What to do if you are introverted What to do with introverted children

Engage with the outside world. Do what you haven't tried. For example, when you take the train, don't be a sleeper, make a seat, and try to talk to all kinds of people. Read more books and be good at talking, and it is best to do sales and forge a superfluous person communication.

Find a job where you can meet a lot of people, and learn to communicate with people through constant interpersonal interactions. Read more books about life philosophy, books can make people confident. Learn to recognize your own value and live independently.

The character is basically stereotyped in adulthood, in fact, there is no need to change it, the only thing you can do is to make more friends and communicate with multiple people, so that your mood will be better, don't think so much, contented people are always happy!!

Try to greet strangers, such as working as a temporary waiter in a restaurant, handing out flyers, you can earn some extra money and train yourself.

When I first changed the environment, I was also very introverted, I was afraid of everything, and I felt uncomfortable for a long time to speak on stage, and I wanted to hide from anyone, but I knew that a senior Gao told me that people must learn to be shameless. After that, I was much better, hehe, now, I send you this sentence!

ps: Introversion is not a shortcoming, it's just a person's personality and characteristics, dear, there's no need to dwell on it! Good luck socializing!

Don't force yourself to change, introverts naturally have their own beauty, keep your most natural, there must be someone to appreciate and be confident.

It's easy to do, ah, to do what you don't like.

Many introverts are due to the harsh educational environment in the early days, which leaves a shadow when the mind is not mature enough, causing him to be wary of the people and environment around him, in a defensive state, and unwilling to come out. The most important thing is a lack of confidence, it is recommended to encourage the child more when doing something, less blame, as long as it is not a mistake in principle, you may wish to encourage him more, establish her self-confidence, and at the same time respect the child's self-worth, to have more expectations for her, there is no such saying, if you want your wife to be an angel then gradually she will become an angel, this leather Marion effect is very effective.

As the so-called 3-year-old is set at 80, now that he is 6 years old, he can't change it!

It's nothing, as you get older, it's naturally good, go out to exercise more, contact more people, it's natural, it's more and more cheerful, really, it's a natural thing, and the number of friends is not mainly because of personality, it's the ability to interact with people, and where you attract others, there are many personalities that are not extroverted, but there are many friends, on the contrary, extroverted people don't necessarily have more friends, try to improve yourself, attract people, and naturally have more friends.

It's not that introverts can't make friends Let's put it this way, I was a very introverted girl in junior high school and high school, I don't like to communicate with people I don't know very well, and I don't have many friends, but I changed after I went to college, because there are a lot of college activities, and there are many opportunities to show myself, I participate in the student union, or the class committee, and after two years, my personality has changed, and I can't say how cheerful I am, but I have learned that introverted girls are easy to show their intellectual beauty.

Don't get too much into yourself, or change yourself ... Be more accommodating to others. If you don't talk less, you won't offend people... Usually too generous. Talk to everyone more.

Big deal can have a dual personality.

As long as it's not lonely on the inside, because people who are lively on the outside are usually empty on the inside.

Being yourself is important to have peace of mind.

I'm just going to go to the rivers and lakes and live in a different environment I'm a standard otaku But it's like a different person on the construction site Talking nonsense everywhere hehe.

It's a bit difficult, but you can customize the schedule.

I'm an introvert, but I have so many friends.

I can talk nonsense with people - but I don't have any friends =- =

Not too much, not too little.

Nothing will come to me anyway.

Make more outgoing friends! Participate in social games and interact with people your friends know! Even if you watch them play from the side, listen to their karaoke, and do more things for the girls you like! Even if it's insignificant, it will change slowly!

There are two kinds of introversion, one is not confident, feeling inferior to others, the second is congenital, according to your description you seem to belong to the latter, first of all, fantasy is useless, to practice, what speech to participate in the class, this is the most effective for exercising courage, go and take your first step.

Try to talk to people more Actually, the point is up to the point, it's better for boys to talk less, not to say nothing, but to say when it's time to say it, it's good to take it slowly, you don't have to deliberately go, it's okay to be older, the environment will change you a lot.

In fact, it is not as serious as consulting a psychologist.

Personally, I think it's you who are always worried, scared, and then you don't say it, and the more you don't say it, the more afraid you are to talk to people.

That's not right, and you think about it, and when you're standing on the podium and talking, there's something to be afraid of, and you don't think there's anything wrong with someone standing on it.

The main thing is to say what you need to say when you need to, and if you don't know what to say, just say what you want to say.

Now social communication is very important, and some people may not have a lot of ability, but their mouths will say, "It's still very good."

So now that you're aware of this problem, you have to pay attention to it and change it slowly.

There are actually a lot of people like you, you can consult a psychiatrist, what do you think?

Then try to change and make more cheerful friends!!

Then try to create yourself!

If that's the case, then you're someone they can trust. Although you are introverted, you are steady and reliable. Being a friend is not necessarily a good talk, sincerity and reliability are the most important.

It is difficult to change your personality, but you can use your acquaintances to broaden your mind, read more documentary and collectible books to increase your knowledge, and of course, learn some popular words so that you do not fall behind. When you accumulate a certain amount of experience, your personality will naturally mature and transform.

Since you have a lot of friends, you don't need to change your personality.

As long as you treat people with sincerity, you can make a lot of friends, and it has nothing to do with personality. If you want to be lively, try to participate in group activities as much as possible.

It's good to have a lot of friends, I'm afraid that introversion is not a disadvantage, there is no need to deliberately change, it's good to be a real person.

You can talk to as many people as you can, and that's how I used to be

Even if you don't want to, force yourself to do it

And then it's going to get better

I'm also an introvert, it doesn't matter if my personality is good or bad, as for how to interact with people, it can be obtained through study and exercise, you can read books on this.

Actually, when you talk to one person, there's no difference between talking to ten people.