People who give birth to daughters, no one will come to sweep the graves in the rural cemeteries in

Every New Year's holiday, children and grandchildren go to the grave to burn some paper money to add soil, to show that the family has a successor, and the incense is endless. For families with daughters but no sons, usually only the daughters' generation will go to their parents' homes to visit the graves. and the nephews of their parents' families sweep their graves, and when their daughters grow old or die, their children and grandchildren gradually neglect the graves of their grandmothers and grandfathers, and over time, no one goes there.

1.The only child is a product of the times, and the daughter is also a descendant. The filial piety that a son can inherit, a daughter can also do.

Although it is said that children are equal, in fact, in the inheritance of filial piety to the deceased elderly, we have to admit that sons still have more innate advantages than women. No matter how filial her daughter is, as long as she can walk on her own, she may be able to go to the grave often in this life. But what about her descendants?

What about future generations? The son's side may be different. No matter how many generations it has passed, it is their ancestor.

In general, the filial piety of tomb sweeping.

It will be passed down from generation to generation.

2.When we are alive, we will do our filial piety, and after someone leaves, we will not regret it in our hearts, nor will we feel that it is too late. Many people don't cherish it when their parents are there, and they don't know that they have not fulfilled their filial piety until they leave.

If that person is gone, it doesn't make sense for us to do anything. Often many people will resort to these methods to make up for it, but it is really just a comfort.

3.Generally, those who have no children will be led by nephews and nephews to sweep the graves after death. Washed by the rain, the grave will get smaller and smaller and eventually disappear. The rural cemetery looks like this. As long as there are no family descendants, they will gradually disappear over time.

It's a modern society that still follows those old routines. What if my daughter goes to visit the grave? Now they are cremated and then buried in the cemetery.

Go to see them on the Qingming Festival, put some sacrifices, worship the ancestors, and incense is not allowed to burn. Some of these ancestral graves have been relocated, some have been bulldozed to the ground, and some have been built into communities. Modern society is urbanized, and urbanized places have long since stepped out of the old way of doing things.

There will be other relatives who will help sweep the cemetery, although the daughter cannot come to sweep the cemetery, but the daughter's child can come.

Life is like a white horse, people die like lights out, and living in the present is the most important thing. Whether there is a grave or not is just a form of commemoration, and even if no one comes to worship or sweep the grave, what difference does it make for the deceased? As long as you are filial piety in life, it is far better than a hundred incense after death!

The daughter is the child of her parents, of course, she will go to sweep the grave, in the countryside, the grave of the family is basically together, as long as there is a descendant, someone will come to sweep the cemetery, and will come to worship.

If no one comes to sweep the graves of those who give birth to daughters, many cemeteries in the countryside will be keptEven if no one comes to sweep the grave, it will still stand in place, and the countryside has always said that the dead are the greatest. They don't go to a person's cemetery for no reason, even if they want to expropriate the local land, they will negotiate with the deceased's daughter.

I think that people who give birth to daughters will also have people to sweep the tomb in the future, the national traditional festival Qingming Festival is a holiday these days, and many people even in other places they have to come back to sweep the tomb and worship. As the daughters of the deceased, they feel that their parents are the most important people in this life, and they will sweep the graves of their parents when they give them life.

Nowadays, most of the rural areas do not have real cemeteries, and many of the dead are not planned to be in a cemetery. But don't think that if no one sweeps the grave, someone will move the cemetery, because the rural custom is that if you move someone else's cemetery, you may bring trouble to yourself. In general, they will not touch other people's graves, and if the deceased's daughter really can't come to sweep the graves, people will let the weeds in the cemetery regenerate but will not touch the cemetery.

There are cemeteries in some parts of the countryside, and where there are cemeteries, there are no daughters to sweep the graves, and there will be professional grave sweepers to sweep the graves of these graves. And every year buried in the cemetery, part of the salary of the local cemetery must be paid, for example, our cemetery here, if buried in the cemetery, it will be 36 yuan per year. These 36 yuan is the labor fee that the grave sweeper usually cleans the cemetery, and as a daughter, she should go back to worship during the Qingming Festival, even if she doesn't have to sweep the tomb, she should worship it.

Tomb sweeping in these places is carried out by professionals, but no one goes to worship.

If there is only a daughter, then the daughter can go to the grave to burn paper money on New Year's holidays and death days.