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If I'm going to have this problem, if that's the case. Since it's the mother-in-law who is always asking her granddaughter where did your money come from, in my opinion, the problem is here, maybe the granddaughter doesn't earn much, and suddenly there is a lot of money one day. So in the mother-in-law's heart, she wondered where the money came from, and she might be a little worried about her granddaughter for the money.
So the mother-in-law had no choice but to ask her granddaughter about the origin of the money. So as a granddaughter, for the sake of her mother-in-law, don't worry about herself, she can only be like this, this is the payment of work, the commission of salary, and the remuneration she has, only in this way can her mother-in-law be completely unwary of herself, and she will be relieved.
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The mother-in-law should be older, and when she is older, she will be verbose. Where did the money come from for the granddaughter? Isn't this a lot of money?
The mother-in-law was more worried, afraid that her granddaughter would fail to learn. Generally speaking, don't think badly of your mother-in-law. Mother-in-law loves her granddaughter, that's for sure.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been sensitive since ancient times. Therefore, attention should be paid to the maintenance of this relationship.
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Hello! You are married for the second time, and the girl was brought by you, so it is possible that you are prone to think too much about what you encounter. Your mother-in-law may not be what you think.
The child is still young, and the child has money in his hands, so it is okay for grandma to ask. If your main girl is the one you had with your current husband, maybe you won't think too much about it.
It's hard for you to take care of your children, but take care of yourself, feel comfortable, and live every day happily.
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Hello! Don't think about it all, just ask your mother-in-law, her son marries you as a wife, and it is natural to use his money, and it is harder to take care of children than work! You may think that your daughter said that her father earned it, and her daughter has a sweet mouth, and her grandmother and grandmother are closer, and her mother-in-law will not think about it when she sees so many things about her child.
There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south!
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The mother-in-law wanted to know where her granddaughter's financial background came from, so he often asked her granddaughter like this to see if he would tell him.
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She probably meant this, thinking that she was not her own granddaughter, and she felt a little wronged for her son by spending money. Let's talk to your husband! If you don't like it, don't accept it, and if you accept it, you have to treat everyone equally.
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Grandma asked her granddaughter, where did you get that money? That's right, one is to educate her that money is not easy to come by, and she should be thrifty. The second is to educate her, study hard, and be worthy of the people who give you money for your schooling!
It's about starting little by little. If you have this kind of thinking, you just want to go wrong. It's about educating your children.
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I think if the mother-in-law always asks her granddaughter, where did you get your money? He must be suspicious of you, because you are a second marriage. He's kind of distrustful of you.
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So how to say it, you can tell him explicitly, or you can refuse to tell him, depending on the relationship between you.
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My mother-in-law always asks my granddaughter, where is your money? This is not to say that her mother-in-law has to ask for the child's money, but is afraid that the child will lose the money, you should understand it this way.
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Maybe your mother-in-law wants to know how your husband treats your daughter, and whether she treats her badly because she is not biological.
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In fact, this situation is very normal, he is worried that his child has embarked on the wrong path, so this is her concern for the child.
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Maybe, now that girls take care of the family, they have no income, so if they can't do it, let their mother-in-law take care of the children and go out to work by themselves
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It could be that he was curious, you have so much money from **, you tell him on the line.
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The mother-in-law is a little too much, so she doesn't have to take it to heart.
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The mother-in-law always asks her granddaughter, where did you get your money, you can tell him directly, where did it come from.
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This issue needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. First of all, in response to the problem that the mother-in-law always says that she will give the money to her granddaughter and not to her daughter-in-law when she is old, we need to understand the mother-in-law's thoughts and intentions. It may be out of love and love for her granddaughter, or dissatisfaction or distrust of her own son, which causes the mother-in-law to have this idea.
Therefore, we can try to solve the problem from the following aspects:
Communicate with your mother-in-law: First of all, you can communicate with your mother-in-law, understand her thoughts and intentions, and try to find a solution to the problem. You can patiently listen to her opinions and suggestions and explain your thoughts and difficulties to her.
If needed, you can seek help from a family member to get back on the wheel.
Respect the mother-in-law's decision: If the mother-in-law insists on giving the money to her granddaughter and not to her daughter-in-law, we can respect the mother-in-law's decision. After all, everyone has different ideas and values, and we need to respect and understand each other's ideas and try to avoid family conflicts.
Seek other solutions: If your mother-in-law's decision has caused substantial hardship for her, consider seeking other solutions. For example, you can try to help yourself and your son with your mother-in-law's financial income and savings, or seek help and support from other family members.
Ultimately, solving this problem requires mutual understanding and respect between family members, as well as reasonable communication and solutions.
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Do you send money to your parents-in-law, they will fight if they need it. Just: Mom and Dad, you haven't encountered anything, how much money is needed, I will arrange to call.
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If you need it, just say "hit some money"!
If you can stand on your own and earn money on your own, try not to use the money of your elders.
If it's for other purposes, then reply "as much as you want".
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Mother-in-law may think that you need money, if you need it, you can ask your mother-in-law to call some and tell her that she will pay back the money in the future.
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Then you see.
If you have a good relationship with your mother-in-law at home it is not easy.
Then let's do it, after all, it is also a filial piety.
So let's do it.
You just ask her how much money she needs.
You come back and call it, it's nothing.
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I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:
1. A point of silver and humility, family members should not be on the tip of everything to Mai Mang, give each other more opportunities to say, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, family affection is priceless.
2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.
3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for noisy families, and think less for yourself.
4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which intensifies the spearhead and the shield.
5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.
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This may be to let her granddaughter learn like her mother, and become a strong woman when she grows up.
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It shows that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is quite good, and the mother-in-law approves of your mother.
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When you use the money, of course the mother-in-law has to ask because the mother-in-law is relatively old He is in charge of the house, he will pass the firewood, rice, oil and salt He has to buy it, which is not easy to make money So he is in charge of the house to control the power, so what do you need to buy My relatives want to say hello to him I think it is useful and will give you money to buy it I think there is no use for it, you don't need to buy it, so save some flowers, and when you need to use the money, you can take it out, don't worry when you don't have money How embarrassing it should be So you have to report to your mother-in-law with every money Mother-in-law will approve it for you, so I have to ask him every time, or for your good kiss, for the sake of life, and for the sake of being happier.
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