: I'm better than you when I pull one on the street, since you don't trust, divide it!

    Man: A woman like you who is a water-based poplar flower, give it to me, I don't want it, I don't know when to bring me a green hat at any time.

    The reality is so cruel that there is no way!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The breakup should show that the other party is really not a particularly responsible person, and if you stay with this kind of person for a long time, you may often get angry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it should. Because your boyfriend is a master of love at first glance and is especially good at engaging in ambiguity, you should stay away from such a man as soon as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think of course it should, because as a couple, your boyfriend doesn't even have the least respect for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's about breaking up because your boyfriend may not be true love for you either.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should break up, because your boyfriend should be the kind of person who is particularly attentive, so he doesn't know how to keep his distance from the opposite sex, so it is most appropriate for you to break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you want to break up, in fact, in this relationship, Sikuan should still have his own friends, and if he has always asked to keep his distance, it must be because he is too open-minded.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course you should break up, because such a boyfriend doesn't like you at all and doesn't care about you, that's why he behaves like this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This question is very necessary, and it is also very timely, which is more conducive to the healthy development of your relationship. In the title, you mentioned the word euphemism, in my opinion, you don't need to be "euphemistic", just persuade directly. 1.

    The two of us are in the same place, and the emotions should be turned and guessed and transferred to the two of us, to be focused and dedicated.

    First, you must concentrate, this is one of them, you must know who to deal with, and you must be very wise. 2.Since you are with me, you can't get in close contact with other people of the opposite sex, especially hugging things, no matter how familiar and good the relationship is, there must be a boundary.

    It is not advisable whether the other party is married or unmarried, this is the most basic and it is necessary to keep a distance. 3.It's not that you can't have dealings with the opposite sex, normal work and colleague relationships are nothing, there must be a degree, and this degree must be grasped very well.

    For example, going out alone with the opposite sex, drinking with the opposite sex to open a room, is obviously excessive. 4.We should pay attention to diverting his energy, deliberately observe his whereabouts, correct it as soon as possible, and not regard contact with the opposite sex, especially contact alone, as a glorious thing, as a face-saving thing, as a capable thing, and we must clearly tell that this may cause moral things and work style things, which will not only affect our feelings, but also affect other people's families.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Honest and direct: NoTell your boyfriend how you feel and let him know you're not feeling well. Then ask him what he thinks about it and listen to his response.

    Stay calm:Stay calm when talking to your boyfriend and don't get emotional or attack him. Instead, try to express your point of view rationally.

    Looking for a compromise:Discuss a compromise so that the relationship between your boyfriend and his friend of the opposite sex doesn't hurt your feelings. For example, you can offer that you want them to keep a certain distance in front of you or only engage with them in certain situations.

    Clear boundaries:If your boyfriend is not willing to make any changes, then you need to consider whether you will be able to accept the relationship at all. If you think you can't accept it, then you need to tell him and make your own decision.

    Most importantly, be honest with your boyfriend and respect each other's feelings. If you can communicate openly and find solutions, your relationship will be healthier and more stable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Boyfriend and friend of the opposite sex get close! Maybe my boyfriend has too many nerves, and his personality is also very aggressive, and he has no sense of proportion!

    Talking face-to-face in private, without a sense of proportion, will make me very distressed and worried! I love you and won't restrict you from making friends, but you're the one who has a girlfriend! I'll be jealous if you get too close! My boyfriend is so good, I'm afraid that other girls will think of you differently!

    If you love me or not, if you love me, you have to keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex if you love me, otherwise you will break up sooner or later! Is this what you want?

    That's all right.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can reply to him, we are a couple, you don't keep your distance from other members of the opposite sex, what do you make me think, have you considered my feelings?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can euphemistically remind you that although Yu Fan is very good at Zen and ruined the show, but you already have me, and you have to be measured if you have many friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Keep your distance from the opposite sex who has a boyfriend, try not to go out together, and even if you go out on an appointment, you should call other friends to avoid misunderstandings with your boyfriend of the opposite sex.

    If you are friends with someone of the opposite sex who has a boyfriend, think about your friend and don't cause additional misunderstandings for her happiness. Less of the previous no-holds, fighting, and keeping a proper distance.

    For the opposite sex who has a boyfriend, it is easy to get down if they are together, in order to avoid suspicion, it is better to try to have less contact and less contact, and this will not cause unnecessary troubles and troubles. After all, love is selfish, and some too much contact will make the other party feel jealous or unhappy, so try to avoid these contradictions.

    There can be no absolutely pure relationship between a man and a woman, and even if one does not, the other may have some ideas. Therefore, we must prevent the occurrence of the following kinds of things.

    It doesn't matter if two people are friends with each other or not, but they must not hang out alone often. Going out alone will not only give others room for speculation, but also cause misunderstanding between your boyfriend and girlfriend. And the most important thing is that two people are alone together, and there is a good chance that there will be ripples due to some behavior.

    If two people are good friends, they can communicate frequently, but it is best not to be too close to each other. After all, such a conversation may also cause misunderstandings between your boyfriend and girlfriend, and sometimes it is too intimate, in short, it will bring a lot of room for reverie to the undetermined party.

    The last two can discuss a variety of topics, but it's best not to get into the emotional aspects of yourself. After all, feelings are the business of themselves and their partners, even if they are their confidants and friends.

    In fact, these things often happen in the relationship between boyfriends and girlfriends, but we must have that concept, and we must have a ruler in our minds that can measure this degree.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When getting along with friends of the opposite sex, how to keep a distance from the opposite sex and reassure your lover?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Try not to have any relationship with this kind of opposite sex, the best thing to do is to stay away, because someone else already has a boyfriend, and you definitely don't want to have contact with someone else.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Usually, I don't take the initiative to talk to others, I don't ask others to eat alone, and if there is anything that needs to be done together, I want the other person's boyfriend to know.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't be alone with him without someone else with you, then be good friends with his girlfriend, and if you really have something to do with him, you can text his girlfriend and ask his girlfriend to help convey it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't go out alone, eat alone, pay attention to the frequency of chatting with you, learn to refuse, and can't chat with each other all the time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You think of him as his boyfriend, and think about how your girlfriend's male friend will be uncomfortable, so you should also pay attention to these in the process of getting along with the opposite sex.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Decline any non-work-related invitations, including shopping, eating, or traveling together. Even if it is necessary contact at work, you should pay attention to your words and actions.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Try not to go out to eat with her alone, can you have too close contact, otherwise it will affect the relationship between her and her boyfriend, and you will also be embarrassed.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is very important not to be overly intimate, because sometimes, overly intimate behavior will not only misunderstand your friends, but also make it easier for those around you to misunderstand.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can't go out alone, you have to have a lot of people together to go out to play, and you can't chat online, and you must pay attention to not having ambiguous behavior.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Try not to have too much intersection with your boyfriend's friends of the opposite sex, if you are invited to dinner, you should politely refuse, if you really can't refuse, take your boyfriend with you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Boyfriends never keep their distance from the opposite sex, and as a girlfriend, you can tell your boyfriend that you don't like him to get too close to other members of the opposite sex, and there is no need to hide it at all. If it is so straightforward and ineffective, I personally feel that it is necessary to change my boyfriend, so there is no need to date again.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, you have to ask him what friends of the opposite sex are, if it's just a good friend, don't dig into it, but if not, you have to talk to him as his girlfriend, the main point expressed is that he is in contact with other people of the opposite sex, and you are very uncomfortable inside.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think you should not be so serious when communicating with him, but also in a relaxed environment, tell him that you care more about him and other members of the opposite sex, there is too much communication, and usually remind him more.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Your boyfriend never keeps a distance from the opposite sex, which is really uncomfortable, and if you want to remind him, you can consider treating him the way he is.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Then you should be straightforward with your boyfriend about your thoughts and tell him to keep your distance.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you have a boyfriend, of course, you should keep your distance from other men.

    I really don't know if you really think of him as a boyfriend.

    If your boyfriend is always pulling other women in front of you, you can be happy, and you just break up.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    As you can see from the performance of the two of you, I think the two of you should have a good chat, after all, it is not easy for two people to be together.

    From your point of view, it is okay to keep some distance between you and the boys, at least not to touch them physically, and to maintain normal communication in terms of language. In fact, if you think about it in another position, if your boyfriend is like this, I'm afraid you have already broken up, in fact, the boy loves you very much, as long as you can also think about him, I believe your life will get better and better.

    From the boy's side, in fact, I think my own words are concerned about your performance, that is, jealousy and anger, this is normal, I think the boy should take the initiative to communicate with the girl, tell her, I will be angry if you do this, of course, the boy also said that this is his bottom line, so there is something that should be communicated and should not be avoided.

    Hope to adopt!

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