My classmate of three years robbed me of my boyfriend, how should I treat her?

Updated on society 2024-06-23
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Actually, I don't think it's anything, if it's really good friends, you should trust each other. Needlessly hurt the feelings between friends for a man. I don't think it's worth it. (Hehe, personal opinion.) I value friendship more than love).

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now that you've broken up, what about someone chasing him?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since he is friendly with her, it means that his love for you is not strong enough, and since his love is not strong, why should he stay, just give him to others!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Unrighteous guys! Break up!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Such a man is not worthy of your love in the first place!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe: Normal.

    If you don't speak, you don't speak.

    We have a lot of things like this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If my classmate's wife wants to be nice to me, I'll do it secretly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You bear with it. Even if you are anxious with her, what good will you have?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Such a girlfriend is not better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Have you ever watched the movie starring Gigi Leung and Zhu Kaotian called "Love Leads the Line"?

    After reading it, you have a thought.

    There are so many such things.

    Time can dilute everything, respect the facts.

    In a few years, there will be results. Time tells.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Forget it, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

    Say goodbye to your friends. Save yourself from seeing you upset.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Some people you don't want, of course others can, if you think so, it's fine, you have already broken up with others, there is no need to take care of other people's affairs.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Dizzy, you're all separated, people and him are okay, what's the matter with you?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since the company's regulations don't allow patting, wouldn't it be good for you to collect her evidence and make her entanglement of your boyfriend public, so that the whole company knows that she is pestering a male colleague to pat, even if she shakes out your affairs, without evidence, who will believe it? She should be the one who was expelled! You don't need to scold her openly, it's enough to let the boss scold her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I also don't think you should come forward with this kind of thing.

    Since it's your boyfriend's business, it's up to him to solve it.

    If a man can't even solve such a little thing and makes his girlfriend sad, it's really his deserved!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I advise you not to cry, make trouble, and hang yourself! I believe that your boyfriend is in the same mood as you, and the two of you will find a suitable time to talk! I wish you happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Persuade you, she can't snatch it away if it's yours, instead of thinking about how to torture that vixen, it's better to focus on how to treat your boyfriend better. That small role is simply not enough to see, and it is not wise to fight wits and courage with her. Even if she is defeated by you, there will be no next one?

    Sister, don't reverse the priorities, I wish you happiness

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My friend also encountered such a situation, and in the end, her boyfriend called ** and said"If you scold again, I'll call the police", but given that you can't make your relationship public, it's really not easy to do. I'm also in a mess. It's all about your boyfriend.

    And if you three can survive to the end, maybe in a few years, you hold on, and she has moved on to other continents. Ha ha.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    On the one hand, look at your boyfriend, on the other hand, unite the public, unite your relatives and friends, and it is best to work with your boyfriend's relatives and friends to unite with the outside world, I support you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is sexual harassment, you can go to the legal agency for help, if it really doesn't work, you can sue her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Just make it public that you are his wife.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Girl, in fact, she is also a woman, I feel sorry for you, but I don't sympathize with you because it's infuriating! First of all, women should be self-reliant, they have a stable job to support themselves without anyone, they can live without him, and they can't give up your good job because of him! Why let him hold it, because of him, you quit your job, hey!

    It's sad! I'm not in favor of online dating, yes! People know each other through various ways, nothing remarkable!

    From the beginning, you were sure that he loved you and was right for you? You're too sloppy! Then make a hasty decision all, people are really complicated, understanding needs a process, you can go through some small details, to know whether this person loves you or not, whether it is suitable for a lifetime, a lifetime is so long...

    One year is online communication, the second year is to meet his parents in the middle, yes to meet, how much do you know about his reality? You're just talking to him online, if you get it in real life, things won't be chatting, a little bit of things can show the essence of a person, you can't see it, but blindly follow it! Tell you--- just be yourself!

    There's nothing to change for others, you're you! Why change? Although it is a very stubborn statement, then let me ask you, you didn't change when you first met, and when you were still you, didn't he like it too!

    If he really loves you, he should love you all, and, although it is your old woman, you respect, filial piety, there is nothing wrong with it, when something happens, talk to them, let's sit down and talk! No big deal! If she is wrong, she is wrong, they are all people, if there is a mistake, change it, don't make noise, don't make trouble, then you have to study to see if it is suitable to live with the old woman, and your boyfriend, is definitely an unassertive guy, you look at it!

    A man who doesn't grow up! It's not promising, it's okay to divide it, even if you get married, I guess you can't be in the world with him, don't mind what I say, but it's all the truth, don't believe you think about it yourself, taste it slowly, don't be sad, don't be sad, and don't belittle yourself for anyone! There's no need, people are like this for a lifetime, it's not easy to be a woman!

    Why don't you be kind to yourself, this time the frustration, that is to say, your one has not yet appeared, you wait slowly! There will be the person who loves you and knows you, you are not yourself, you still have parents and friends who love you! Don't be too demanding, the more you are is yours!

    Remember!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To tell you the truth, such a man is a bastard, he has no principles in doing things, he has no backbone, there is nothing wrong with being filial to his parents, what is wrong is that the person you are looking for will not know how to deal with things, and he will not know how to love It is recommended that you talk about it Otherwise, this man will be angry with you sooner or later.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Strong, think about it yourself and see if it's worth loving? Sometimes letting go is a relief for yourself

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Women living in this world must have a job of their own, even if the salary is not high, it doesn't matter. Being at work will allow you to constantly know yourself and improve yourself. Before loving others, you must first learn to love yourself, and only those who know how to love themselves can know what the other person needs.

    A person like him is not worthy of your love, even if you are reluctant to be together in the future, sooner or later you will still separate, because you have left him with the feeling that you just have a crush on his house, because of your own lack of self-confidence, you have to add your name to the real estate certificate, so as to give them the feeling of family, as if you are just greedy for his house, it is recommended that you don't look back, work hard, make yourself confident, become excellent, become regretful, and then find someone who really loves you to marry. Also, you must learn to respect your elders, yell at your parents at the beginning, and you should add your name when you get married. If you want to take a different position, other people's parents have worked hard for decades, and finally bought a house, and yelled at her before marrying a daughter-in-law, if it was you, would you be relieved to hand over your son to her?

    Respect for elders, no matter what, should be. Maybe you're posting this just to gain sympathy for it, or to put yourself in your shoes and don't want to hear these objections. To know:

    The bystander is clear, only if he fully understands himself, he will not fall in the same position in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Back to real life, live well, live beautifully.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Live your own life alone is still wonderful Live your own wonderful life Let him regret it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You go home first, don't pick him up**, don't reply to his text messages.

    Look at his reaction, if he really cares about you, he will come to you personally If you still feel it, try to get along for a while, if it doesn't work, just break up.

    The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most irritable, and there is a serious generation gap. . .

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Women, such a man is still worth your struggle? Leaving that place, you won't be overwhelmed, it's a matter of time. Don't be humble and try to keep someone, it's very brittle to keep back. If the family relationship is not good, there will never be peace and happiness.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    yes, that's your wrong friend.

    I've had problems like yours before.

    Haha, I care about my good friend very much, but in the end I broke up with her.

    I also cherish it and am very good, and she is good to me.

    Not as serious as you, grab it once.

    To tell the truth, people, you have to be able to choose friends.

    I haven't heard of it, I really have to break off my friendship to know how to recognize people with my eyes.

    I say bless them, I cry, I only cry for one day, I don't like to show people how weak I am.

    I didn't praise myself, and in the end the man came back to me, and I really didn't bother to look at it. I digress, you were good to her, you paid, and she didn't feel ashamed.

    It is very serious for a person not to have a sense of shame, no matter how good she is to you.

    I don't have as many friends as you have. )

    Break up, even if you are wrong in the end, she is still wrong.

    Such a friend, you don't know for a certain moment, such a person is still quite dangerous.

    She didn't know how bad what she was doing.

    Take advantage of this 'quarrel' fuse and break off friendship.

    You're good to her, she won't know. (Shame doesn't know, and the same gratitude doesn't know much.) It's uncomfortable, but it's better than if you're poisoned.

    I also thought about it for a long time back then, and many people persuaded me to break up my friendship at that time. Ah, she's going to take me badly. However, after more than a year, everyone has reconciled, but I will not become good friends with her, let's just be an ordinary friend. )

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Is the boyfriend snatched away by someone else who wants to? It's just that the boyfriend you make is unreliable and disrespectful to you, so you have to keep your eyes open when you have a boyfriend in the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This is your own problem, there are some unspoken rules in interpersonal interactions, and you yourself do not respect them.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is never a perfect answer to the question of relationship, and this is also a test of love between you, and you should be glad that she helped you confirm how deep your relationship with him is before you marry him. So, whether it's a good friend or not, I want to open a point.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In this way, if you really care about her, you can find a boyfriend by yourself, he has it, and he can't rob you anymore. If you don't accept it, you're robbing it, after all, you're not a vegetarian. Oh, believe in yourself, there's nothing you can't accomplish, good luck.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I'll clean her up for you, and you write out her phone.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Forget about her, such a person is not suitable to be friends.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Talk to your boyfriend and let him respect you and take your love seriously!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Tell your boyfriend to kick them away after he's done them. Or just kick your boyfriend hard. I wish you all the best.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You should sit down with your boyfriend and have a good talk, as long as he loves you, I believe it will be fine, and the focus is on communication. And you girls' heart disease is suspicious, and finally I wish you good luck. Come on. o(∩_o

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    1.It doesn't mean that if you are already his person, you will be his person for the rest of your life, and you can still leave if you get married.

    2.He is to the extent of you, does he have any plans to marry you, if not, if it's just for fun, let's separate.

    3.Think about why it's bad for you, whether you've changed, or he's changed.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    First of all, you have to know if your boyfriend really doesn't love you anymore, man, sometimes you should be very worried about career things, and it's understandable to lose your temper if it's really as you think...

    Then let it go.

    Sometimes, if you don't let go of those who should let go, you will be hurt even more!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Marriage is a lifelong thing, and there is still a chance to choose now, and if you regret it after you really get married, it will be too late. Since he treats you with a change of heart, you have to take a good look at it, if you can't leave, you can only get more unfair treatment if you wronged yourself, and you will suffer in the end. Given to him?

    You don't have to use this to restrain yourself.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Are you sure that you have changed, or has he changed, will it be because you care more and more about him because you give him and keep doubting him, love will fade, it will become family affection after a long time, leaving is a choice, as for worrying about it is completely unnecessary, it is better not to marry than to marry and leave, right.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Men are like that, and if he's really like you're talking about, I don't think there's much point in you being with him. and those who were given to him will not be returned. Don't be afraid, there are still good men, like I used to think that if I let go of the one, I can't find someone who is good to me, and now my husband is very good to me.

    I wish you happiness.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Since he is not good to you, even if you get married in the future, you will not be happy in life, leave as soon as possible, everyone will have to pay for what they have done, whether good or bad.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If he proposes marriage like you, if you still like him, then all your scruples are superfluous, take it quickly.

    If, on the other hand, it proves that there is some potential conflict between you, then you must give up.

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