What do you think is important when making friends?

To make friends, you first get to know yourself, and then you choose who you want to make friends with. People live in groups, and things gather like likes"There is truth to this statement. You can't make friends too far apart, you can't have too many extravagant expectations when making friends, first set your position and identity.

To make friends, you must choose a gentleman, and the villain can't get close to half a step. The gentleman is frank, and the villain is a relative"(In the past, in the countryside, there was a proverb about what kind of friends to make, the officials were poor, the guests were rich, and the bandits had no place to live). If you are handed over to the official, although he can bring you some convenience, at the same time, the economic benefits brought by the convenience will also be given to him a part.

If you make a deal with a businessman, he will take you to the circle of doing business, and you will get a certain amount of economic **. If you make bad friends, if you accidentally make friends with them, bad luck will keep finding you.

For example, if you have a very sensitive friend, you inadvertently make a joke and go too far, and say how you are reincarnated with Sister Lin, people may be unhappy and unhappy. Therefore, generous friends are worth socializing, so that the process of getting along is not so restrictive, and they can be themselves freely. Coincidentally, when I was about to get off work yesterday, a good friend called me, she was on the way to get off work, the whistle sounded, and my life in the company was noisy.

The two of them chatted with each other in a few decibels, and suddenly I said I hung up when I had something, and she was also very happy, ok, I'm home. Talk time, ten minutes. We basically do it once a month**.

The same is true of how often I keep in touch with other good friends. But this did not affect my friendship with my friends, and there were a few times when I encountered some difficulties in my life and posted a circle of friends. Within an hour, friends who don't usually contact each other came to ask if they needed financial support, yes, it's as simple as that.

Usually, no one likes some nonsense things posted in the circle of friends, but when you really have something, someone will definitely find you as soon as possible and give you the greatest help. People who don't often contact you are actually silently guarding you, this is a friend.

I have a friend who is very extroverted, I am a slow heater and very introverted, and I will talk more and more after I get to know each other. It's a lot of fun to play with her, she's very optimistic and likes her mentality, and there are endless topics to talk about, and the vision of buying clothes is not too much, anyway, it's the kind that can't play together enough. If I were a man, I would have chased her, but unfortunately it was all women.

Making friends really has to keep your eyes open, making good friends can be friendly and happy for a lifetime, and making bad friends will really add to your blockage. My personal experience in making friends for many years has summarized two points: one is to look at the character and selflessness, and the other is to look at the personality preferences.

Make a good friend who is like-minded and has common interests and hobbies, can play together, have things to take on together, and belong to that kind of real confidant. When you are in a bad mood, he can comfort you and make you happy as soon as possible, because he knows you best!Make an open-minded friend, you won't be too careful about everything, you won't have conflicts over trivial things, and you will always be happy with him!

Exchanges between friends should be frank. This is about discovering who you will be friends with and who you can't after some deletions. Friends, by sharing their own experiences and insights, let themselves know each other better, and at the same time, let each other make progress together.

Because people with public interests and hobbies will have a common language, they will talk together.

There are two main points in making friends: honesty and kindness. If a person can't do these two things, don't hand them over!As the saying goes, if a person does not have an honest heart for others and is capricious, this kind of person will suffer sooner or later.

People on the road are in the most relaxed state, and the friends they make in this state are often very casual. You can judge the stranger you meet on the road by talking to him, and most people who speak politely and pay attention to protecting their privacy will most likely respect the privacy of others. Those who ask you all sorts of questions about your private life are overly curious, and they are far more interested in gossiping about others than in discussing the exploration of the unknown.

If you encounter specific difficulties during your journey, people who love gossip and those who love adventure will react very differently.

Generous, decent. He is very practical to people, and he knows the truth of knowing how to repay his kindness. We're going to have a great time together.

There are basically very few contradictions. And this friend is very good at listening to opinions, and if she is right, she will accept it with an open mind. She will also dissuade and give advice where I am not doing things properly.

It's very comfortable to get along with this kind of friend, and you don't feel out of sight.

Although there are many ways to make friends, when we make friends, we should also pay attention to distinguishing which friends are worth socializing with, and which friends should be kept away as soon as possible, so as not to bring more unpleasantness. ** helps you analyze which friends are worth socializing with and which ones should be kept away from as soon as possible.

The most important thing for me to make friends is the quality of a person, although we cannot be like a saint in the world for the public, selfless dedication, but a person has a kind, benevolent and honest heart, can be in the same boat with it, through difficulties.

What kind of person are you, what kind of person is your friend, you are honest and trustworthy, your friend will also be such a person, otherwise how would you choose him as a friend, people's sixth sense is very accurate, friends are a mirror, and what you see is what you have.

My principle of making friends is first to look at the character, and then to see whether the personality is compatible or not.

Make friends with heart, and the rest really doesn't care too much.

The most important thing in making friends is to make friends, to see if this person is worth befriending.

Summary. 1. Respect for others is respect for oneself. The first thing that friends can't do in their interactions is to respect each other, including respecting each other's privacy, respecting each other's preferences, respecting each other's feelings, and so on.

1. Respect for others is respect for oneself. The first thing that friends can't do in their interactions is to respect each other's Lu Cong, and the Bi clan includes respecting each other's privacy, respecting each other's regrets and preferences, respecting each other's feelings, and so on.

2. Friends should get along with each other to a certain degree. Whether it is getting along with friends of the same sex or between friends of the opposite sex, there should be a degree, and the line between two people cannot be crossed, especially when getting along with friends of the opposite sex. 3. To make friends, you must recognize the character of the other party.

The reason why human beings want to make friends is because human beings live in groups, and only by making friends with people with similar interests can they live up to the essence of human beings living in groups.

Dear, I hope you make like-minded friends!

In society, friends are very important people, and without friends, it can be said that it is difficult for most people, so in ordinary interpersonal interactions, we must pay attention to avoid some "taboos".

1. "Don't" is untrustworthy.

Make friends with people, focus on the word "letter", to be honest, trustworthy, to do what you say, you can't regard the promise as child's play, the mouth is good, but it can't be implemented, and even rely on deception to gain the trust of others, like this person who is untrustworthy, others will see through his true face sooner or later, and he is naturally unwilling to make friends with him.

2. "Taboo" crossing the river and demolishing the bridge.

When making friends with others, it is natural to help each other, and to be grateful for the help of others, you can't just take advantage of others to help you, and cross the river and tear down the bridge after the fact. In addition, making friends is important in equality, once some people have a high status, once they have made a career, they are very indifferent to their former friends, and even turn their faces and do not recognize people, which is also a manifestation of crossing the river and demolishing the bridge, not only can not make friends, but also easy to offend people.

3. "Taboo" pro-sparse grading.

In real life, some people make friends with people, very utilitarian, the pursuit of pragmatism, who is more useful to him, he will be more enthusiastic to whom, and even flatter, who is useless to him, then cold-eyed, blind or perfunctory, this too snobbish approach, by no means the way to make friends, will inevitably be spurned by others, people away.

Fourth, "jealousy" hypocrisy and jealousy.

There is nothing more detestable than hypocrisy and jealousy in making friends with others. Knowing that his friend made a mistake of filial piety, but he still blindly covered it up, even touted it in disguise, and praised him as protecting his friend, which is actually a manifestation of hypocrisy; Once a friend has achieved something, it is not appropriate to be happy for his friend, but he is jealous of Hu Sheng, fortifying everywhere, and even secretly making stumbling blocks. Such a manifestation of hypocrisy and jealousy will not make true friends.

Fifth, "taboo" pretentious.

To make friends with others, it is important to treat others modestly, no matter how capable you are, do not dwarf your friends, and consciously protect the dignity and face of your friends, so that you can make more friends. On the contrary, being too conceited and pretentious, so that no one is in sight, will only make people dispel you, or even turn away from you.

Sixth, "taboo" is calculated.

If you are too selfish when making friends with others, you are too selfish, you are not willing to eat at all, and you will fight for the advantage, then you will not be able to make a real friend.

7. "Don't" is demanding of others.

When the water is clear, there are no fish, and if people are observant, there are no disciples", and people who are too harsh often have no friends. Because everyone has flaws and deficiencies, in this regard, you must know how to tolerate and understand, so that others will also tolerate and understand you, so that each other can learn from each other's strengths, live in harmony, and form a sincere friendship.

Of course, sincerity is nirvana, and if a person is hypocritical, then it will be difficult for him to make friends.