Why the colder the woman, the more the man likes it

In psychology, this phenomenon of "not forbidden, the more forbidden it becomes", it is called the "Pandora effect" or "forbidden fruit effect". The psychological essence of the Pandora effect is curiosity and rebellion at work.

When a woman ignores a man, the more likely it is to arouse his curiosity and desire to pursue. Because if you are cold, he will be hot, and if you keep your distance, the more he will want to get close to you. If you don't have expectations and go with the flow, his reaction will not make you suffer from gains and losses.

The more he doesn't get it, the more he will put in the effort to win your love.

From the moment a man starts to have a crush on a woman, he will pay attention to everything about this woman, including going to work in **? What do you do? What do you like to eat? What are your hobbies? Wait, as long as there is anything about this woman, he wants to know.

Most men are action-oriented, and next, he will think about what kind of way to invite, whether it is a meal, a shopping or a movie. It's all about wanting to get close to each other and get to know each other. If the other party refuses, this stimulates the man's curiosity and desire to conquer even more.

Then next time, he will go to the appointment. If the other party really has no good feelings for him or even hates him, the attitude of refusal insists on being decisive, and the possible man will give up, and some men will continue.

Because everyone has different perseverance, determination, patience, and emotional intelligence, they will choose different ways to deal with things. I had a male classmate in high school who chased a female classmate, chased him for three years in high school, four years in college, and another two years after work. Finally, the female classmate was tempted.

But in the end it didn't come together.

I remember very clearly, the male classmate said that after chasing it, I felt that my goal for many years had finally been achieved, and the good impression I had for the female classmate had disappeared, just to pursue a goal in life.

This also profoundly illustrates that when a man's curiosity and desire to conquer a woman are satisfied, the beautiful feelings may become just a purpose. The more Pandora was not allowed to open the box, the more he wanted to open it. The more women refuse, the more men have to chase after them, and if you don't let me chase them, the more I want to get them, it's the same reason.

And human beings usually have such a mentality, when for one thing or a thing, the more time and energy spent, the more difficult the process, then when he gets it, the more he will cherish it, because it is not easy to get.

Because such a woman is very good, and she is also very temperamental, attractive, and very attractive, so she can be favored by men.

Because the colder the woman for men, the more challenging and easier it is to attract their attention, and they will try to make women notice their existence and take the initiative to pursue it.

Personally, I think that the reason why the colder women are easier to win men's hearts is because they are relatively unpredictable to men.

First, the more infatuated people are, the more ruthless they are As we all know, most women are more emotional than boys, and they are more lonely and brave in their relationships.