What should I do? What should I do in this case?

Wife, cherish. In addition, let's be friends with that love.

In this case, I will choose a new leader to keep me, but you need to seriously consider the following:

1.Job prospects: You will need to assess your career prospects and how challenging your new job will be if you are transferred. If you have significantly better prospects and a higher level of challenge after being transferred, you may want to consider following in the footsteps of your old leader.

2.Benefits: It is also necessary to compare the benefits of the two positions, and if the benefits offered by the new position are significantly better than the original position, you can also consider staying.

3.Partnership with leadership: You need to evaluate your partnership with your current leader, and if you work well and trust each other, it's a good reason to stay.

4.Help for personal growth: If the opportunity to stay is more conducive to your personal growth, it is likely to be the best choice you make.

Based on the above factors, you can make an informed decision.

But it's important to always think about your own personal career development and where you'll be headed in the future. If you feel that following the old leader can make you better develop in your career, then it may be more suitable to follow the old leader;

If you think there are more opportunities for growth in your existing team, it is wiser to stay. In any case, you need to communicate openly with the new leadership, let them understand your ideas, show respect and understanding for the decisions you make, and at the same time, you should take into account the interests of the company before making decisions.

First of all, as a husband who cares about marriage and family, I will try to maintain positive communication and talk openly and honestly with my wife about this issue. Respecting each other's feelings and ideas is the basis for conflict resolution.

Secondly, I think about my own values and my view of marriage. Everyone has a different perspective on money and marriage, so understanding and respecting your wife's point of view is key. Marriage is based on trust, understanding, and sharing, not just money-based transactions.

In addition, I would consider the actual impact of my wife's ex-boyfriend in our married life. If I believe that our marriage is solid, happy, and that the other person is able to happily participate in his marriage, then I may choose to leave the past behind and focus on our bright future.

Finally, as for the amount of gifts for my wife's ex-boyfriend's wedding, I will make reasonable considerations based on my own financial situation and family pre-calculation. Although money is not the only measure of marital happiness, it should not be taken lightly. We can make appropriate decisions based on our own circumstances and the depth of our relationship.

In conclusion, in the face of such a situation, it is important to remain calm, reasonable, and respectful. Through positive communication and understanding, as well as reflection on our own values and those of our marriage, we can find the solutions that work best for us.