Some contradictions and confusion with her boyfriend

If you love, work hard.

It's not that standing and talking doesn't hurt your back.

If there is really no room for it, let it go.

The human heart cannot be watched.

Time is the best healing medicine.

The time of dating is not very good How to get out. I don't know. You may just be a substitute for her.

Why do you care so much about him, but I've only known him for more than a month.

Be cruel to him, don't forget your ex-girlfriend, don't pay attention to him, a big man, never forget, and talk about a new girlfriend.

The more you care about him, the more you lose, you can't control this kind of love, be smarter, kid.

Be tolerant, what's yours is yours!

Since the landlord has expressed it like this, the problem is very simple.

You love him and don't want to leave him, so wait for him with all your heart.

Silently, sincerely, attentively, and lovingly waiting for him.

Wait for the storm at work to pass and the emotional waves to subside.

And then I will live happily ever after with you.

Of course, there is another possibility, that is, he has survived the storm, but he can't calm the waves of feelings.

Then you will become superfluous.

But there are two sides to everything, it's up to you how you choose.

Personally, I think that love requires the courage to give and wait. Love, not to get anything.

And I loved you, that's enough.

But this kind of thing varies from person to person, depending on how you choose.

Good luck.

Since you don't want to be separated, that's easy.

Sit down and have a good talk and tell him that you give him time, he calms down, he thinks it through.

Put it down, you say this and it seems that you understand him better, then he will not leave.

He needs to find someone who understands him now, and if you like him, you can try to be that person.

The past should be abandoned. Would have given up before. Won't you give up if you start over?

Don't always go through once and think we've grown up. In fact, they are often still standing still.

It's just a little bit more. So. He should look ahead. And not looking backwards.

Let him calm down for a while, don't get too close, and when he calms down and can let go, he will fall in love with you seriously and attentively, otherwise, you will always feel that he is not serious enough, always thinking about that person, and wanting to indulge.

I think the conflicts with your boyfriend are getting more and more lucky, and you should find a way to solve the conflict and communicate more.

Some people find that two people will encounter a lot of problems when they get along with each other, and there will be more and more contradictions. When you encounter these problems, if you don't want to help him solve them, then the resentment will grow more and more, and the feelings will be eliminated.

I think you should do this when you have a conflict with your object:

When couples get along together, because the two people have different views on life, different habits, or different attitudes towards problems, two people living together are bound to encounter some contradictions.

For example, when two people live together, one of them is very unhygienic, and the other is hygienic. When such people get along, they will inevitably have contradictions.

So how can these contradictions be resolved? I think it takes two people to solve these problems togetherFor example, one person makes a concession or works together to solve a problem.

When encountering these contradictions, if the two of you still want to continue to get along, then you should find a way to resolve these contradictions. Only by resolving these conflicts can your relationship become better. Otherwise, if these contradictions are left unchecked, it may lead to problems in your relationship eventually.

If two people get along together, the contradictions they encounter are the root problems, and they are the ones that cannot be changed. I think it's better to break up early when you encounter these situations.

Because since you can't solve those contradictions, then these contradictions will explode sooner or laterBy then, the two of them will be bruised. In the face of such a situation, I think it is better to break up as soon as possible, so that each other can start a new life.

There are many contradictions, and some things should be changed and solved in the way of communication, rather than in the heart, and slowly deposition into a contradiction that can never be solved.

If the conflict intensifies to the point where it is irreconcilable, then break up, maybe the two people are really inappropriate, so the conflict cannot be mediated.

I think the best thing to do is to break up, because there are so many contradictions now, and they will get bigger and bigger in the future.

After falling in love, that's when you find his shortcomings, you have to turn his shortcomings into advantages, you have to care more about her, take care of her more, and be with you all the time.

After falling in love, there are more and more spear bends and shields between the two people, so at this time, you must go to bury the hidden bend in time to find the problem, and be able to make changes and see the other party's attitude, so as to better maintain the emotion!

You should have a good talk with your boyfriend, after all, it is easy to be together, if the couple breaks up, it is also very pity, and the two people should tolerate each other's shortcomings more and correct some of their own problems.

Then you need to talk about it, see if the communication is not in place, and you must be calm.

After falling in love, the conflict with Maomao's boyfriend is getting more and more relaxed, because I didn't get along with Yanqian before, but now I get along, I naturally know that there are a lot of differences, and it is easy to rub off.

Then you should try to tolerate each other's shortcomings and know how to be considerate of each other.

If two people often lose their temper and quarrel over a trivial matter when they are in love, they must learn to calm down, and after calming down, see what the reason for the quarrel is and see if the problem can be solved. Most people hurt each other again and again in quarrels because they indulge their temper too much and don't know restraint, so after the two of them calm down, they might as well have a good talk. <>

1. Understand the reasons for the quarrel

Most people are anxious, they can't tolerate some details in life, and they can't help but lose their temper when they see some unhappy things, in fact, they are used to it. Two people must reflect in time after a quarrel, because every quarrel must have a reason, so don't repeat the mistakes of the past after the quarrel, find the reason in time to correct the mistake in time, and solve the problem fundamentally. If you are wrong, let's change it in time, so that we can effectively avoid two people from quarreling twice for the same reason, and we can also maintain the relationship between two people.

Second, learn to restrain yourself

In most romantic relationships, boys are more tolerant of girls, but some girls are easy to grasp other people's faults, and even a little aggressive, so this boy will start arguing when he endures a certain limit. In fact, sometimes you can't blame boys for this, and sometimes girls have to review themselves more. Because girls are too easy to lose their temper in love, Cha Yuxiang is too indulgent because his boyfriend spoils him more.

If girls can learn to reflect properly and restrain themselves, it will also be conducive to the harmony of two people. <>

3. Calm down and have a good talk

It is very normal for couples not to quarrel with each other, but after two people calm down with each other after quarreling, they must talk about the problem of quarreling, which can not only make the relationship between two people better, but also solve the problem in a real way. If two people just sulk and don't speak, and reconcile by coaxing, the problem will still not be solved, and they will quarrel again next time because of the same problem.

Both people should communicate with each other calmly, must understand the problems between the two old people, and then solve the problem reasonably, after the two people are together, there will definitely be bumps and bumps, but do not solve and solve the problem in a cold and violent way, and must communicate frequently.

I think maybe you're too sensitive. It is recommended to relax your mind. Don't take some worries or small things to heart.

When encountering this kind of thing, we must communicate more often, and then solve and correct the contradiction in time.