I invite others to dinner, but they don t come, saying they don t like me, what do you do with me?

You invite others to dinner, and they don't say they don't like you, how can you be ignored? That's two different things, if you invite someone to dinner alone, if she comes, then others will gossip, and it's just out of politeness to ignore you.

It can be seen from five aspects that girls don't like your performance:

1. Escape. If a girl is always running away from you, find an excuse to avoid the opportunity to be alone with you. Even if you have to be together, you will keep your distance and look like you are businesslike, then the girl may be telling you that she doesn't like you and that there will be no further development between you.

2. Pretending to be confused: She pretends to be confused about your questions, and even pretends not to hear your questions many times, you obviously want to ask her if she likes you or not, and whether she wants to associate with you, but she is, we are colleagues, good friends, and we should help each other. At this time, she is on time for you, you are just colleagues or friends, nothing else.

3. Refusal: The girl will refuse some of your requests, such as going out together on weekends, going shopping together in her spare time, etc., indicating that she does not want to be with you, indicating that she does not like you and wants to keep her distance from you.

4. Self-destructive image: She who originally loved clean and beautiful recently behaved sloppily in front of you, with rice grains at the corners of her mouth, gulping down, speaking loudly, and even being impolite, not paying attention to her appearance, etc., indicating that she may not care about her image in your heart, and you will only be a simple friend at present.

5. Talking about her boyfriend: Suddenly talking about her boyfriend in front of you, although she may not have a boyfriend, but she keeps talking about her boyfriend all the time, which means that she has a heart, or she doesn't want to associate with you.

Didn't that person reject you? If you invite someone to dinner, and if they don't come, it means that you pursue others, and they reject your pursuit, this is normal, people have said that they don't like you, so you should never pursue her in the future, or think about what the problem is? Haven't you known each other for a long time?

You're in a hurry to confess.

Since the other party really expressed his dislike directly, respect his thoughts. Such a person is not suitable to be your friend, and it just so happens that you can also not waste your feelings on him.

It's an escape. Pretending to be confused, he pretends to be confused about your question, and even pretends not to hear.

If you invite someone to dinner and others don't come, I think you can invite him for another reason or excuse, it may be much better, and sometimes inviting someone to dinner is also a science.

When you invite someone to dinner and are refused, it is really shameless. Maybe you and the other person are not familiar enough to make an appointment for dinner, but you act hastily.

If the other party really has something, you can say that tomorrow, if the other party says yes, just ask him tomorrow, if you still shirk it, then forget it.

Tips for treating guests to dinner.

First, there must be a reason.

If you want to invite someone to dinner, you must first pay attention to a "right name" and have a reason. If you directly say, "Brother, let's have a meal together", then you will most likely be rejected. Because everyone is very busy, and you are not bad for this meal, there is no reason, who will participate in the meal that can be eaten or not.

However, it is important to note that there is no reason for people to participate. There are some reasons, the transaction is too obvious, at the beginning said that you want to trouble others to help you do things, put pressure on people, make people defensive, and even lower yourself, such a meal failed from the beginning. Therefore, your reasons must sound comfortable, free of psychological pressure, and contain your sincerity, so that people can't refuse.

For example, your birthday, job transfer, promotion and salary increase, the leader (colleague) is kind to you in some way, etc., can become the reason for your organization.

2. Ask someone else to come forward.

A lot of times, if we invite someone directly, we won't necessarily get it, even if there is a good reason. Because people think that the status gap between you is too great, and they refuse to sell face to you. But if you invite other people to accompany and come forward, it will be much less difficult to form a game.

This process requires thought and wisdom, and the common methods are: celebrities open the way, mutual friends to accompany them, and old leaders to come forward. For example, if you want to invite a leader to attend a dinner, you can invite a mutual friend who is related to him and has a good relationship with him to accompany him, and you can also invite other colleagues to accompany him.

If the leader likes calligraphy and painting, he can invite famous local calligraphers and painters to attend by celebrities. However, it should be noted that the bureau of asking people to do things should not be too much to accompany people; The bureau of thanking others can appropriately increase the number of people and enliven the atmosphere. As for who will accompany you and for what reasons, you must communicate with the guest of honor in advance.

3. Deal with each other more often.

What if you invite someone to dinner and someone else doesn't come?

What if you invite someone to dinner and others don't go? First of all, I want to tell you about the social etiquette of adults: if you don't say yes easily, people are not happy.

Don't think that after the help is finished, you can return the favor by inviting the people to have a meal. You feel that people are already annoyed, maybe they are not too happy, forced to help because of your repeated requests, and then think that after eating the meal you invited, you may have to continue to help, which is troublesome. Or simply people don't think it's necessary for you to invite you to dinner.

But in both cases, you can repay the favor in a way other than eating. If someone really doesn't want to eat, buy him something, or maybe do him a favor. I don't understand what the question is asking in Zen, is it that you invited him to eat pure land rice, but he didn't go?

Or do you find him a little annoying and don't know how to get along with him? Maybe it's better to invite him after a while.

If someone else invites someone to eat and doesn't want to go, they can say that they have something at home to refuse. When someone else has a treat, if we don't want to go, we can say that there is something at home and politely refuse the other party. Generally speaking, it is not easy for the other party to ask much about something at home, after all, it is a family matter.

Second, if you are unwell, you can refuse to be unwell because you are unwell, whether it is a colleague or a friend who invites you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can say that you have recently drunk too much, and you are not feeling well as a reason to refuse euphemistically. 3. When we don't want to go when others have a treat, we can say that we need to go out at night. Generally, after the other party heard it, he would not continue to invite Song Lu.

There must be a reason why the other party invites you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can say that you don't have time, in fact, you still have to be tactful, in fact, the other party invites you to dinner is to treat you as a friend, or say that there is something to find you, so they will invite you.

In this case, you can say that you don't have time for the other party to understand, in fact, there are many people who may also be very busy, so there will be a certain conflict between the time of two people, in fact, you can directly tell the other party that you don't have time now, or you say that you want to have a good rest.

In fact, if you really don't want to go, you must find a reason, and you must refuse the other party tactfully, maybe the relationship with you is also very good, he invited you to dinner must also have something to tell you, so in this case, I think you must find a very suitable reason, only in this way will it not be so embarrassing, and sometimes try to understand what the reason is, if you don't want to go because of your own reasons, I think first you have to show your attitude.

If you say you don't want to go now, in fact, the other party is also very unhappy, so be sure to find a suitable reason, for example, you don't have time, or because of work, or maybe it's family reasons, so some such reasons may be better. And try to find a more suitable one, only in this way that it will not affect the relationship between the two of you.

In fact, when encountering such a situation, I also feel very embarrassed, and no matter what the situation, the most important thing is to know how to say it better, or how to make the other party understand their inner thoughts, but I think as long as the relationship between two people is good, there should be no way to affect the relationship between two people.

It's nothing, you're overthinking, it's just a meal, maybe he wants to enhance your relationship with him, establish a friendly relationship with each other, and share the blessings and disasters in the future, if you think he is a friend worth making, just give face, if you think it's not necessarily a good thing to be friends with him, just find an excuse to push it off, and you don't get too close to him in the future, keep your distance!

If you really don't want to eat, don't go.

In this way, you will be unhappy, and you will be emotionally dissatisfied during the meal, and there will be many bad effects, making yourself unhappy, so why waste time?

However, refusal is also an art, don't hurt others.

And, let others know what you have on your mind.

If it's an ordinary friend, you can find an excuse to politely refuse. For example, you have been busy recently, you can't walk away from overtime, or you are not feeling well, you have something at home, etc. Although I didn't go to eat, I got my mind. I'll invite you another day when I have time.

Unwilling to reject others neatly, it looks like he is thinking about others, and he doesn't want everyone to be embarrassed. But you just take yourself too seriously, because you feel that if you refuse, others will be heartbroken! But in fact, when everyone puts forward their own request, they are already mentally prepared to be rejected, and even the other party prefers you to choose to refuse.

You can say that you have a lot of personal things to do now, and when you are free, invite him to dinner, and say something like thank him for his help, etc., there should be no problem!

Summary. 1. When others say that they don't need to invite him to dinner, it means that they have helped you before, or have done something for you, and they don't need you to invite them to dinner, and they don't need you to be polite. 2. Explain that this person is very righteous and helps others without asking for anything in return.

3. There are very few such people now, and this kind of person is worthy of deep friendship.

1. Calling Zhou Jian said that he didn't need to invite him to dinner, which meant that he had helped you before, or what he had done for you, and he didn't need you to invite him to dinner, so he didn't need you to be polite. 2. Explain that this person is very righteous and helps others without asking for anything in return. 3. There are very few people like pants now, and this kind of person is worthy of deep friendship.

My cousin, I went out with him last month and asked him to dinner, but he wasn't available.

Then today I said that I would invite him to dinner, but it was too early to leave.

I said my phone was running out of battery, and he said it's okay, you don't need to invite me, you can go eat first.

Are you there. In that case, let's invite you again next time you have the chance.

My cousin is no one else, so he doesn't care.

Hello, dear, here for you to find out: 1. Say that your work has not been done and you need to work overtime. If you ask a colleague to invite you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can use the reason that you have more recent jobs and need to work overtime as a reason to politely refuse your colleague.

2. Refuse on the grounds of physical discomfort, whether it is a colleague or a friend inviting you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can say that you have recently drunk too much and are not feeling well as a reason to politely refuse. 3. When your colleagues and friends invite you out to dinner, and you don't want to go, you can say "I'm really sorry, today is our family party, I really can't go, I'll invite you to dinner another day" to refuse. 4. If your colleague or friend invites you to dinner and you don't want to go, you can say to the other party "I'm sorry, I have an appointment tonight, I'll invite you to dinner another day" as a reason.

It must be something else. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, hating you is you in a certain aspect to make the other person feel worthless, but inviting you to dinner and telling the year is where you have the other party's needs. First find out what the other person wants to do, which is to use you to be valuable to him.

Burn your eyes.

Maybe I want to admit my mistake to you, or maybe I still have a good heart for you. You can't look at the surface.