What should I do if I don t get along well with my boyfriend s friend?

Hehe, isn't he also interesting to you (sorry for the blind guessing).

Depending on what you say, sometimes people have a first feeling or a certain feeling, or they have a kind of separation from each other. However, a lot of things are communicated too much, and it should be possible to solve them. Living together is really a matter of mutual relationship.

Take care of each other and take care of each other. Speaking of the entry point, it is a family, if you don't like or like or what is not good, you can talk to each other, and it's good to talk about it. I hope that both of you are not too sensitive people, and if you are too sensitive, it is easy to have a bigger separation if you don't talk well.

See if your friend is a self-motivated person, if so, I think he is also kind to you for asking you to study (of course, he has a good impression of you. Don't be angry when I say that, because I don't know the actual situation either).If it's the kind that isn't self-motivated, I suggest that you ignore him in the future, it's no good.

To you, to your boyfriend.

Maybe it's because of the personality difference!

You can try to ignore him, cold him for a while, and guess he will feel bored and will stop bothering you.

I wish you a speedy way out of this gloom.

Why, I feel like he likes you!!

y is idle.

Just ignore him.

So there is a lack of security about the part of the heart.

When getting along with friends, you can be more rational to show what you want to show; And in love, you may unconsciously regress to the depths of your heart, like a child.

In other words, I can usually hide my inner anxiety and sensitivity and suspicion very well, but when I face my partner and I feel that I can be completely myself in the relationship, the part of my original suppressed anxiety and sensitivity will come out, and I will appear to be very contrived and willful.

And I will be very willful and willful in my relationship, usually because I didn't get enough warmth and love in my growth experience, so I don't have a recognition and affirmation of myself deep in my heart, and it's hard for me to believe that I am worthy of love.

Because I am very uneasy in my heart, I am very insecure, and in the end, I habitually want to test my other half, and I want to get my inner security through the temptation of my other half.

Because you don't expect anything from others. As for your boyfriend, you may unconsciously want him to do something for you, or what kind of attitude you should have, but there is often a certain gap between the truth and what you expect, so you will have a psychological gap and emotions. But in the eyes of your boyfriend, these emotions of yours may be vexatious, so it will be difficult for you to get along well.

In fact, when two people are together, they are mutual, and they should think more about each other's good, rather than always talking about each other's bad, after all, no one is perfect.

The reason why you get along well with others is because you don't have a sense of need for others, not with your boyfriend, which means that you have high expectations for your boyfriend, and you have a certain emotional bond, and you must be different from your friends.

Because a romantic relationship is a more intimate relationship, the more intimate the relationship, the more difficult it is to get along. Because we have been together for a long time, we have more and deeper exchanges, and there are also many collisions of substantive issues, and the other party and ourselves will expose more shortcomings and problems.

Find the cause of the contradiction or conflict, adjust each other, if the other party is the person you are looking for, you love each other, it can be considered compatible, there is no problem of principle, if you want to continue to get along, you must tolerate each other, respect each other, understand each other, communicate more, if you really can't get along, don't want to continue, let go as soon as possible, don't delay each other, and find the right person for yourself.

It can only be said that it may be because you and your boyfriend are at odds in many places, but at the beginning, the two of you fell in love with each other because of some favor in appearance, or a certain advantage, and in the process of dating, there are many places that need to be slowly run-in, if you can't run in, it is likely to be unsuitable.

Romantic relationship is different from other relationships, this belongs to a kind of intimate relationship, two people will be in contact for a longer time, two people's lives will be more intertwined, and getting along with others well proves that you are a sociable person, but the relationship between two people in love needs two people to explore together, together to explore a way of getting along that is very comfortable for two people, remember to see love as a pre-marital experimental stage, not as a simple tool to offset loneliness, if you can never find a comfortable way to get along, then it turns out that it is not very suitable.

If you get along well with other people, it means that there is no problem with your own personality, maybe you and your boyfriend do not have the same personality and have different views. In addition, the boyfriend has a personality problem, and he gets along with other people very ordinarily, so you will often have awkward fights together.

Because there is pressure to be with others, you have to consider the other person's feelings when you speak and do, and the other party will not treat you so much. If your boyfriend is together, there is not so much pressure, and there will be a feeling of being spoiled, and you will feel that everything you show doesn't matter, and some of your boyfriend's behaviors may be disgusted, which will cause conflicts.

In my opinion, if you don't know anything about your friends, it's just a negotiation of some affairs, and if you don't know things about people, your friends will naturally have a good relationship. With the object, you will pay attention to the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, and your own position is more prominent. Always asking and assigning each other, so it won't work.

Get to know yourself well and then treat your boyfriend.

It means that the two of you are not suitable at all.

If you can get along with others and have a lot of conflicts with your boyfriend, it means that your boyfriend doesn't know how to care about you, and a person who really loves you will definitely care about your feelings and thoughts.

In fact, if you get along well with others, you can only say that you are good and one is good, but if you can't get along with your boyfriend, it can only be said that your requirements are too high, so there will be such a problem.

The boundaries of communication are not the same, the former is an outsider, and there should be a polite boundary. The latter is familiar, and after the interaction is deepened, the more events collide with each other, and the operation is more direct. It's normal for 2 people to quarrel and fight. Don't think it's a problem

Why do I get along well with others but not with my boyfriend? That's because the two of you have an opinion for seven days, so you will slowly feel less and less understanding of each other.

Maybe there is some conflict between you and your boyfriend, so this kind of problem will arise, and this is a very important problem.

The most fundamental reason. It's that you are too honest, or too kind-hearted.

I'm good to get along with others, but it's not good with my boyfriend, maybe the tempers of the two of you don't match.

Summary. You talk about a boyfriend, and the friends around you think he is unreliable, whether you accept this statement or not, whether you accept this statement, this is the general impression of your friends around him. And this impression often comes from the practices of his daily life, which shows that he must have done a lot of very excessive things in his life.

You are from a couple's point of view, and you will always give yourself too many reasons to forgive him. But from an outsider's point of view, his judgment is often objective and natural. No one wants to offend people, everyone actually wants you to be happy, and giving such an evaluation shows that this boy is really not good.

You talk about a boyfriend, and the friends around you think he is unreliable, whether you accept this statement or not, whether you accept this statement, this is the general impression of your friends around him. And this impression often comes from the practices of his daily life, which shows that he must have done a lot of very excessive things in his life. You are from a couple's point of view, and you will always give yourself too many reasons to forgive him.

But from an outsider's point of view, his judgment is often objective and natural. No one wants to offend people, everyone actually wants you to be happy, and giving such an evaluation shows that this boy is really not good.

Hopefully, the above will help you.