Is it the right person in the end, can you really tell if you have a meal?

It stands to reason that you should be able to see that you can learn about the person's family, talking and eating habits, and the person's upbringing through eating and talking.

Can't tell. Because you can't get to know everything about a meal after just a short hour or two of getting along, and if you define it like this, it's easy to be one-sided.

No, because the effort of a meal is too short to fully understand the strengths and weaknesses of the other party, it is better to take your time.

It can really be seen that eating with the right people will be particularly comfortable, and eating with the wrong people will only feel particularly awkward.

It can be seen that it is just a meal, because the right people, their tastes are all about the same.

I just read an article discussing that eating can see a person's character. Especially when men and women go on a date for the first time, if a man doesn't pay attention to hygiene, make loud noises, and don't pay after eating, then his character will be very low. The comments that follow are all disapproval of the article.

Eating can indeed see some of a person's qualities, but it is indeed not as simple as described in that article, in fact, through some small details, you can see the other party's living habits and family literacy, and the quality of the character is not very important.

It is not good to be loud, but it also means that the other person's living environment has always been like this, otherwise if you are always in a very quiet environment, you will not always like to be noisy.

At the same time, if the other party doesn't talk much during dinner, but keeps staring at you, it is also an uncomfortable thing, which shows that he and she do not pay much attention to respecting others, and are used to observing others but do not shy away from them.

There are many kinds of people who do not pay attention to the hygiene of meals, if it is too much, it is really unreasonable, but in fact, many people eat informally, which is nothing, if some people eat too finely, and picky eaters, but there will be some cleanliness and personality.

Finally, it doesn't matter who has to pay, but whether it's a man or a woman, if you keep deliberately grinding time to make the other party pay, it's not appropriate, I heard that some people will use this to test each other on the first date, but at the same time, it will also make the other party look down on yourself.

<>Actually, if you want to observe carefully, you can see the appearance after eating a meal. Kiss. Right. The character of the elephant.

1. When you meet for the first time, if the other party sits and waits for you, and when they see you coming, they don't get up to greet you as a sign of politeness, but just sit and nod their heads to you, such a person is either rude or arrogant.

2. If the other party does not add words like "hello, excuse me", but directly says "you are xx", it means that the other party may not know how to respect people.

3. When ordering, pay attention to the order of TA and the waiter's order, whether to say the dish you ordered first or order the dish that is dismantled and rolled by yourself, in this detail, if it is Hengpin who first says the dish you ordered, then this person's personality is relatively careful. At the same time, you can also pay attention to the attitude of the TAs towards the waiter, whether it is relatively gentle and polite, or the tone is impatient.

4. If the other party has been staring at you since he came in, it means that he attaches great importance to appearance; If you are still looking up and down, it means that you are very attached to your figure. Of course, a polite person is not very likely to stare at each other all the time, nor will he frequently make gestures of looking.

5. When you chat with the other party, if the other party's expression has not changed and the question seems more official, either the person's personality is not very good at chatting, or the other party may not be very interested in you, or they are defensive of you and unwilling to disclose it.

6. Passing by a beautiful woman, if he tells Yuyou to stare at it, or even turn his head to look at it because of this, everyone should know what it means.

7. When eating, he constantly criticizes and is very picky about the dishes, which means that either this person has this perfectionist tendency, or the personality itself is more picky. If they can also suggest how to improve the dishes, or how to make them, then it means that they are still good at cooking.

8. When paying, you can observe the attitude of the other party to pay, if you twist and pinch, and make such remarks, it means that this person is relatively stingy and more concerned about money.

In today's society, the pace is getting faster and faster, the competition is becoming more and more fierce, and people are focusing on their own survival, their own entertainment, and there are fewer and fewer circles.

With busy work and trivial life, there is less and less time left for yourself, and it has become a luxury to meet new people. Not to mention, not everyone is worth it when you interact with people.

It is also because of these reasons that there are more and more older single men and women left, and I believe that most people still hope to find a partner and form a family. is like the sentence in Qian Zhongshu's "Siege of the City", "Marriage is a besieged city, the people inside want to get out, and the people outside want to come in."

Therefore, if we want to make friends and find a marriage partner, we must pay sincerely, so we must be cautious, and save a piece of sincerity and pay wrongly.

No matter how much people disguise, there will be flaws, and some habits developed due to personality for decades will be reflected in the details.

So when you first get to know a person, you can more or less see what kind of person this person is when you have a meal together.

Asking for the other person's opinion when ordering food is basic, and if you don't even ask for your opinion, this kind of person has low emotional intelligence and is selfish. Similarly, the dishes you like are placed closer to people, and the ones you don't like are placed in the corners, and you don't care about whether others are good or not, and you have low emotional intelligence and selfishness like this kind of person.

If a person yells at the waiter when he eats, picks and chooses the waiter's service, and dislikes this and that, then he must be a mother in his life, a typical citizen psychology.

If you go to the bathroom before the meal and come back and you find that the fruit and side dishes have been eaten up, it means that this person is not very well educated, does not know what etiquette is, and does not know how to be humble.

If the food you ordered is delayed, even if you wait awkwardly, you will not rush the person. Even if you have shown that you are in a state of impatience, and after you have already taken action, there is still no response. It means that this person must be a careless person and has no color.

He doesn't have to be a lazy person, but he must be a person who "points where to fight", and doesn't have many ideas of his own.

If you meet someone you like and don't like, in fact, it is a kind of thoughtfulness to humility and affection, and similarly, eating something you don't like at all is also a kind of understanding.

If you encounter food that the other party has not eaten, and the way of eating is relatively special, it is a kind of meticulous care that does not burden the other party and does not embarrass the other party.

Although a meal can't see through a person, it is possible to look away, but whether a person is polite, knows how to etiquette, whether he can take care of people, whether he has the heart to take care of people, whether he is an assertive person or not, whether he cares or not, etc., can still be seen to some extent.

I don't believe that whether a husband and wife are compatible or not, from the first meal eaten, it is doomed.

Will respect your tastes.

Everyone grew up in a different environment, so Lu Wang will be very different on many issues. And the wonderful thing about love is that it will make two people with completely different personalities meet, but the difference in personality does not affect whether you are suitable or not.

When we eat the first meal, we will subconsciously observe each other, first of all, whether we will respect our own tastes when ordering. Two people with completely different tastes, depending on whether the other party chooses to compromise for you, or just cares about eating their own. If two people just meet, they don't know how to respect your feelings, and they won't accommodate, will they be more accommodating to you after marriage, I don't see it.

Will take care of your feelings.

When you go out to eat for the first time, if you really care about it, you will definitely confirm with you what you want to eat in advance, and then make a decision, instead of just thinking about the restaurant you want to go to.

Although it is just a meal, in every detail of the dinner table, you can see whether the two people are suitable or not. A person who is really attentive, he will understand what you like in advance, and will find topics that interest you to talk about when eating, even if he will chirp when he eats before, but in front of you, he will try to be restrained, just to take care of your feelings and leave you a good impression.

Whether there is a good enough upbringing.

When we choose the other half, we will not be as superficial as we were at the beginning, and we will only look at each other's faces and figures, family backgrounds. After all, we don't live with his family for a lifetime, and we always have to be independent after marriage, and the most important thing is to see if the other party's upbringing is good enough.

Whether the other party will be punctual when eating, whether he will help you peel off the shrimp intimately, whether he will help you wash the dishes and chopsticks, etc., can all see a person's personal self-shut, if he only cares about himself in what he does, even if the other party is good-looking, even if you like it, it is not appropriate.

A person of good character, he will pay attention to some table manners. For example, if you care about what others think, you know how to be humble instead of taking care of yourself; If you treat the waiter with humility and respect, then his conduct will be good.

OK. If a person has a good character, then his attitude towards the waiter is very polite, he will ask your opinion before ordering, because he will put himself in the other person's point of view and not cause trouble to the other party.

It is indeed possible to see the character of the other party, because there are many details related to the individual's personality when eating

3. Most of the time, whether two people are suitable or not, the key is whether only two people are speculative when talking, so they can see whether the other party is suitable for themselves when eating. In fact, I will find that some people can disguise themselves in some scenes, but it is likely that they will also be unable to disguise themselves because of some special scenes when dining, and it is precisely because of this that if the other party can disguise themselves, you can also see that the other party is tired. So for us, whether two people are really suitable for dinner can completely depend on each other, and words and deeds can judge a lot of information about each other.

In fact, for us, most of the time people are more inclined to play the piano when eating, and because of this, at this time we are more able to judge the other party's personality, understand and understand the other party's level, and the past level, from some aspects, we can see the other party's potential character, and we can't understand whether the other party is suitable for us when eating.

"If two people are compatible or not, you will know after a meal! ”

It is indeed possible to know, because if two people eat with different tastes, then it means that there will be many contradictions in life that are not suitable.

Yes. You can see each other's cultivation from the time you eat, and you can also see whether the other party and yourself have a common language and whether the three views are the same from the chat.

I think it's impossible to know whether two people are suitable just by eating a meal, and it takes two people to get along for a long time to know whether the other person is suitable for you.

I think yes, eating together can see the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, and you can know whether the other person is generous or not.

Why do people eat?

Eating in life is God's will, and it is a very beautiful thing, not a very nasty thing.

Eating is God's will, God's command, and God has His good will. As it is written, "Remember the Lord your God who guided you forty years in the wilderness, to try you and test you, to know what is in your heart, whether you will keep his commandments or not."

He afflicted you and kept you hungry, and gave you manna to eat, which you and your fathers did not know, so that you might know that man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of the Lord (Deuteronomy 8:2-3). "There's a lot of beauty in that:

First, God wants us to remember His nurturing grace to us. Second, God trained us with hunger and thirst in order to enable us to demonstrate virtue and to show the beauty of inner loyalty and obedience. So we have to eat, and if you don't eat you won't be hungry, and if you don't starve, you won't be able to show your heart's loyalty to the Lord and obey the commands, and the tree of good and evil will lose its meaning for Adam.

Third, God wants us to understand that man lives by His Word, not by food alone, so that we can see that we will die after eating for decades. Don't think that we live by eating food, that if God doesn't want you to live, no amount of food you eat, and if God doesn't want you to die, you won't die without eating or drinking at Mount Sinai for forty days and forty nights. We eat today by the word of God, because God commanded us to eat (Gen. 1:).

29. Mark 5:43). We live by listening to God's Word and eating food, so we live by the word that comes out of God's mouth. In the future, God will want us to go without food, and then we will also have to live without food because of God's Word.