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If it were me, I would "turn the big things into small ones" for the things I insisted on, divide them into small goals, and urge myself to complete these small goals every day, so as to keep getting closer to the big goals, just like Morton Hunt said, "take one step, take another step", and when you look back after a long time, you will find that you are constantly breaking through yourself, and you have unconsciously walked a long way.
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This is because you have no self-control, you always fish for three days and dry the nets for two days, at this time you have to seek help from others, you can let your parents or friends supervise you, once you want to give up, you may have the motivation to move forward with the reminder of friends.
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If you can't find a reason to stick with it, find a reason to start over, life is as simple as that. With a little courage, you can turn your life around and start anew. Life is too short to leave time for regrets, if it is not the end, please smile and keep moving forward.
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It shows that you are not patient enough, and it is recommended that you can go to the army to train for a few years.
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If you find that you have no beginning and no end, then you have to force yourself to change this phenomenon, because after you are born into society, this phenomenon will make you suffer a great loss.
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There will always be a beginning and an end to doing things on your own, you should try to change it, try to finish something, it will be very fulfilling.
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There is no beginning and no end to doing things, mainly because this person does not have the courage to persevere, so he has to exercise and persist in this endurance.
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Make a long-term plan for yourself, such as going to graduate school. Find a timeline, plan what you want to do each day, and tick the boxes to complete them in order of projects.
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Explain that your self-control is very poor, and it is best to have a friend to supervise you to complete it.
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It is to teach yourself a lesson, to see the consequences that you have left because you have no beginning and no end, and then let yourself know what to do.
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I will find a good partner and let him push me, so that when I do things, there is someone to urge me, and there will be a beginning and an end.
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If you want to change the status quo, you should exercise your will.
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It is that you should study hard, and you should try to persevere, because perseverance can lead to success.
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Think about how to do this thing before doing it, and force yourself to finish it and do it well.
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Summary. There is a beginning and an end, in addition to being inherited as the behavior and habits of the Chinese nation for thousands of years, it also represents an end and respect for things, whether it is to do things, the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation are required to have a beginning and an end, if there is only three minutes of heat at the beginning, if you don't stick to it, there is no way to succeed without a beginning.
There is a beginning and an end, in addition to being inherited as the behavior and habits of the Chinese nation for thousands of years, it is also an end and respect for things on behalf of their own thoughts, whether it is to be a person who does things, the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation are required to have a beginning and an end, such as the mountain dust fruit only has the beginning of the three-minute heat, if you don't stick to the high Zen, there is no way to succeed without a beginning and an end.
What is the benefit of having a beginning and an end.
If you insist on going ** just for three days, but No. 4 has no results and achievements, if you cut it for 300 days or 30 days, there will be some results in the middle skin It will make you have more sense of harvest and pride.
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I think the most important thing is to build self-confidence in yourself, as long as you believe in yourself, then you can do it at any time.
Accomplishing nothing, being incapable is the definition of oneself when people can't find a channel between reality and ideals. The purpose of life is not necessarily to achieve something. Don't be ambitious, do your own thing well, keep learning to improve yourself, continue to learn from life to behave in the world, and keep accumulating strength to make yourself strong.
Someday someone will see you, and before the opportunity comes, make yourself the one who has the ability to seize it. Make these things you should work on now, and you won't be passive.
However, I still have to say that "perfectionism" cannot be blamed for "achieving nothing". Regardless of whether there is a problem with "perfectionism" or not, most of us will spend our lives in an "ordinary" way. There is nothing wrong with "ordinary", the division of "ordinary" or "extraordinary" is itself extreme.
When we say that we "can't achieve anything" because of perfectionism, we are still in this illusion, just as we love to plan: "If I don't have perfectionism, I'm actually a person who can do great things", "If I get rid of perfectionism, I will be able to achieve great things". Perfectionism has finally carried this black pot for us to "achieve nothing", and we are even secretly relieved while we are anxious:
Finally found **, "I'm saved".
Since you want to change the status quo, you have to peel yourself off layer by layer, see what you really want in your heart, and then you look at how you can achieve the goal you want to achieve, which is a process of decomposition from top to bottom. Only when the layers are broken down and finally fall to the executable level, coupled with some external encouragement and supervision, can you really be reborn.
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It's not easy to change if you can't achieve anything, but if you've made up your mind, start small, start small, and change yourself slowly.
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There is no other way but to force yourself to change and learn to change your attitude towards life. Everyone's attitude towards life is different, and life is different. Regardless of your attitude in front of you, please be positive and optimistic from now on, calm your heart, think about what kind of life you really need, and change what you want, if not anything, at least you have tried.
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You have to find out the reason why you can't achieve anything, whether you are not good enough or not working hard enough, if you are not good enough, you have to work hard to change yourself and make yourself good.
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If you can't do anything yourself, you have to make changes in time. You can start with your lifestyle habits and develop a good routine first.
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Don't feel that it's too late to change, it's never too late to work hard, starting from the present, making a little change every day is a farewell to the past and nothing.
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Young people, career things can't be done slowly, you will do a career after going to various places to slowly understand the world, you are normal when you are confused now, but you have to believe in the future.
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First of all, don't give up like this, be confident in life, the future is very long, no one knows what will happen, set a small goal for yourself first, and then achieve it through your own efforts, as long as you are willing to pay, there will definitely be a return.
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If you feel like you're not accomplishing anything, you need to make changes as soon as possible, such as developing good habits, which is the first step.
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Since you know that you can't achieve anything, then make yourself more self-motivated and work hard to get what you want.
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If it were me, then I would choose to leave my environment and find a place where I could grow up.
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First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths. Then, let your strengths play to your strengths.
This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good.
This is the most basic. Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths.
Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence.
If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything. The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle.
As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence. Of course, maybe take your time. You can start with small things and gradually increase them.
Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes.
As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength. Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you.
Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset. Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself.
When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything.
In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you.
To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.
Why don't you care so much about him? It is necessary to have the momentum that the world exists only for itself. Have the courage to go your own way and let others do what they say.
No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves.
When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people.
The last sentence: Believe in yourself, and you will be full of self-confidence. It's all about the mindset.
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If you can't stick to it, give up! It's just a temporary abandonment! The most important thing is that you still need the next test.
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