Conversation between mother and daughter, mother talking to daughter

You're a mom with ideas, and your daughter is a child with ideas, and it's good that you discuss it together.

The various ideas that come up to the child also have her own ideological basis, and parents can guide them, but don't easily replace her ideas with their own ideas. As for writing, there are different requirements for children of different ages, and it would be good for your child's essay to be able to write smoothly.

These ideas are not bad, let the child write according to her ideas, and when it is written, you can discuss the composition itself, as for whether all the essays should have deep meaning, this is not necessarily. In fact, the reason why a day can be "remembered" is not necessarily because of profound educational thoughts, but because it is infected by beauty and shaken by accidents. Of course, it all makes sense.

Summary. 1. Be friends with your daughter. Talk to your daughter from a friend's point of view, instead of being arrogant, raising your ears, lowering the shelf, caring about your daughter's warmth and well-being, paying attention to the occasion when communicating, and trying to choose a private place.

When communicating, you should pay attention to your speaking skills, pay attention to your daughter's emotional changes, try not to mention some sensitive topics, speak softly, and be reasonable. 2. Listen more and talk less, and then talk after listening. There are often situations where the child is not finished speaking, and the parents are eager to express their opinions, and the impression given to the daughter becomes "She doesn't listen to me anyway, what else do I say?"

In this way, it is difficult to communicate again. Adolescent children are so impulsive, sometimes daughters will say some harsh or even sad things to their mothers, in fact, she will regret it later, and her mother has also heard her say "I couldn't control myself at that time", and mothers should understand.

How mothers communicate effectively with their daughters.

1. Be friends with your daughter. Talk to your daughter from a friend's point of view, instead of being arrogant, raising your ears, lowering the shelf, caring about your daughter's warmth and well-being, paying attention to the occasion when communicating, and trying to choose a private place. When communicating, you should pay attention to your speaking skills, pay attention to your daughter's emotional changes, try not to mention some sensitive topics, speak softly, and be reasonable.

2. Listen more and talk less, and then talk after listening. There are often situations where the child is not finished speaking, and the parents are eager to express their opinions, and the impression given to the daughter becomes "She doesn't listen to me anyway, what else do I say?" In this way, it is difficult to communicate again.

Adolescent children are so impulsive, sometimes daughters will say some harsh or even sad things to their mothers, in fact, she will regret it later, and her mother has also heard her say "I couldn't control myself at that time", and mothers should understand.

3. Listen more. Listen in good faith Whether parents communicate sincerely, and whether they can be good at thinking from the child's perspective and expressing it effectively, not only including understanding the child's situation and state of mind, but also maintaining the child's self-esteem, strengthening the child's self-confidence, and then asking the child to express his true feelings. During the listening period, both parties should look at each other, listen to each other, and look attentive.

Don't look left and right, but care about your daughter's thoughts. 4. Praise more, criticize less. Parents must praise their children as much as possible when communicating with them.

Girls may be more psychologically fragile than boys. If the parents often criticize their daughter, over time, the daughter will naturally be reluctant to communicate with the parents because the daughter is afraid that she will be scolded.

When my daughter communicates, we must first adjust our mentality and give ourselves a psychological hint: I have such a good child, we have to grow up together and face problems together.

If a mother wants to communicate effectively with her daughter, she must think about the problem from her daughter's standpoint, start from his vital interests, correctly analyze the essence of the problem, and at the same time, transmit positive energy to her daughter in daily life.

Communication starts with companionship, knowing what the child likes and dislikes, what he is doing now? What can't be done? Only by understanding all aspects of children's life, all aspects of learning, and all aspects of work when they are older, and understanding, we are adults and caring, children will experience it.

Let's see what my daughter thinks.

Dear, your problem will be solved by me for you, dear, 1, I hope you can arrange your study time in a planned way, so that you can be self-disciplined, self-confident, self-improvement, Mom and Dad are your eternal support! 2. I see the rain falling in the spring, I see the leaves falling in the fall, and I see the snow drifting lightly in the winter. May this rain nourish you, and may this fallen leaf carry you, landing in this world with a pure heart as pure as snow.

Kid, I'm going to see you this summer. 3. I bought a six-in-a-lottery for twenty-six years, and I was still poor and white, and I didn't even win the third prize, which proves that people have to be developed, and they still have to work hard, and there is no free lunch in the world. 4. Happy birthday, girl.

Every year you get older, Daddy gets a year older. However, the heart is happy. You have taught me the wonder and greatness of life.

5. The world's major events must be done in detail. Be serious and single-minded, and you will succeed. 6. You study well, your mother is happy, but your mother wants you to be a good child with all-round development of morality, intellect and body, not to study well is a useful person to the country, high IQ and emotional intelligence, society is complex, interpersonal relationships are also very important, a person will have more people like it, communicate with your classmates more, go out with your friends more, don't always be alone at home and don't go out, although the house girl will not get into trouble, but everyone likes to be a cheerful girl.

7. I want to say to the child that the mother is going to let go and spread her wings!

Mom, why do our silkworm babies shed their skin again and again? Doesn't it hurt?

Child, it sheds its skin again and again, in order to grow up day by day! Growth is made of pain!

Do I have to peel my skin again and again to grow up, Mom.

Child, when you have experienced countless setbacks and failures, pain and wandering, you have grown up. Lu Qinglu.

Mom. The little bird in the cage of the fat girl's house opposite the door starved to death. But there is a lot of millet in the cage, and there is cool water, how can the bird still starve to death, mother?

That's because the bird has lost its freedom, child!

Mom, if people lose their freedom, will they also die?

Children, not everyone is like a bird, who regards freedom as life!

Mom, I picked a bunch of grapes, I ate one, bitter bitter. Why isn't it sweet, Mom.

Because the grapes are not ripe yet, son.

When will I know if it's cooked, Mom.

Child, after you've tasted all the bitterness!

Mom, why does a ship in the sea break the waves and not sink?

That's because there's a sail on the boat, kid!

Mom, I have sails on my little wooden boat, but it still sinks, why?

Child, when you raise the sail in your heart, your boat will not sink in the ocean of life.

Mom, how can there be a sail in your heart?

Child, when your ideal grows wings, your heart grows sails!

Mom, what is the ideal?

Child, I can't make you understand now, but when you grow up and read a lot of books, you will gradually understand ...

Dad once told you, girl, you have grown up, some truths must learn to listen, and understand, the girl's father saw that you are not working the attitude towards learning is very anxious, Dad told you how I lived when I was a child, my childhood and you like to play, I think it is really good to play, how troublesome it is to learn, so I am greedy for fun, not interested in learning, at that time I did not understand the importance of learning, sensible late, so I was not admitted to college, your grandparents Xiaoqing did not know how to educate us, only thought, as long as we do not bother us to affect us to play mahjong, If you want money, you will give us and send us to live in your grandfather's house, and then they divorced and they separated. No one cares about us and educates us, Dad and your aunt are like your grandfather asking for money, if you want money, you will give it, we will buy instant noodles when you get the money, and grow up in a restaurant, I will take the money to go to the game hall and the Internet café to play, until Dad grows up, gets married and gives birth to you, I don't realize what life is, I am greedy for fun after reading for my dad when I am young, and my parents have encountered a lot of ups and downs and disaster setbacks in life, and then my dad understands that reading is cultured, how important it is, Dad doesn't want you to grow up and have the same road as me, Now you see that your father is making money alone in the field, and you and your mother are at home, how uncomfortable this separation is! If Dad had told me this truth when he was a child, Mom and Dad wouldn't have lived so tired and so hard today, how good it is for the three of us to be together, Dad only understood after experiencing setbacks!

Girl, you can't take a detour, Mom and Dad are trying to create superior conditions for you, Girl, don't complain that your mother doesn't buy you what you want, it's not that Mom is reluctant but the conditions don't allow, Mom in order to save, Girl, you are now on for three years, as long as you are working hard for 10 years, you will get a good life for 20, 30 years or even half a lifetime in the future, happy days! Girl, do you still choose to play for 10 years now, in exchange for 20 years and 30 years of hardship, or even a lifetime of poverty? Which one do you want to choose, my daughter is crying!

I'm going to suffer for 10 years! Dad said: Now start to show your attitude, hello, Dad feels that happiness is worth it, if you don't work hard, everything Dad does feels boring!

At this time, the daughter kept crying, and the daughter said: Dad, I will work hard in the future, and I will show an attitude. Good!

Some people say that a life of hard work is a hard life, and a life of not working hard is a hard life. The Northern Song Dynasty poet Lin Kui said: If you are not diligent, you will be hard; The young can serve the old, and the old is more comfortable than the old.

Conversation after dinner, 12-11

Daughter: Mom, is it the child that is important or the flower you like is important and the spike is high.

Mom: Children matter.

Mom: Why do you keep asking mom these kinds of questions?

Daughter: Because I'm worried that you prefer other babies.

Daughter: Is it the child or the husband who is important?

Mother: My husband is important.

Daughter: What? Children are also very important, even more important.

Mother: If you don't have a husband, you won't have children, your husband will always be with me, and the children will grow up, and they will have their husbands.

Daughter: You hugged a little brother last time (in front of a big sound), huh? Why are you holding him? Hum.

Mom: Who do I sleep with each night? Who does the meal cook every day? Who do you guess to play with every day? Who picks up and drops off from school each day? Who to comb beautiful braids? (also loudly).

Daughter: Uh......Stay with me (whispering).

Daughter: But ......But ......You still have other children.

Mother: You also hug other adults, you have a sweet grandma, you have a hug for your Teacher Luo, Teacher Chen, and Aunt Yan Hong, Aunt Jin Yan, why don't I get angry, because I know that although you hug other people, you still love your mother, just like your mother occasionally hugs other children, and at the same time loves you (hug your daughter into her arms and give her favorite mother's arms).