Why don t I like my brother talking to other people

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    From your words, you can see that you have a good relationship, or at least your brother is very submissive in front of you.

    As an older person than your younger brother, you may have developed a sense of responsibility for yourself to protect your younger brother from an early age, so that you can pay attention to all aspects of your younger brother. As a younger brother, you may be very obedient to you because of the cherishing of this family affection. When your brother is in contact with someone else, you will subconsciously feel that your "ownership" is threatened, which I think may be the main reason why you feel uncomfortable.

    If you will come to ask for help, then it means that you feel that you should not feel that way. You are already at the age of going to work, so it means that your personality has begun to grow independently. The solution is to treat your brother as if he were an independent person, not just your brother.

    Of course, there is no substitute for the family relationship between you, and there is no need to worry about losing your brother, no matter what, you are all related by blood.

    ps, do not appreciate the ls, those alarmists.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Look at your information indicates that it is a man Hehe Your desire to control and possess is very strong Fortunately, this is only your brother If it is your woman You don't kill her If your brother only chats with you alone Then it's wrong He can't participate in work There is no communication Maybe you have a little gap in your heart I feel that my brother usually listens to you You enjoy this kind of attention very much Now your brother is chatting with others You feel that kind of attention is taken away by others In fact, you really don't want to be like this Whether this is your own brother or not You don't have the right to ask him to talk to you alone, as long as you are sincere to him, he will cherish you as much as he speaks to a hundred people, and he can tell who is the most important person in his heart, isn't it, why do you have so many worries and a sense of crisis, be yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is the mood of sister and brother love! Be careful yourself! ·

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you have a boyfriend, you won't think like that, get a boyfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Everyone in life will have different emotions when they encounter different things, and I have a deep impression of my impression and my cousin's anger.

    My cousin came to my house that day, and I wanted to tease him, so I strode up to him. He must have thought I had come to meet him, and he ran towards me. I gave him an affectionate hug and took his hat off.

    He hadn't noticed anything unusual, and after a while he realized that the hat was gone. Looking back, hey, how did the hat get into your hand? At first, he calmly told me:

    Brother, give me the hat. "Don't give, don't give, you take it yourself!" I teased him, and when I said that, he got a little angry.

    A warning was issued: "You still haven't given me back the hat?" "If you don't pay it back, you won't pay it back."

    I want to see what you do. My brother seemed to see that I was deliberately manipulating him, and now he was really angry, his little face was flushed, and his eyes seemed to be flashing with fire, and he said to me again in a threatening tone: "The last time I called, did you still not return my hat Sen Chi Kaizi?"

    As soon as I heard his tone, I took my hat and ran, and when he saw me doing this, he was enraged, stamped his feet, and shouted, "Give it to me, give it to me," and when he saw that I ignored him, he came like a little tiger and snatched my hat from my hand.

    He jumped first and snatched my hat from my hand, and I raised it high. He tried to push me down again to grab the hat. But I didn't expect that I was a heavyweight, and I couldn't push it at all. My brother bit his lip and pushed me hard. But it didn't work.

    When my cousin sees that the hard ones are not only good, but they also come to the soft ones. He used his special move. I saw his big mouth.

    Wow cried out. Tears flowed down like beads of broken thread, and I had to quickly admit defeat and return the hat to him. He took his hat and burst into tears.

    He's really my sweet little cousin.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    But I'm very conflicted, I can't see his pitiful appearance, I want to be nice to him.

    There are three children in the family, I am the second, my younger brother is more than six years younger than me, the two of us have fought almost since childhood, so to speak, with my sister, the three of us are almost fighting and fighting, and even now we still fight, when I was a child, I would fight because of a little snack, the family was always unevenly distributed, and we would fight because my brother had more snacks.

    I often get tired of my brother's arrogant appearance, and everyone has to bully him. I remember the most vivid fight was when we went back to our hometown to play at my aunt's house, he had to bully my aunt's little brother, how could he not stop it, our two sisters could not stop it, and the adults could not stop it, and then I kept talking to him that he should not bully the poor child so much, saying that he was impatient, put my head under the armpit and began to hit me with his fist against my sun blood, hit about two laps, at that time he was about the same height as me, I did not have the ability to break free from him, my sister came up to help, He ran away after the fight, I hit my temples along the way because of the argument, I couldn't stop the tears, you can see a girl who is crazy about tears on the street, fortunately there is no one on the street, otherwise it is really embarrassing, and I can't stop the tears when I get home, my brother went out for a walk and came back, and when I came back, I used my fist to beat my sister to cry, and finally my parents came back and complained to them, but it was no avail, and even on the table to see that he was unhappy and kept asking him what he wanted to eat.

    There are so many things like this that I really don't like himWhen I was a child, anyone who was not afraid of the sky dared to fight, but my parents felt that he was right, and thought he was very good, and my sister and I lived in college and he was even more free at home, and he bought whatever he wanted. It can be said that half of my unhappy childhood as a child was brought by him, because my mother and I have the same surname, and he will even let me get out of the house, saying that I and he are not the same surname. When I was a child, when I was happy watching TV, he would use the quilt to cover us under the quilt and kick us wildly, and when the family went out to play, he would also express his happiness with his fists because he was very happy.

    When I was a child, he always used his fists to express happiness or anger, which is why I didn't like him. But every time I think that I am an older sister, I should be kind to him and let him be a little bit, he is just young, and he will be sensible when he grows up.

    I always make excuses for him, and he has managed to be spoiled by our familyBut I hope that when he grows up, he can really get better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.Disliking a younger brother can be an emotional reaction, but we should try not to have prejudices or negative feelings about him, as this may affect our respectful and friendly attitude towards others. If you really don't like your brother, you can try to understand his actions and thoughts and try to connect with him and relate to him in a positive way.

    If you think his behavior or character is unacceptable, you can communicate with him and try to understand his point of view. In addition, you can try to develop hobbies or participate in certain activities with your brother to get to know him better and build a better relationship.

    2.It's not uncommon to dislike your brother, but that doesn't mean we should be prejudiced or negative about him. We should do our best to avoid this as it may affect our respectful and friendly attitude towards others.

    If you really don't like your brother, you can try to understand his actions and thoughts and try to connect with him and relate to him in a positive way. If you think his behavior or personality is unacceptable, you can try to communicate with him and understand his point of view. In addition, you can also try to participate in certain activities or develop common interests with your brother to get to know him better and build a better relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. It's just the idea of inequality deep down in your heart.

    It's just the idea of inequality deep down in your heart.

    A parent's love for every child is the same.

    Didn't say who to love more.

    It's possible to be biased, but if you don't like it, this may be that you think too much. Of course, if the subject is a girl, this is indeed possible in a patriarchal family. So what you can do is to work hard to become more and better.

    Only if you become better can you have no way to dislike you.

    It's possible to be biased, but if you don't like it, this may be that you think too much. Of course, if the subject is a girl, this is indeed possible in a patriarchal family. So what you can do is to work hard to become more and better.

    Only if you become better can you have no way to dislike you.

    And my elementary school student can't learn how to teach decimal division.

    The divisor is the division of the decimal of the integer First remove the first mill according to the law of integer division; The decimal point of the quotient should be aligned with the decimal point of the dividend; When there is still a remainder at the end of the dividend, the person trembling will add 0 to the remainder of the hole and continue to divide.

    The divisor is the decimal division of decimals: first remove the decimal point of the divisor to make it an integer; Seeing that there are several decimal places in the divisor, move the number of the small congratulatory letter of the dividend to the right by the same number of digits (0 is added when the number of digits is not enough); Stupid world is calculated according to the divisor is an integer with the division of the limb method.

    I don't want to take the college entrance examination anymore, I think my grades are too bad, and I can't get many points in the exam.

    You need to discuss this with your family and get your parents' consent.

    But going to school is the easiest way to change your future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sunday, April 3, 2022, fine.

    After the dance class, they took Coco and ordered a pork knuckle rice outside, and the proprietress took 2 more bowls and chopsticks, mixed them, and served them to the sisters and brothers.

    Coco, this is yours, this is my brother's, you have to eat it. ”

    Mom, what if you can't finish eating? ”

    No, you have to finish the food I serve you before you can grow taller. ”

    "Coco answered and ate, and the younger brother didn't eat much, because while Coco was dancing, the little one ate a bun and drank a glass of Danxian milk.

    While eating, Coco asked me, "Mom, why do you only like my brother and don't like me?" ”

    Shocked, "Haha, you and my brother, we both like it?" Who told you we don't like you? ”

    The last time my brother didn't finish eating, Dad poured out the leftovers. ”

    That's because my brother made my father angry. ”

    Why didn't Dad throw away my leftovers? ”

    Dad asked you to eat more, it made you grow taller. ”

    I don't like to eat too much, I want you to make less rice. ”

    Oh, okay, but that doesn't stop Mom and Dad from liking you two. ”

    Me and my brother, who do you and Dad like? ”

    Haha, why do you ask? You and your brother are mom and dad's babies, and we both love them. ”

    Can you choose only one you like? ”

    This one can't be chosen, I like both. ”

    Do you like my brother a little more or do you like me a little more? ”

    Amount (o)....So me and Dad, who do you like? ”

    You two, I like both. "I like both," Coco said louder.

    That can only refer to the chain like one? ”

    No, I'm all tease to like. ”

    That's it, me and Dad, you both like it; You and my brother, we both like it, it's the same, we can't say which one we like. ”

    Oh well! ”

    Alas, this little one.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What about this, the average family must still be more popular with boys, this thousand-year-old tradition, don't care!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should try to accept it, not hate it. First of all, you said that he is your younger brother, whether it is a brother or not, you have lived together for a long time, no matter how many conflicts you have together, you are all under one roof, eating the same food, living the same life, he is still a child, he has his life, maybe his mind is very simple, he thinks he is right, but you have to look at him as a sister, he is still a child, a child who doesn't understand anything, he is naughty, willful, and his parents are used to it, you can try to talk to your parents.

    This kind of thing, I won't advise you to have a good relationship with them, I think you should alienate him, please remember, everyone will make mistakes, we can understand, but when we are treated unfairly, we can choose to defend our rights and interests, understand them just to make yourself feel better, you can work hard independently, maybe some people will say that you have no conscience, no morality, no filial piety, don't pay attention to them, there will always be trolls in the world, all your choices are to make yourself happy.

    My brother is still young, you should discipline him, no matter what your parents say about you, you have this obligation to discipline him, because he is still a child, a child who doesn't know anything, don't always think about it from the perspective of hating him, think about whether you have had a happy time together, for example, he gave you a small gift on your birthday, etc., don't put too much pressure on yourself, in fact, you are all children, I still envy you, you have a younger brother, but I only have myself.

    In fact, sometimes opening your heart is not necessarily a bad thing, maybe you and him will live a very happy life, and when he grows up, he can protect you and protect you like a brother, and you will understand in the future.

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