Is the dowry money given by the parents hard earned money?

I feel that in this case, most of the dowry money given by parents is hard-earned money, and parents must have worked hard for their children all their lives, and they must hope that their children will have a good life, so they have endured hardships and suffered in order to save as much money as possible for their children to start a family.

。If it is not counted, the dowry money is the woman's premarital property or personal property belonging to the woman, it is the woman's personal property, and it is given to the woman by the woman's parents at the time of marriage, but not the property jointly owned by the husband and wife, and it should be deemed that the woman's parents gave it to their children alone, and the dowry given by the woman's maiden family was given to the woman by the woman's parents.

According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 18 stipulates: "In any of the following circumstances, it shall be the property of one of the husband and wife:

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

2) Medical expenses, living allowances for the disabled, and other expenses received by one party as a result of bodily injury;

3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife;

4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side;

5) Other property that shall belong to one side.

Extended Materials. Property of one party before marriage.

On the issue of one party's pre-marital property. The current Marriage Law clearly stipulates that the property of one party before marriage is personal property, so the provision in the 1993 Opinions on the Division of Property that the personal property of one of the spouses can be converted into the joint property of the husband and wife under certain conditions no longer applies. Specifically, there are two types of property:

The first is the property owned by one party before marriage, which is jointly used, operated and managed by both parties after marriage. Houses and other pre-marital personal means of production of greater value may be regarded as joint property of the husband and wife after 8 years and 4 years of valuable means of subsistence.

Second, during the existence of the marriage, the demobilization and transfer expenses received by demobilized and professional servicemen shall be counted as the joint property of the husband and wife if they have been married for more than 10 years. In this regard, Article 19 of the Interpretation (I) on the Application of the Marriage Law also clearly stipulates: "Article 18 of the Marriage Law stipulates that all the property of one of the husband and wife shall not be converted into the joint property of the husband and wife due to the continuation of the marital relationship, unless otherwise agreed by the parties."

In accordance with the spirit of the community of marital income stipulated in the marriage legislation of 1950 and 1980, the fruits of pre-marital property after marriage have always been regarded as joint property of husband and wife. However, the Marriage Law, promulgated on 28 April 2001, does not stipulate that "the fruits of pre-marital property shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife". Obviously, since the effective date of the amended Marriage Law in 2001, the fruits of the property of one of the spouses before marriage and after marriage belong to the personal property of one of the spouses.

This situation depends on the specific family situation and cannot be generalized. In my personal opinion, if the family's financial situation is not very good, then it is understandable for parents to use the bride price money to marry their daughters. However, if the family is in a better financial situation, it is better not to do so.

First of all, there has been a dowry in China in recent years, not only in recent years, but also in recent years. Basically, the dowry is intact. Parents with good financial conditions will add a little more money to marry the girl. There is no such thing as a dowry being used to buy a dowry.

For example, the mother gave a gift of 30,000 yuan to her parents, a dowry cash of 10,000 yuan, a diamond ring worth 5,000 yuan, a TV, computer, refrigerator, washing machine worth 10,000 yuan, and trivial items such as rice cookers and quilts worth 5,000 yuan, totaling 10,000 yuan. My brother's wife's family wants to marry a house of 130 square meters (10,000 for a total of 1.95 million).

Second, some of the in-laws of the man's family are also very pedantic. Those who do not want a bride price consider them cheap daughters-in-law. They don't treat others well, and they don't like bride price.

A neighbor of my mother's house, the man is not tall, about 1.65 meters, the woman is 1.67 meters, the length of the person is okay, and he is quite capable, the man is an urban hukou, the woman is a rural hukou, at that time the woman's parents thought that it would be good to get married and go to the city, no bride price, this daughter-in-law can also do it, she built two sets of affordable housing for her mother-in-law. In this way, the mother-in-law and husband still look down on the daughter-in-law.

Thirdly, although theoretically, the marriage of the younger generation should not say that the parents buy a house or let the parents buy a house, which is unrealistic. These young people graduated from university and started working. They got married at the age of 30.

How many people can go from having nothing to owning a car and a house in seven or eight years? Of course, there are also good conditions at home, and there are people who can help them in their work and career. It's not easy to get the down payment for a house.

Normally, parents on both sides of the family want to help their children, while parents help buy big things. The general way is bride price and dowry.

This kind of behavior cannot be said to be wrong, but it cannot be said that he is right, because it is his own precious daughter, so most people will choose to use their own private money to buy a dowry for their daughter, and the bride price money is for the daughter. However, when the parents are unable to support it, they will also use the bride price money to buy a dowry.

According to our ancient Chinese marriage customs, the money and things given by the man will return to the man's family, which is part of the woman's dowry, and the other part of the woman's dowry is the woman's family to accompany the things, generally half of the dowry, of course, half of the quantity, the quality can not be required, the woman's family attaches importance to all the valuable goods, and does not pay much attention to the face, so the daughter is called a money-losing goods.

If you use your bride price to buy you a dowry, I don't think it's a problem at all, because all this money is spent on you, and many families do that.

Hello, it is not right for parents to use your own bride price money to buy a dowry, it is better for parents to pay for their daughter's dowry themselves.

If the parents want to use the bride price to buy a dowry, then these bride prices should be bought as a dowry, so that you can bring it to the man's house to reduce the pressure on the man, and you can communicate with the man's family, and their family bride price will be brought back as a dowry.

There's no right or wrong in this matter, my parents are like that, and no one else can change it, and you can't not get married for it.

The customs of each place are different, and the family conditions are also different, if the family conditions are not very good, there is nothing wrong with using your own bride price money to buy a dowry, it is much better than not bringing it back, and we have many of them that we can't bring back.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 657: A gift contract is a contract in which the donor gives his property to the donee free of charge, and the donee expresses or accepts the gift per mu.

Article 658:The donor may revoke the gift before the transfer of the right to the donated property. The provisions of the preceding paragraph do not apply to notarized gift contracts that are resistant to the state or that must not be revoked in accordance with law and are in the nature of public welfare or moral obligations such as disaster relief, poverty alleviation, or assistance to the disabled.

In this case, your behavior should be a gift, and you should not have the right to take it back. However, if the real estate certificate of the house belongs to your parents, and they give it to you to live in, and the real estate certificate is theirs, the parents have the right to take it back in this situation.

Legal basis: Article 5 of the Supreme People's Court's Interpretation (1) on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if a party requests the return of the color chain that was paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained to fall under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The two parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

Legal analysis: This kind of behavior is a gift behavior, which has transferred ownership and has no right to take it back.

The provisions of the preceding paragraph do not apply to notarized gift contracts that are in the nature of public welfare or moral obligations such as disaster relief, poverty alleviation, or assistance to the disabled, which may not be revoked in accordance with law.

Legal Analysis: In this case, your behavior should be a gift, and you should not have the right to take it back. However, if the real estate certificate belongs to your parents, they give you to live in, and the real estate certificate is theirs, in this case, the parents have the right to take it back.

Legal basis: Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section (1) Article 5: Where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with the sedan chair custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained to fall under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the violent divorce of both parties.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 657 A gift contract is a contract in which the donor gives his property to the donee free of charge, and the donee expresses his acceptance of the gift.

Article 658:The donor may revoke the gift before the transfer of the right to the donated property. The provisions of the preceding paragraph do not apply to notarized gift contracts or gift contracts that may not be revoked in accordance with law and have public interest or moral obligations such as disaster relief, poverty alleviation, and assistance to the disabled.