What to do about introverted girls, what to do about introverts in girls How to deal with introverts

I think introverted girls should not force themselves to be gregarious and do things that they are not good at, but they should practice their eloquence and be polite.

I'm also a bit of an introvert, and the older I get, the more introverted I become. Because of my introverted personality, I don't really like to talk. There was a time when I wanted to try to become an extrovert.

So at that time, I became friends with a very lively and cheerful person, learned her way of behaving and speaking, and gradually became infected by her, I became more talkative, and more friends. But after a long time, I feel a little tired, and I feel tired from talking so much every day, which is very much like hiding and doing what I like.

Later, I couldn't pretend anymore, I wasn't an extrovert in the first place, and after pretending for so long, I regained my introverted personality and changed back to my original self. But the friends I made didn't understand me, felt that I was unpredictable, and gradually alienated me. At this time, although I felt a little regretful, I still felt relieved.

I still feel most comfortable being who I am. Changing yourself to be what others want you to be can't make real friends. So, in my case, although you are an introverted girl, maybe your introverted personality will bring trouble to your life, make you not very gregarious, and make it difficult for you to make friends.

But you don't pretend to be another person for someone else, that's not what you're good at, you're going to be tired, you're going to not know yourself.

But you don't mean to say that it is static, even if you are an introvert, you have to practice eloquence. Eloquence is good for your relationships and relationships. Being eloquent does not mean talking a lot and talking eloquently.

Even if you don't talk much, you have to say things that are comfortable for people to hear, and you need to think about this.

You also need to be polite. I see a lot of introverts because they are not used to talking, and when someone talks to him, he is shy and does not respond to the other person, which makes people think that the child is not polite. So, even if you are an introvert, be polite and learn to respond to what others say.

<> introverted, just don't like to talk, etc. It doesn't mean that you don't like to do things. Introverts have the following characteristics:

1. If you don't take the initiative to contact with the outside world, you may just deal with it when you are passive; 2. I don't want to contact with others, and lack of interest in interacting with others; 3. There is no urgent desire to change oneself.

False introversion can be said to be relatively common among introverts, with a relatively high proportion. We may have met such people in our lives, and the people closest to us (such as parents, friends, etc.) can talk and talk endlessly, and they are very comfortable. But in some special environments, especially in front of one's boss, excellent people of the opposite sex, public occasions, etc., I am speechless and say bad things.

In the reception consultation**, there was a girl who asked us for help, she is a college student, usually does not talk much, introverted, only has a good relationship with one or two people in the same dormitory, and has nothing to say to other people. She also said that university life is very colorful, and she hopes to be like other classmates, with a group of friends who talk and laugh. But I feel uncomfortable, nervous and blushing in front of my classmates, especially the opposite sex, and I have never had the courage to contact them, and I don't know what to say and what topics to talk about and ask for help.

First of all, we can judge from the consultation ** that he is a false introvert, because she is eager to change herself, and secondly, she is eager to contact and communicate with others. The real situation is that when I am in some social situations, I am very nervous, and the tension leads to blushing when I speak, sweating palms, and I especially want to escape from similar situations. However, on some occasions, there is tension and fear in the environment, and they don't know what to say, etc., which prevents them from contacting the outside world.

Friend, if you are still struggling in the sea of misery at this time. Then, while someone can help you, you also need to stretch out a hand and grasp the reins of fate yourself in order to reach the other side of victory!

Acceptance: Introversion isn't entirely a bad thing, introversion has the advantages and benefits of being introverted:

1 Introverts tend to be more observant and think more deeply.

2 Introverts have a stable temperament, generally do not take the initiative to cause trouble, and are not easy to offend others.

3 Easier to focus. It is easier to take root in certain fields and make achievements and contributions.

4 Inner emotions and feelings are richer and more delicate. It is easier to experience and feel the inner thoughts of others, and to develop empathy and understanding.

Analysis: Introversion is neither scary nor shameful. A lot of good people are also introverts.

Introversion is just one of many personality traits, not all of you, and can't hide the rest of your aura. Everyone has so many shortcomings (and introversion is not a disadvantage), but to achieve success, it is enough to bring out the best in the world.

Social skills can be learned and cultivated, and they are not necessarily related to introversion and extroversion.

Attitude: Grow and gain in solitude, and enjoy yourself.

Allow yourself to be introverted.

While accepting yourself as an introvert, you gradually adapt to your interactions with others and increase the topics of communication.

Don't be afraid to owe favors. Don't be afraid to trouble others and feel that you can't get away. People are built up because of each other's troubles.

If you can't find a topic to talk to, then you can also be silent and smile. Even if you don't speak, it's enough to listen. Sometimes being a quiet listener can be reassuring and comfortable for the person who is talking.

Method: Learn more and learn about some knowledge, hot topics, and jokes to prepare for communicating with people.

Participate in group-type sports hobbies. In extroverted interest interactions, a person's social skills will slowly improve.

Participate in social activities, learn about social networking (see Getting along with others for details), and take the initiative to meet new people.

Try to cultivate a warm and sincere attitude and take the initiative to greet people, which will forget and ease your introversion in interpersonal interactions.

Pay attention to other people's world and focus less on yourself.

Get in touch with people with cheerful personalities.

Do sales, participate in debates, etc., and speak actively.

Children's education: 1. Actively encourage children to take the initiative to speak, communicate with children more often, and encourage and guide children to communicate with other children.

2 Encourage your child to try and not be afraid to fail.

3. Nurture your child's interests and hobbies, and encourage your child to take the initiative to participate in social activities.

4. Create a harmonious family atmosphere so that introverted children are more willing to express themselves.

5. Exercise your child's independence. Communicate more with the outside world, and parents create more conditions for children to accomplish something independently. Like buying something.

6 After the epidemic is over, take your children to visit relatives and friends, and socialize with children in the community.

1. Increase self-confidence: to make yourself not introverted, you must have confidence in yourself, many people are introverted because they are afraid to communicate with others, dare not have eye contact, subconsciously afraid of interacting with others, increase self-confidence can make themselves hold their heads high.

2. Learn more about the current hot topics: Introverts rarely chat, partly because they don't want to chat, and partly because they don't know what to talk about, so it is very important to know the current hot topics, such as celebrities, such as variety shows, etc., you can learn more.

3. Meet more friends: Introverts want to become extroverted, expanding the social circle is very important, through various ways to meet more friends, classmates, work colleagues, social software, etc., now this society is very convenient to meet new friends.

4. Participate in gatherings among friends: It's not enough to meet friends, but also to gather with friends more, meet more friends, whether there are fewer people or more people, exercise your social skills, and you will find that you are becoming more and more outgoing.

If a girl is too introverted, here are some ways to help her become more open and social:

1.Self-acceptance and a positive mindset: First of all, it is important to accept yourself and have a positive attitude towards your personality traits. Realize that being introverted is not a drawback, but a unique personality trait.

2.Progressive socialization: Start with small, low-pressure socialization and gradually expand your social circle. It's okay to meet up with one or two close friends, participate in small group activities or interest groups, and slowly increase your interaction with others.

3.Learn social skills: Learning communication skills and social skills can help her communicate with others more confidently and comfortably. This may include skills such as body language, active listening, establishing eye contact, and bridging to express one's opinion.

4.Set goals and challenge yourself: Set small goals and gradually push your comfort zone. For example, try to talk to strangers every day, attend public speaking, or host events. Challenging yourself gradually builds self-confidence and overcomes introversion.

5.Seek support: Share your feelings with close friends or family members and seek their support. If introversion is significantly interfering with her daily life or well-being, she may need to consider seeking professional counselling for more in-depth support and guidance.

The bottom line is that everyone's personality is unique, and introversion is not a problem. It is of utmost importance to respect and accept your own personality traits and find your own comfortable way to interact with others.